What if I have the same exact feeling for my ex and my bf. How do i decide who I choose?
2007-01-10 00:59:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, don't mistake having a history with someone as true feelings that you have now. I would suggest that you think about why your ex is you ex. Usually there are very good reasons you are not with him. Maybe you are forgetting about those things. With each new relationship comes a fresh start. A chance to be a better person to develop a deeper love. Think about it clearly.
2007-01-10 01:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't tell you what to do. I still don't know what the hell i did. This guy was into me and i was talking to another, but had the same feelings for both. Or atleast I thought. I let my bf know my feelings for the other and i let him go. Turns out after going out with the other guy, we are not ment to be. And I can't go back to my ex. So good luck on whatever you pick!
2007-01-10 09:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose?....So ur ex wants u back? Yeah.... They all do once they've seen u with some1 else. And when u go back 2 them they treat u worst than the 1st time around. I know it's really hard 2 let go of the past, I have that same problem myself but once you think about the misery u have been through theres no turning back.
2007-01-10 09:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by KOUKLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide which one u can see your self with in the future and go from there. But if I had to choose I would say the bf now b/c u and ur ex aren't togther for whatever reason and thats how it should stay.
2007-01-10 09:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweety_8620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your EX for a reason and will likely become your ex times 2 if you pick him. Your BF may not be right for you either if you have EX feelings for him.
2007-01-10 09:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy Mick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wel hun if you share the same feelings for both your boyfriend and your ex well then theres a slight chance it aint love..
your gonna have to choose or else your gonna be the one hurt the most...
Before you choose ask yourself why exactly your ex is your ex??this might help you decide..
Good Luck hun...
2007-01-10 09:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by emma_18d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its impossible to have EXACTLY the same feelings for both cos they're both different people...so write down lists (yup I'm a list kinda gal :) of all the good qualities of each and of all the good things about each relationship - then you can see clearly which one would be better suited to you - and which one you'd be happier with.
ps be careful the ex feelings arent just a case of wanting what you cant have! remember he is your ex for a reason
x
2007-01-10 09:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, write down all the good things about each of them: maybe they're both cute, or something like that. Then write all the bad things: chewing with mouth open, scratches his butt, stuff like that. Whichever one with the most bad things is the one you shouldn't go with.
2007-01-10 09:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Lilian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don`t date with anyone 4 a while.. say you have gone to travel somewhere 4 a week. and you will begin missing one of them more than another. it will be a good relaxation from both and right selection.
2007-01-10 09:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by MissRussia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who makes you happy
who makes you smile alot
who saids i love you to
who calls just to talk to you
who you rather be with ex your bf all day
2007-01-10 09:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by ELSIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋