Men ONLY: How do men really feel about women's flaws?

Question

Please be honest, men, how do you really feel about the following:

Stretch marks
Body hair
Varicrose veins
Acne
Cellulite
And other flaws that some women have?

You know that we are constantly freaking out about these things and sometimes we have no control over them...

I'm wondering how much it really bothers men. Do you want us all to be perfect tens? Would you leave us 6's or 7's if a ten came along?

It's a general question, I know my husband loves me. I have some of the above but not all!! Geesh!

What part of Men ONLY is not understood?

Answer 1

When I have fallen in love, those things never bothered me at all. When I was with someone I wasn't in love with and wasn't going to fall in love with, those things stood out big time. So they worked as a flag for me to know whether I was able to fall in love with someone or not. My wife surely has flaws, but I don't think I could even name them since I see her through eyes that are in love. She is my 10.

Answer 2

I can only speak for myself. You are gonna get some answers on here "we love you just the way you are" "don't change a thing", etc.

What we really do is this- we take an overview. No one is perfect. The less negative physical things we have to focus on, the better your chances. If a girl is near perfect, of course, I'm going to do everything in my power to make the emotional part work. If she is way off the course, it shows me she doesn't care to try- I will try the least to make it work. If it is in the middle, I will try a middle amount- get it? The more stuff you can fix, the more the guy will want to work with you.

If you go out with a guy who accepted you at first as a 6 or 7, think about it- how is he gonna get a 10? I see a dozen 10s before I get lunch every day- but getting them, come on- it rarely happens.

After you do everything you CAN to fix your physical flaws, forget it, and have a fun attitude- that goes a loooong way. Also, there are lots of guys who just don't care, they just want company.

Every thing you mentioned up there of course is fixable. At one point though, you have to set us straight. Just tell us "Dude- WORK with me, here." That attitude will help you a lot.

Don't worry - we LIKE you!

Answer 3

HELLO!
Everyone has flaws. No one is perfect. I think some time they're cute. I like a woman with a flaw. Of course it depends on if they can correct their flaws. I don't care to around a woman that smoke. Or around any one that smokes. I don't like them to pick their nose in front of me. And believe me it has happened. I don't care if they pick their nose. Just do it in private. I've even had men and woman pick their nose in front of me while talking to them. Them they either flick it off or put it in their month. Those are the kind of flaws I don't like.
Flaws that we don't have any control over is a little different. I try to over look those kind of flaws.
No I would not leave a 6 or 7 for a 10. The reason is because if she's with me i believe that 6 or 7 is a 10. Then I'm not a 10 either. We're all humans and all have some thing that is not perfect with us. So don't worry about it if you're not a perfect 10. We're not looking for a perfect 10 . And who wants to be around some one that is perfect.

Answer 4

I love my wife. Those things that you speak of are a normal course of life. You are going to get older and get those flaws.

My wife is not a 10 by everyone else's standard but she's my 10. There are more beautiful women out there but they aren't the ones who are going to take care of me the way she is. The flaws are not a problem because the person they are on is the one I love.

Answer 5

stretch marks- i dont find them bad at all. my wife has them from pregnancy and well it doesnt really bother me. it is a natural thing to me.
body hair- i dont think that body hair is a good thing for women to have. i mean, a little isnt bad, but i think that women should shave their body hairs or wax them.
varicrose veins- again it is a natural thing. i dont really like it much, but i do know it is natural.
acne- i think that women should try to reduce acne as much as possible. it hides their beauty.
cellulite- this is one i dont like. i think that once a woman sees that she is building cellulite, she should try to work out to get it off. it is not a good thing to see it, and most guys turn around when they see it.

most things dont really bother most men, but there are some. there is not a such thing as a "perfect 10" but there are some. i wouldnt leave my wife for anyone and if i wasnt married, i would still not leave an average girl for a perfect looking girl.

Answer 6

Stretch marks: no problem
Body hair: doesn't matter
Varicorse veins: a turn off
acne: not turn on
cellulite: nothing that a treadmill can't handle

I'm not sure if anybody is a perfect 10 physically. What we lack in physical appearance can be made up with sexual confidence. Men often leave with a woman that is not a attractive as their partner because of the confidence a woman has in her self.

Answer 7

Interesting question. I look at women as a total package. If she makes my heart flutter and engage my mind...flaws became invisible. They get buried by the avalance of what's really important...the traits that made me notice and like her.

Answer 8

doesn't matter to me. Id rather have a person that was a 6 or 7 and full of personlity then a airheaded 10.

Answer 9

if your inerested in a woman--really care for her you;ll not pay that much attention to a few flaws---and if he does make an issue about one or all then he should jump in feet first to help her in any way possable to help her to solve the problem-- after all it is probably as much the mans fault she has these flaws as it is hers.

Answer 10

Love makes you blind to all these things, if your man truly loves you he will stay with you no matter what you look like. If he leaves you for a 10 then you didn't need to be with him any ways.