i and my bf r going around for the last 1 month..i know him since the last 10-12 yrs...hez a gr8 guy n i really love him...he also luves me but d prblm is dat hes too tall 4 me...im just 5'2 while hes 6'3...i know its a stupid problm but yet...i dnt even reach his shoulder...even though he tells me 2 wear heels when im with him but i just hate wearing dem'...i dont mind wearing dem for him but wearing heels gives me pain in my knees...wat do i do????????
2007-01-15 20:08:29 · 16 answers · asked by cool girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everything is fine in love....
but why does he ask u to wear high heels..... he shd love u the way u r..
tell him that wearing those high heels sandles causes u problem and pain in knees.....
i hope he will ask u to not to wear them...... if he trully loves u.
2007-01-15 20:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Siya... I think height should hardly matter in this kind of relationship. I am a 6'3" athletic person, and my gf is 5'4"!!
But height is never an issue between us. Just think, can we at all let those problems persist or affect us, solutions of which, we don't have?
This is a natural phenomenon and there's nothing much we can do. So, better IGNORE this problem and live life normally. U can peacefully explain it to him-and he HAS to understand. For if he doesn't, ask him to find out a NATURAL, solution.
2007-01-16 05:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by thunders_1107 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as u've said this is a petty issue 4 a girl but it wud b a problem if it was a boy...but babes if u say he really loves u then he should love u 4 who u r..that's wat makes love precious n builds trust. if heels r painin then don't wear 'em coz if u r doin somethin forcibly n tryin 2 impress him then it would weaken ur r'ship, just b proud of who u r, u can't help it if god has given u this height. if he's saying sumthin which is not a problem 4 u then u should try 2 change it but not those things which hurts u. just let him know ur problem if he really loves u then he'll never mention abt u wearin heels...gud luck!
2007-01-16 06:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't wear heels sweaty
y r u confusing Ur self for such n stupid differences
love has nothing to do with language, traditions, habits to height differences so y r u taking it so seriously
he loves u n u loves him that's the story then have n sweat little end
other stuffs comes n goes but true love last forever so girl don't worry so much about it
god bless u
2007-01-16 05:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If wearing heels hurt u then tell ur bf this and im sure he will definately understands u and always remember when ur in luv height, weight, looks never matter only things that matter is heart so if he is good at heart n luvs u alot then he will understand ur problem ok sweetie tk cr....
god bless u....................
2007-01-16 05:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by pearly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live him....
in one month u came with serious problem in your relationship...
take example Amitab Bacchan , he never asked jaya to wear hig heels...
Its matter of love...so whts problem....also u r 5.2'..u having good hight as comapared inidan Girls....
Wearin heels ..in long run will create physical problems for you...
2007-01-16 04:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dheeraj Kumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u heard about 'Amitabh Bacchan' & 'Jaya Bacchan', Bollywood SUPER STARS....... ?????
If yes,........ than u should see u & ur Lover as them.....
As age doesnt matter in LOVE......... SAme "HEIGHT Doesnt matter too....
&& If u dont know abt these Super Stars... than I'll tell u :-
"Amitabh Bacchan'' & ''Jaya Bacchan'' , married couple.
Amit ji age is around 65 to 68 but still '""'HE IS A SUPER STAR""....
Amit ji Height is around 6.1 & Jaya ji Height is I think less than 5.1
& they looks great toghther.......
So, I just waan say that ''Dont think aal these things''........ Ofcourse,, it doesnt matter............
BE HAPPY IN UR LOVE LIFE!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 04:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey babes if ur hurt then dont wear them m sure that ur bf will understand n secondly u both look damn cool together (whtever may b the height)
coz m 5'4 n my bf's 5'3.....
v 2 look damn cool together so dont worry...!!!
n if u really wanna still wear them then i think u should try platform heels!!!
take care
2007-01-16 04:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by aaaaaa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How does height matter? If he really loves you, he should accept you for what you are. Look at Amitabh and Jaya Bachchan.
2007-01-16 07:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by sonal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a problem you have to talk to him about and not with the general population!
2007-01-16 04:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋