Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

2007-01-10 01:47:28 · 2 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Singles & Dating

we would seperate. he gets mad when we discuss our problems. but he never gets mad when we have a sit down and talk about who gets what if we seperate. we both live together for 2 yrs. so what would you think this meant. also we got a big screen tv together. we share the payments. he told me if we seperate i have to take on all the payments. whats your opinon. let me remind you, if we break up it will be becuz of him cuz he is emotionally unavailable.

2007-01-10 01:46:46 · 7 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Need help with a break up: My gf of 2 years said she needed space on the 1st, she said that she wants to ...
continue to date me, but doesn't want to say if we are still together or broken up when I ask her directly. She said she wants to limit communications and only go out once a week and see where it goes. She told me she is not sure what she wants. Yet she told her best friend that we were still together just taking things slow, starting over. If that is the case why won't she tell me that? What does she really want? How do I get her back? Do I go on dates with her or should I ignore her and hope she comes around?

2007-01-10 01:45:47 · 10 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating

or is he gonna marry the other girl?

2007-01-10 01:45:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My BF is a guy I dated a long time ago and we are back together and have promised new things. But I have a problem he wants me to stop some of the things I do but if I do I won't really be me. My ? is this I care for him but I don't want to change should I change for him or go with a guy that cares about me and likes me for who I am?

2007-01-10 01:44:49 · 22 answers · asked by spawnof_thedevil 2 in Singles & Dating

My b.f. of over a year told me last night that he loves me and wants to be with me but he is just not attracted to me. I've lost about 50 lbs since I'v e been with him and have been trying to get myself in to better shape. He says I am the best woman he has ever met by far but my physical state is just not what he is used to being with. I'm a size 14. He is overweight and has gained 50 lbs since we have been together. I love him and want to make this work, however I feel he feels I am not good enough. Isn't love supposed to be unconditional? Can this possibly work out and stand this test? I don't know if I should stay or go. My heart is broken.

2007-01-10 01:44:38 · 13 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is the perfect weight for a girl because I am 122 but I am really small i waer 1's in teens but i am called fat?

2007-01-10 01:44:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For false advertising.......?

2007-01-10 01:43:52 · 18 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

my husband came back from visit his sick brother, then he refused to have sex with me for two month, i asked him then he said that he had promised god he will scacrifice sex with me to cure his brother. i felt hurt so much. i hate him. why? can anyone give me a reason?

2007-01-10 01:42:56 · 52 answers · asked by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What can I do now.My sister got a dell computer then didnt want it so I took over payments.I give her the money every month but she dont pay for it .and i know this bc they call me asking for her and i tell them she dont live here and she dont .she gets the bill every month way behind after i have been paying.So i think i will just stop giving the money to her. Will they come get the computer after i have payed so much for nothing?

2007-01-10 01:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by bette69 5 in Family

I have recently turned 18 in a long term relationship (2 years) and with a social group of 19-21 year olds ( me being the youngest) my Boyfriend went to uni in 2005, Already arranged before our relationship. However every week or every other week end taking the 45-60 min train drive from Stafford to Liverpool to see me ( Knowing I wasn’t allowed yet ) My parents are fairly protective over me. I respect them and understand that i was not allowed to visit my boyfriend until i was 18. Now turned 18 and mentally feeling mature enough to take responsibility for my actions. My parents completely disagree with me travelling 45 mins to see him for the weekend ( putting a huge amount of pressure on our relationship)
I respect their views and opinions but it doesn’t mean i agree and i feel my voice it drowned. What is the right thing to say? Or am I just pushing my luck?

2007-01-10 01:42:08 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha.C 2 in Family

Would your parents/grandparents freak out if you brought me home to meet them?

2007-01-10 01:40:41 · 4 answers · asked by spun_up_06 4 in Singles & Dating

Howdy! I wouldn't say I was a pervert or anything, but I sometimes like to look at porn on the internet to get me aroused when I'm in the mood. However, all the movies always seem to end in the guy blowing his load all over a girls face! Now, as far as I'm aware, this isn't really a common occurance in every day life?! Have my friends and I just not been with the right people? Do girls get off on this or is it quite rare and just something they do to please the guy?! Cheers!!

2007-01-10 01:39:18 · 22 answers · asked by crazyoldben 2 in Singles & Dating

I am baptist. And I have made a promise to myself and to God that I wont have sex. Is there something I can do to stop or help me ingore the urges. I have for kids so its obvious that I already have done it before, I just dont want to go back to the life I used to live

2007-01-10 01:39:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I like and I have told him kinda I said that my step-brother said for me not to like him and that I had told him I'll like him if I want. He just smiled and laughed. My friend says he talks about me and said he said that he likes me. But I gave him my # and he didn't call. I asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said yea so I said oh I thought they were lieing to me and looked away kinda sad. But I seen his face and he smiled a half smile. Is he playing hard to get or does he really not like me is my bestfriend just saying that so I feel better and am happy??? Tell me the truth no stuiped stuff.

2007-01-10 01:38:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I dont fight often, but when we do it is horrible! And it lasts for days and then nothing gets resolved. We both work fulltime outside of the home, but yet I still do all the home chores like cooking cleaning, everything! I am almost 5 months pregnant and need help. but when i tell him he just gets so upset and says stuff like, fine im just a lazy peice of crap, or im just stupid! ahh it makes me so mad! i would give anything to come home from work and have him start making dinner, hell he cant even think of anything to eat. Another thing we always fight about is i ask him to surprise me with something sweet or do something nice for me and all he can say is I cant think of anything to do for you. What can I do?

2007-01-10 01:38:37 · 23 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Without feeling totally slack.....

2007-01-10 01:38:10 · 10 answers · asked by Andy N. 1 in Singles & Dating

lol

2007-01-10 01:37:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this one guy that I have been seeing. He always tells me how beautiful he thinks I am and how much he loves touching my body(not in the gross disgusting way, he is happy rubbing my neck). I am by no means fat but I am bigger. He is tall and slender. Anyone see a problem with this? When he tells me that he thinks I am hot and all that I just smile and kiss him. I don't know if it's the truth or if he is just saying it to make me happy. And the way I have gotten the message, he doesn't want me to meet his friends. Is he embaressed? I am a young woman so I should be able to handle it no matter what, but I'm starting to wonder things....

2007-01-10 01:37:13 · 9 answers · asked by Dianne 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend and me have been friends since 4th grade. But He hasn't changed at all. He still acts like a 4th graded. He's in 9th graded and he saying I am mean because I and telli9ng him to grow up. But all he says is "you changed" or "I want the old you". I tried to get him hooked up with this girl, and the girl likes him. But he 's afriad of a relationship. He's not gay and He does want to go out with a girl. I don't understand him. I'm not a shy person and he is some what of one but, after a second. I think he's jealous of my girl friend. I should I do. I know I will be with my girl forever, but he think she's changed me.

2007-01-10 01:37:01 · 3 answers · asked by jaydow13 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been trying to plan my wedding, and my groom to be isnt really into it. He told me to tell him the day and time and he'll be there. Ive only been to a few weddings in my life, and I dont know what to do. I have booked the receptoin and ceremony site. It is being held in a restraunt place. Its going to be Sept 2006... I dont know where to go from here. My mom and I arent on the best of terms right now, long story, different posting. We do have two sons together, if that means anything. And we are in love. Just no one has offered to help me plan. His parents gave us $2000 to put towards the wedding. My mom isnt going to , due to the fact that she cant afford to. My dad passed away a little over 5 years ago. Its not the money I am looking for, more so someone to come with me to pick out things, as I havent the clue. We live in PA. Everyone else in Jersey, but the wedding will be in Jersey. How can I get someone to help me out? I thought about hiring a

2007-01-10 01:37:00 · 18 answers · asked by michaellandonsmommy 6 in Weddings

what can i do with my boyfriend that would make him happy our anniversary is coming up and i do not know what to do. please help

2007-01-10 01:36:49 · 3 answers · asked by soccer_chick3 2 in Singles & Dating

To women who never want to have children i was curious as to why you feel the way you do, was there something that happened to you early on in life to effect your decision, im not saying its wrong not to but im just curious as to why you choose that.

2007-01-10 01:35:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and I engaged and we are planning our wedding for april 28th. my family is happy bc it is what i want and they know my boyfriend really loves me. On the other hand, my friends doesn't know him too well cuz, as long our relationship is long-distance, everytime he comes down here (to the Dominican Rep. ; hes from the states), we usually hang out ourselves. they aren't agree cuz as long my boyfriend (according to their opinions), is from scranton PA and they said thats a town, not a city, i will not have a good life. Not just that, but they asked me about his background which i consider good cuz hes graduate and working on an allied services company... the only problem is that hes still living @ his parents. but thats not a problem cuz his family will provide us an apartment. when i commented him about what they said, he felt bad and told me that he doesn't want nothing bad happening to me, but the best. I feel he loves me so much. i am too. what do you think abou this?

2007-01-10 01:34:14 · 22 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Weddings

I'm curious about relationship dynamics of couples in general. I've read accounts on the internet of partners who are in the process of or already have divorced their spouse (the often cited reason is infidelity) but they say that they still miss and care deeply about their spouse. If he/she had an affair, is a abusive or is irresponsible with drugs would those acts not make one dislike their spouse, rather than love?

2007-01-10 01:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by Joseph 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance of a year and half told me since the new year that he wanted to date some other people because he wasn't sure now about us. While its reasonable that some one can change their mind about marriage, and i accept that. Why am i going through such an emotional melt down? Any advice out there about what i can do to get over this? My life feels like its been turned upside down.

2007-01-10 01:33:48 · 4 answers · asked by latoya w 1 in Weddings

my boyfriend called me at like 4:30 last night and said he would be over at like 8 8:30 ish he never showed up and he wouldnt answer his phone do u think hes trying to tell me something??? or do u think he just got caught up in something???

2007-01-10 01:33:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 01:33:29 · 21 answers · asked by laura s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

some times my bloke will come home from work and he say his going to the pub for a couple of drinks, he always shouts out he wont be long, how stupid am i cos he always returns home at 4- 5 am in the morning , i cant sleep till his in, plus he is also so sick the following day at least throwing up until 8pm .
i always get the hump am i right to.

2007-01-10 01:33:22 · 37 answers · asked by hayley b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 01:33:13 · 3 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Marriage & Divorce