4 nights ago i tried to loose my virginity. he had on a condom and tried to do it, but we stopped after 3 tries because his *thing* couldn't fit, it barely went half way in. and it was hurting me so we stopped. I asked him several times if he *came* and he said no not yet. but we ended up NOT doing it anyway. strangely, the next day and even now my stomach feels bloated and gassy. my back hurts(probably from sitting on this chair all day). could i be pregnant?? he said, he checked the condom the next day but didn't see any hole on it. is it because im just paranoid im feeling this way? im supposed to have my period at the end of this month so i highly doubt I'm having cramps because of my period. what can this be?
2007-01-10 00:47:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I highly doubt that you are pregnant. You used a condom, he could only go half way in, he didn't c**, so I think you're safe. Your stomach hurting could be from gas or if you are supposed to start the end of this month, you may be ovulating, when I ovulate sometimes I get stomach cramps. Just relax. If you don't start your menstrual cycle when you are supposed to, take a pregnancy test, if you take one now it probably won't give you accurate results. Also if you stress and worry over this it can cause you to be late or skip your cycle too.
2007-01-10 01:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by T.K. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't Be Scared. Young Women Have Been Having Babies Unexpectedly Since The Beginning Of Time. I Know A 16 Year Old Girl That Was Freaking Out That She Got Pregnant, But After Deciding Not To Have A Abortion and Going Through With Having The baby, The Entire Family Accepted The Child And Now Its A Irreplaceable Part Of The Family. Females Get pregnant Before They Want To and 33% of Us Wouldn't Even Be Here Right Now If Only Planned Pregnancies Were The Law Of The Land.
2007-01-10 08:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by robert g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, coming from an adult, you dont seem mature enough to have sex. I am not trying to be your paretn or anything, but sex should be with somebody you love (you will find this out when your in your 20's) Anyways- if you had sex last night and your feeling this way today, I highly doubt it. Your probably just paranoid. Lets say, you are. You wouldn't start feeling syndromes until a week from now.
Anyway- always use a condom. My boyfriend and I have ben together for over a year (I'm only 22) and we still use condoms because we are not ready to have kids yet. Just please be aware of STDS and AIDS. Take a pregnancy test to be sure!
2007-01-10 08:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by 88776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys stop before he came then i dont think you can get pregnant once you use the condom correctly or maybe how it was your first time u feeling after pain still. i hope understand that have sex is some thing that is lot of responsibility and you have to be sure that you want to be having sex at this point in your life if u sure that u want to then i think is best you start using family planning and the condoms so u now u wont get sexually transmitted disease or get pregnant u have to think about what your doing and not just rushing in to things and then worry and stress your self out so hopeful u just getting after pains ok good luck.
2007-01-10 08:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by sugargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are nervous and I believe that's what is making you feel weird. After four days I believe is too soon to be having those symptoms. I don't think you are but if you want go out and get a over the counter test and have peace of mind.
2007-01-10 08:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by cowboybronco01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start by the sound of you i would say you are too young to be having sex. You will not be pregnant as you did not have penetration, he did not come. As you are stressed over this then that would suggest the reason why you are bloated.
2007-01-10 08:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by donna c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, It happens at the first step young age. Past is past, present and future.. Just check, the first MC, it stops, then go to Gyna Dr. that to experience Gyna Dr{Lady}, She will solve the things. Do't wary... Have nice good night.. subhash, india,karnataka,belagavi
2007-01-10 08:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by SUBHASH C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just worried and your syptoms are more likely from stress. remember the way you are feeling right now and wait until you are really ready to have sex. if you can talk to your mom and let her help ease your mind i am sure she will understand that you have made a mistake and will forgive you and comfort you. i have 2 daughters 22 and 14 and i would want them to come to me if they were going through this. god bless you and good luck
2007-01-10 08:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by ladybug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to quit while you are ahead, apparently you are not ready. Take a pregnancy test just to ease your mind. A wait until you are married before trying again
2007-01-10 08:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what ever it is dont worrie take a pregnancy test and you will see it will turn out fine i thought the same when i tried to loose mine but i wasnt pregnant and was the boy experienced
2007-01-10 08:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋