Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

My girlfriend broke up with her ex about 2 1/2 months ago. Shes with me now but ive known her for about a yr. I liked her straight away and she liked me. She broke up with her ex and she didnt hear anything from him but then he called a couple of weeks ago and asked her to take him back. She said no. They talked for great lenght that first time and she told me that he'd called and that he wouldnt call again. But he did the next day. She then told me that shed tell him that it wasnt a good idea for him to call again. But he did. I backed off and let her be. I didnt make demands or pushed assuming shed sort it out. But i found out on monday that hed been calling her loads of times and theyd be talking for hours each time.I feel really hurt by this and my gf basically said that she didnt see any reason why she should stop talking to him. We talked and we came to an agreement that shed only talkk to him every couple of wks...............

2007-01-10 01:33:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I were having a long distance relationship. I have just left him for my career two months ago. Things were all ok before I left. However he wrote me a break-up letter today and told me that he doesn't feel the same way anymore. But he was the sweetest guy I could ever be with. All the things he did for me was so wonderful and more than a normal bf would do. He is now extremely busy with his life but I seriously thought things would stay the same. However he has changed and stopped contacting me. I emailed him a couple times and I got his emails back too. He sounded ok and was sweet. But the thing i don't understand is that why he can change overnight and telling me that he ahs been feeling neglected. He thinks that I never truly understood him. He wants to call it off and move on. How do I get him to contact me again? I am not doing anything right now cuz I think we need a few days off. I know I need to be mature to talk to him. Please help to make him understand my feelings!

2007-01-10 01:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by Citychick 2 in Singles & Dating

I know a friend getting married and moving into a new house. He talks about needing a lot of home stuff to buy Im not able to attend the wedding, but I decided to send him a card with a $150 gift certificate to Home Depot. was that a tacky wedding gift?

2007-01-10 01:32:04 · 23 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Weddings

i kno it will break my moms heart when i tell her that i want to move out and me moving out isnt all her fault.. but i do want some freedom and room to breath n grow up, im 18 and i still have a bedtime...

2007-01-10 01:31:18 · 11 answers · asked by jam_e69 1 in Family

I AM A MAN AND LOVE U ALL SWEET LADEIS PLEASE ANSWER

2007-01-10 01:30:12 · 11 answers · asked by suraj s 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband. He works, does the yardwork, helps with the kids & loves to cook dinner. He has animals he loves & takes awesome care of them. However he rarely goes out. Three times a year he/we may go to a pub with mates to watch a final football game- he is drunk after 2 drinks. His friends invite him to golf, skirmish, music festivals, parties... He insists he would rather stay with the animals, visit his parents farm or go hiking with us. I love doing these things but sometimes I would like to go out to the theatre, festival, e.t.c... He always says I have other people I can do that with but I want to do it with him! I admit when we first met,(7 years ago), I said I did not like eating out,(big mistake!), & till this day we have never eaten out alone, only with our kids or friends/family. He picks me floweres & makes dinners but sometimes I just want to go out with him!! He wont go out with anyone! Should I accept him for all his loveliness & homeliness or what can I do???

2007-01-10 01:29:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need help finding a guy . i am sort of a geek not the ugly one. then i am also quiet and dont get out much. but then again i am only a sophmore in high school. most of the guys i talk to just want to be friends but mostly want answers to home work. how do i get a guy and know that he just looks at me like answer key? or at least find a guy that likes me for me?

2007-01-10 01:29:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What was the cause for divorce and what age were you when you said "I do."

2007-01-10 01:28:41 · 13 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 01:28:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is strange. I dream of someone, i even know details of this mysterious person such as the name, the age and his face and figure. In my dream, he was my boyfriend. The strange thing is, i don't have a boyfriend now, and I have never met such a person in my real life. What do you think this could be?

2007-01-10 01:28:37 · 4 answers · asked by questioning 1 in Singles & Dating

3 boys,husband passed away being going non stop but nowi feel its time to make a start for me and the boys but how...

2007-01-10 01:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by royal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed on the internet my husbands been going to dating sites some of which are gay sites. ok I was wrong for looking at his email but he left himself logged on and curiosity just over came me. So furthermore I looked up his contacts and there were about 50 guys and 25 girls that i dont know saved there so i looked up his profiles and it said he's looking for a man for 1 on 1 sex. Also so say girls some show he's married with kids some show he is not. He is also emailing his ex fiance again. Hes in the army and your not supposed to be gay in the army. i feel like im just a cover up weve been married 2 years and since our youngest was born he never kisses me or wants to spend time together. he acts like it kills him when i want to have sex. and he never initiates sex. We have 2 beautiful boys and he wont let me work because he believes ill find a boyfriend. help im so confused. what should i do?

2007-01-10 01:27:59 · 21 answers · asked by help 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am what some people would call an "overprotective mother" I do not deny it at all. I wont let my kids go to slumber parties. Instead I let them have slumber parties at our house. I wont let them go on field trips unless I accompany them. I do not let them ride a bus to school. I take them. When they are at their dads,I am constantly calling him to make sure he does not let them go outside unless he is right there with them. My children are 12,10,and 8. The oldest 2 are girls and they constantly are telling me to let them do some things without me around all the time. I have gotten all 3 of my kids cell phones to call in case of any kind of emergency. I know they are too young for them but if they are not at home ..I want to make sure I have a way to contact them.I am even worse now cause of the kid William Owenby that has just been kidnapped which is my worse fear. So my question is..is there anything I can let my kids do, without me, where I am not pacing the floors?

2007-01-10 01:27:47 · 16 answers · asked by breeze279755 2 in Family

Despite the fact that I have told my fiancee that I feel it would be too early to marry he is pressuring me. We have only known each other one year. I told him no not now. I am not ready and our relationship is too unstable. Why then does he insist on marrying me anyway? He gave me an ultimatum and I said no anyway. But he still pushes. How do I get him to stop.

2007-01-10 01:27:32 · 4 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 01:26:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-10 01:25:33 · 24 answers · asked by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im getting married this July. It's an outdoor wedding around 6 ish. I know it'll still be daylight. I thought I wanted a unity candle but its going to be outside and still be bright out I dont think it would make sense to me....any ideas or alternatives?

2007-01-10 01:25:05 · 11 answers · asked by cib0385 4 in Weddings

I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy who's 38 and I'm 22. Anyway, stuff happened after my last visit, he didn't call often and didn't reply to my texts - his excuse? "I'm not a texting kind of person". Anyway, after thinking that he doesn't give a damn, I sent him a text saying "Thought u were special not like those using bastards, guess I was wrong". He ignored the text. He had to send me money I left at his place and it took him a while to send it to the point that I told him "As soon as I get that money, you won't hear from me". Anyway, things were settled and I'm seeing him next weekend. Since that incident he's telling me that he's got his guard up now cuz he say's "Whats to say you ain't gonna send me a text like that again" and told me that girls start acting crazy when you start to drop your guard. My sister thinks hes playing me about, he was hinting the other week about us having a baby. I don't know what he's doing, does he like me or is lying to keep me there?HELP

2007-01-10 01:25:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The principal says that all he can do is send the paperwork to the court. The court has done nothing. She is in the 8th grade but has missed so much school over the years that she can't keep up. Recently she has stopped going to school all together. Who can I contact to help me????

2007-01-10 01:24:57 · 11 answers · asked by mail4cme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. I have a 7-year-old son who he has raised during this period of time because his father does not want to be involved. My boyfriend just informed me the other day that he does not think my son belongs to my ex. He says a boy should look like his father and he looks nothing like him. Well my son looks like me! He says he has thought this the entire time. When I tell him there's no way my son belongs to anybody else he acts like he doesn't believe me. I asked if he was wanting me to pursue this issue further and maybe try to get a relationship going with my son and his real dad, get a DNA, or try to get child support but he just says no. Why would he even say this then? I told him this hurt me and he's like oh well, but I don't think think that's his dad. If his dad doesn't do anything for him anyway, what was the point of this comment? I wonder if maybe he's tired of being "daddy" but he says no to this also. Arghhh!!!

2007-01-10 01:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by AngieBaby 3 in Singles & Dating

I love her dearly and can't stand the idea of life without her, she has apologized and said she will never speak to him again, I have never been in this situation and could use some direction....Thanks ahead of time.

2007-01-10 01:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by relyks76 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hello peepz.Im 19 and i have a wonderful boyfriend.He's madly in love with me and we have an awesome relationship as we r best friends as well.I lost my virginity to him a couple of weeks back and it hurt that time.he was very gentle and caring.When we did it the second time(a week back), it hurt again!not only it hurt at times, but i did not feel aroused at all.I could feel what's happening but that's all.afterwards i was so disappointed and started crying.Naturally i thought sex would be as magical for me as it is with other girls.My boyfriend,being the sweetheart he is,calmed me down and said that we'll go to a doctor and check if anything is wrong with either of us.I know we should but im very worried. He's helping me out a lot but i just feel so uncomfortable.what should i do?

2007-01-10 01:22:52 · 12 answers · asked by Beautiful 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 01:22:30 · 2 answers · asked by _rockstarXhelp_ 1 in Singles & Dating

i accidentally ran over my daughter's toy poodle.

2007-01-10 01:22:16 · 18 answers · asked by dragonmate 2 in Family

My boyfriend wants us to move in together. I'm 35 and am fairly set in my ways like anyone else my age. I haven't lived with a guy before and am really anxious!! Any advice?

2007-01-10 01:21:08 · 39 answers · asked by Emma D 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think age is just a number?

2007-01-10 01:20:59 · 9 answers · asked by Roxxy 2 in Singles & Dating

He keeps asking if i'll love him forever........when we say good bye, in the middle of a conversation.....what does it mean? This is a new thing, we've been going out for about 2 months now....

2007-01-10 01:20:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I do all the house work and dont get no thank you,just tells me I dont do anything.But dose tell me I look good and wants to have sex alot.After that he tells me he loves me that is the only time he tells me.Why?

2007-01-10 01:20:35 · 6 answers · asked by bette69 5 in Marriage & Divorce

why are men so obsessed with boobs, i have heard that when boys were young they got breast fed and it kinda reminds them of that pleasure but what about for those who didnt get breast fed, there must be some other explanation, what is it?

2007-01-10 01:19:34 · 12 answers · asked by Suriyah 2 in Singles & Dating

She has a narrow back......

2007-01-10 01:19:30 · 11 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating