i have been dating my hubbi for abt 6 years and jst got married.. i always think that i can never survive if i lose my hubbi.. i reali love him so so much.. but i also do feel that wat i have over him is obsession and its not healthy.. is it true?? how can i change myself??
2007-01-15 20:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your problem sounds more like insecurity than obsession to me. You are right it is not healthy for you to have these feelings so strongly. Has your husband ever given you reason to feel insecure about yourself or your marriage ?? I personally think you need to stop worrying, l'm sure your husband loves you and is not going anywhere. You need to build up your low self esteem and you will be fine. Best of luck to you
2007-01-15 22:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go to counseling and get help for this feeling and insecurity.... This is not really healthy but not totally abnormal either.
2007-01-16 05:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if it is obsessive...Has he done anything to make you not trust him or it it inside you? If he hasn't done anything relax and enjoy him, you will run him away faster if you nag him...
2007-01-16 04:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋