Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

I got a group of firends in their mid to late 20's who have bad luck with women in the past. They are perceived as "nice" . Every Saturday night they refuse to go out saying women are stupid and no need to unless they mature. Listening to this once in a while is normal I understand that we all gotta have time off and vent Now I do go out anyway most Weeeknd nights and even if I dont score, I go out to have a good time and meet folks.
Anyway, I read an article about how being around negative folks affects your attitude. Even though Im not affected by it much, I was wondering if the Im just chilling attitude all the time is ruining them?
Making them not accept the fact they might need to change?
IM not perfect I got issues also . But to think all women are dumb all thei time is just well egotistical what do you guys think?

2007-01-10 01:00:47 · 1 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds stupid but why are girls such bitches? I have about 4 really good female friends, but I feel like the rest of the female population is going mad.

They either hate you for no good reason!
They think that the world revolves around them and because you are in that world, you must revolve around them!

When you have a great guy, why do these ***** women instead of thinking, he's nice I wanna guy like him, they think I WANT HIM!

Am I the only girl that thinks like this cos I really do feel like I am losing my mind.

2007-01-10 01:00:37 · 19 answers · asked by EveyM 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What if I have the same exact feeling for my ex and my bf. How do i decide who I choose?

2007-01-10 00:59:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-10 00:58:15 · 15 answers · asked by Mail J 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone at a Halloween party and we have spent the last 2 months getting to know one another. All of a sudden the Friday before New Years they told me that they could not do this,they were investing too much in the "feelings dept" and I wasn't and that they didn't want to get hurt. Do you think, USUALLY, it's possible to love in 2 months?Do think that they were being truthful about the reason the broke it off? And I didn't even get a chance to explore my feelings on the matter...

2007-01-10 00:57:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am ready...again...to try to resolve some issues in my marrieage. We live like roommates. We don't even share a bedroom. I have tried to talk to him before about our failing marriage and he always tells me "if that's what you think, it's your problem". Suggesting that if I'm not happy, then I have decided to be unhappy. I am ready again to try to make a difference. I am very aware that we have both made mistakes. However, he has been the one to let the issues fester. I try to talk to him and I get ignored or a sarcastic sorry. He is completely dissinterested in sex so that isn't a way for me to get his attention. He finds me ugly and unattractive (I recently lost 20 pounds & it keeps coming off, I'm not skinny, but not fat either, normal). I need some ideas on how to get him to listen. Have any women out there been in this situation and broken through to him. Or husbands, were you ever so bored or uninterested in your wife, but something changed things? I'd like to know.

2007-01-10 00:57:37 · 16 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

is ignoring you part of this game?

this guy had been chasing me for a while but now hes ignoring me. we have only kissed.

2007-01-10 00:57:08 · 6 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

If you have read my previous questions you will know that I am just deeply in love with someone that I believe deep down loves me. I just need to get him back (and I will)...besides his wife has actually threatened bodily harm on me...she is the crazy one!!!

2007-01-10 00:56:53 · 15 answers · asked by Catina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are getting separated. We've both agreed to this. I've been sleeping on the couch for months. There just isn't anything there anymore, we have other issues, but we've been to marriage counseling and we've also agreed it isn't working. I've been very lonely. I was just wondering, is it ok for me to start a relationship with someone else if I find someone while we're separated? What if I fall in love with someone else? Do I have to wait until I'm divorced to have a relationship with that person?

2007-01-10 00:56:32 · 10 answers · asked by Jenna 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Please be honest, men, how do you really feel about the following:

Stretch marks
Body hair
Varicrose veins
Acne
Cellulite
And other flaws that some women have?

You know that we are constantly freaking out about these things and sometimes we have no control over them...

I'm wondering how much it really bothers men. Do you want us all to be perfect tens? Would you leave us 6's or 7's if a ten came along?

2007-01-10 00:56:06 · 16 answers · asked by lookinforanswers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone at a Halloween party and we have spent the last 2 months getting to know one another. All of a sudden the Friday before New Years they told me that they could not do this,they were investing too much in the "feelings dept" and I wasn't and that they didn't want to get hurt. Do you think at possible to love in 2 months?Do think that they were being truthful about the reason the broke it off? And I didn't even get a chance to explore my feelings on the matter...

2007-01-10 00:54:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It would be interesting to know if you pay more for some rather than others. Also are there anyone who would consider marring for money.

2007-01-10 00:54:50 · 26 answers · asked by david c 2 in Singles & Dating

have you been there whats it like?

2007-01-10 00:54:26 · 3 answers · asked by ฿ęŊ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met someone at a Halloween party and we have spent the last 2 months getting to know one another. All of a sudden the Friday before New Years they told me that they could not do this,they were investing too much in the "feeling dept" and I wasn't and that they didn't want to get hurt. Do you think at possible to love in 2 months?Do think that they were being truthful about the reason the broke it off? And I didn't even get a chance to explore my feelings on the matter...

2007-01-10 00:54:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single in high school and every guy that i like just wants to be friends. then every guy that likes me i dont like. then theres an ex that keeps asking me out and i keep refusung him but he wont get a clue. can you help me?

2007-01-10 00:51:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a husband to a wife who has not had a father. Her father is her grandfather. now he has a few short months to live. Cancer in the hip. my wife is taking it very hard. she is becoming hard. to me. i can understand what she it going through but...i cant stand to see her like this. we end up fighting somehow. i dont know how to handle her, what to say, just to make it a bit better. any one know what i should do or say to make her feel ok again. not so angry

2007-01-10 00:51:36 · 22 answers · asked by devsmash 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What am I to do?? My Wife, who otherwise is the cleanest, most rational person i know, simply refuses to wear panties. She says she likes the feeling of freedon going "au natural" gives her and will not change. I suppose I could tolerate it if she wore jeans or pants, but she wears skirts and short dresses 90% of the time. Who Knows who sees what as she gets out of cars and sits across from men on buses and subways. I am beside myself with fear for her and angst for myself at not being able to get thru to her. What should I do to make her see my way of thinking?

2007-01-10 00:50:44 · 31 answers · asked by robert g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Guys……Have you experinced Love ??.....If YES, I need your help…..Here is where I need it…. I use to date a girl in high school…..And we were seeing eachother for about 3 year…..It was soo beautiful we had a great relationship…..We had a great understanding…N…we had a straong emotional connection and a great physical chemistry…..its wasn’t all lust and infactuation like we would at those age…..its was something different…..But…..something happaned……I got a mail from her saying I deserve someone much better then her….she also said that she loved me with all her heart and it was true…..She also told me that she would love to meet that person whome I’ll fall in love with in the future……and the mail was ended wishing me good luck…..At that time I don’t know what happned…Y this mail was sent to me and what was the exact reason behind this…..I Tried…Tried….N…Tried to find out what was the reason what made her write this to me I kenw that her Mom didn’t like we seeing eachother coz she was a orthodox family and falling in Love or going out with someone wasn’t considered appropreate…..I jst couldn’t understand was she forced to write it to me….I jst didn’t kenw…..I tried all ways possible to talk to her but she refused to even speak after that mail…….I had no answers to my question……I did see her at times but she wouldn’t even come near me nor talk……Days passed by years passed by I still had no answer as to what she went through….All I knew was that She loves Me……And I kept my belief…There has been days I havent got sleep…But as years pass by All I belived in was That I still love her the way I always use to…after my highschool I left my town to do my higher studies…Answering my question became a lesser of importance to me as I belived in her that whatever must have made her to take that step will have compelete justified reson to it…what was more impt was that I love her and it was true…Being away from my town I had lost all contacts I did search her on the net time to time but had no links….Belive it or not guys….I have Felt….LOVE…..Its been 10 years since then……Yes TEN years……and Guess what she is still on my mind…the very same way she was Ten years before…….My Love for her is still True…..I feel as if I just saw her last evening…the memories are that very fresh….God I loved her……Okie Guys the good news is Just yesterday I found her contact or the way to reach her as she is registered in one of the sites…..What should I do I want to contact her write to her what should I write offorce she isnt expecting me…as she must be thinking I must be committed by now to someone else and so on and so forth…..as its been ten years….since we last communicated…..The site that she is registered in will show every content that I write inn to all her friends too as it will come on her scrap…and I don’t want that to happen I just want it to be very private….I don’t have a email id all I have is this site were I can write or contact her and wait for her reply….what should I write her should I give her a indrect cule of who I am and tell her to write me her mail id or cell number….if so I just cant write just anything Should I write a poem or dedicate a song and then give her a clue…guys help me out…..!! How should I do it…..I don’t want to loose her this time……I want her to remember what we shared…..and make her feel special……!! Awaiting ur reply….

2007-01-10 00:50:39 · 11 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been seeing this girl alot the last few months just as friends. im interested to no wat you all think. Shes probably the nicest person ive ever met. The last couple of months ive been round her house nearly a lot 4/5 nights a week Mostly we just sit in her room and talk, normally she hugs upto me. I get on with her mum and bros, get offered food when im there and that. Her mum even said to her bout me goin on holiday with them this year. She trys to wind me up, and messes around with me. She always says bout being her friend and that. Im not sure if she is interested in me just as a friend or if she wants more. She normally asks me over to her house. She says im awesome but she also said bout being a best friend to her. What do you people think?

2007-01-10 00:50:38 · 14 answers · asked by grezzor 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend thinks its gross i that before i met him had a "friend with benefits" and we were not in a relationship. Meanwhile i have had 4 partners my whole life (including him) and he has had 15! he says thats fine though because at least he was in a relationship with all these girls.

i say he doesnt have a pot to piss in.



does he have a point? i dont say anything about his multiple parnters unless he brings up my "special friend". he says it disgusts him which i think is dumb. me and my "sex buddy" were both adults with a mutual understanding...i think my boyfriend is just young (he is 3 yrs younger) lots of adults do this from time to time right?

2007-01-10 00:50:29 · 8 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 00:50:16 · 10 answers · asked by *Miss_Autumn* 7 in Weddings

2007-01-10 00:50:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

22yr old girl and a 16yr old lad????? Going out wiv each other......

2007-01-10 00:49:32 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 00:49:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked him why he wants to have sex with me still after the broke up cuz him and i are doing friends with benefits and he tells me its becuz im hot...............WTF

I love him with all my heart! I dont want him doing things with me cuz im "just hot".

He isnt one to go and find girls to mess around with. He is shy i guess i should say. Im the only girl friend in his life. Besides his ma and sis. He isnt really one to talk that much. I guess you can say he is anti social. Idk but it pisses me off cuz I care for him soooo much and when he broke up with me it was horrible. He doesnt what a gf or a relationship with anyone or even mess with anyone else.

Does this mean becuz him and i are friends with benefits does that cut the chances of him and i ever going out again?

I hate this! I hate Men...........PERIOD!

2007-01-10 00:48:38 · 3 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Singles & Dating

4 nights ago i tried to loose my virginity. he had on a condom and tried to do it, but we stopped after 3 tries because his *thing* couldn't fit, it barely went half way in. and it was hurting me so we stopped. I asked him several times if he *came* and he said no not yet. but we ended up NOT doing it anyway. strangely, the next day and even now my stomach feels bloated and gassy. my back hurts(probably from sitting on this chair all day). could i be pregnant?? he said, he checked the condom the next day but didn't see any hole on it. is it because im just paranoid im feeling this way? im supposed to have my period at the end of this month so i highly doubt I'm having cramps because of my period. what can this be?

2007-01-10 00:47:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i told him i could find more girls who wear nothin and he said more wear shorts and a t-shrit

2007-01-10 00:47:38 · 4 answers · asked by baller tom #1 chick magnet 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey,
The other day I heard from a friend that this girl was talking to my boyfriend and saying how she wanted him to be her next boyfriend, and they were saying things to each other that weren't right. I didn't believe it really, but I wanted other opinions, so I did by asking some of my friends, before I went to my boyfriend. One of my friends ended up talking to him first, and I didn't get to explain the whole story to him. I'm worried that he's mad at me for not trusting him, as he got mad at his last girlfriend for accusing him of cheating, when he didn't. What should I do to make things better between us?

<3 Thanks!

2007-01-10 00:47:24 · 13 answers · asked by Winter Wonder 1 in Singles & Dating

Well me and one of my friends decided last night to go together but it feels weird, ive known him for 7 years, should I stay and let things take its course or remain friends?

2007-01-10 00:47:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 00:46:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating