There is this one guy that I have been seeing. He always tells me how beautiful he thinks I am and how much he loves touching my body(not in the gross disgusting way, he is happy rubbing my neck). I am by no means fat but I am bigger. He is tall and slender. Anyone see a problem with this? When he tells me that he thinks I am hot and all that I just smile and kiss him. I don't know if it's the truth or if he is just saying it to make me happy. And the way I have gotten the message, he doesn't want me to meet his friends. Is he embaressed? I am a young woman so I should be able to handle it no matter what, but I'm starting to wonder things....
2007-01-10 01:37:13 · 9 answers · asked by Dianne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't see a problem with it. After all, it's the personality that matters most anyway. Why not just enjoy the attention he's giving you? Maybe he prefers "thicker" girls, he wouldn't be the first guy on earth to prefer thick to thin. If it bothers you that he doesn't want to introduce you to his friends, ask him why.
2007-01-10 01:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take everything he says as lie. How could you ever have a relationship with him if you can't believe what he says. Why do you want to meet his friends? Just stick with it and talk to him find out the reasons why he don't want you meeting his friends. If trust continues to be an issue. Leave him alone.
2007-01-10 09:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by lilbitt_637 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE'S DEFINITELY NO PROBLEM WITH THE WAY YOU TWO LOOK. IF HE TELLS YOU HE LIKES YOUR BODY AND FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE, HE MOST LIKELY IS SINCERE. YOUR INTUITION WILL TELL YOU! LISTEN TO YOUR HEART ABOUT THAT AND YOU WILL KNOW THE ANSWER. WHY WOULD HE BE EMBARRASSED? THE EASIEST WAY TO FIND OUT IS TO ASK HIM DIRECTLY WHETHER HE HAS A PROBLEM WITH THE WAY YOU LOOK. HE WON'T BE ABLE TO LIE TO YOU THEN. MAYBE HE DOESN'T WANT YOU TO MEET HIS FRIENDS BECAUSE HE IS STILL NOT SURE OF HOW SERIOUS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS. OR, HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT THAT HE MIGHT BE ASHAMED OF HIS FRIENDS???!!!!
2007-01-10 09:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful and sexy comes in many packages. Don't you doubt for a moment that you are hot or deserving of attention.
Now, if he is not willing to let you meet his friends, then he has a problem. If he is not proud to claim you, then he isn't worth your time or energy.
2007-01-10 09:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ue body language. If he doesn't look you in the eye when he says it, or he shifts around more when he tells you hot beautiful you are, then it's more than likely a lie.
2007-01-10 09:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first there's no problem with you being bigger...about he doesn't want you to meet his friends maybe because he's still not sure where u two stand together so just give it time and see
2007-01-10 09:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by marwa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are beginning to wonder things then investigate more. Ask him why he is keeping you hidden. Trust yourself.
2007-01-10 09:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange that he doesnt want you meet any of his friends...what's up with that??and dont fall for the old " I dont want any of them to take you away from me" line either....
2007-01-10 09:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been seeing him?
does he pressure you for sex?
some men like bigger women
do you like him?
2007-01-10 09:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋