we would seperate. he gets mad when we discuss our problems. but he never gets mad when we have a sit down and talk about who gets what if we seperate. we both live together for 2 yrs. so what would you think this meant. also we got a big screen tv together. we share the payments. he told me if we seperate i have to take on all the payments. whats your opinon. let me remind you, if we break up it will be becuz of him cuz he is emotionally unavailable.
2007-01-10 01:46:46 · 7 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cheat if you have to, but htat should be your last option.
If he's unavaliable, you can't really talk to him... All you have is a shell. All that keeps you together is the stuff, so stay together until you can work out a GOOD deal about your stuff. (legally, with a lawyer)
2007-01-10 01:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by alchemicalstann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of it, You have already broken up!! All that remains is for the two of you to realize it and go your separate ways!
If you do not want to make the payments on the tv, have the company or store, you bought it from come and get it after he leaves. Nothing says you have to keep it, and as long as he is leaving it to you, you should be able to do what you want with it
2007-01-10 01:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by donna in wetumpka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, love is affected person, kind, and candy, and you have been each and all the above! the excellent factor i will enable you recognize to do considering which you're a Christian ( assuming considering which you stated church) is to desire approximately IT! Ask God if she is the only he needs you to spend continuously with. if so, then it will be, and he or she would be able to return decrease back, understanding that she has tangled up a sturdy factor!!! So no do no longer call her, (you have completed sufficient pursuing, and sweating, and spoiling her) She is conscious which you care and which you're deeply in love along with her, yet love isn't jealous the two, so artwork on that for your self, and for any destiny relationships. additionally, if she ever does come decrease back, talk out all your ameliorations, clarify to her the way it made you experience uncomfortable that she cheated, and tell her that that's substantial which you will have faith her. in case you won't be able to have faith her, overlook approximately it, via fact to constantly elevate previous blunders will in basic terms bring about fights, and as my chum as quickly as informed me, "in case you recognize he cheated, quite think of long and tricky approximately it....... are you extremely going to circulate away besides??? If no longer, talk it, tell him the form you experience, if he apologized & you recognize you're no longer over it, then settle for, and have faith, yet while that's innacceptable to you and you recognize you will consistently nag him approximately it, then it is going to easily reason greater issues.... RUN. desire i become able to assist!!!
2016-12-12 08:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by girardot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a breakup in a similar situation, only we shared a pet. he also was emotionally unavailable. my experience is that we girls have our problems too, we just deal with them better, and dont try to hide behind them all the time but try to work them out, as u did as well. i think a big self-esteem boost from being single and appreciated again and putting a stop to this energy-vampire's workings is worth to work some extra hours. also, ull end up with the plasma and all the money he put in it will work for ur entertainment:)
2007-01-10 01:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dia H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf nevered talked either.
I always bothered him
If you want to keep the tv take the payments if not sell it or return it.
He seems to be thinking........or maybe you should ask. Does he need space? A break? Time?
Whats up?
You cant fix something all by yourself.
2007-01-10 01:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must to be aware that he must to talk to u in everything... so u both must understand and listen to each other in the problems.. so if u just hiden what in your heart become bigger and never delete just ignore it.. and that big problem that some of the people get separate because they just collect all the problems in the same time...
so just tell him the problem in the good time.. not when he is tired just when he relax OK...good luck
2007-01-10 01:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already have your answer. he doesn't get mad about talking about separating because that's what he wants, but he's afraid to tell you. he gets mad about the truth because it hurts. if he's emotionally unavailable why do you want him to begin with?
2007-01-10 01:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋