22yr old girl and a 16yr old lad????? Going out wiv each other......
2007-01-10 00:49:32 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No i don't think its wrong at all, age is just a number that tells how long you have been alive its not and should not be a barrier for anything ex-specially if to people love each other.
2007-01-10 01:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i'm not one to judge how you two truly feel about eachother. However law and his parents will judge differently. I was going out with a 27 year old at the age of 18. Go figure, parents hated that idea. I don't think it's wrong as long as you both know it will cause some problems.
2007-01-10 00:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong I don't know, illegal definantly! Here is the thing I agree that right now this may seem like a very inappropriate relationship but would it be so wrong if it was 3 years from now when he was 19 and she was 25? I don't think that age matters but I do think that underage does make a differance.. Love comes in many shapes and sizes.
2007-01-10 00:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by itza_mea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem isn't the six years difference. The problem is that 22 is a world of difference from 16.
If neither of you have any expectations of being serious (and, if you're having sex, if you're both of legal consenting age in your state), then go for it and enjoy the ride. But if you think that this is THE ONE, then both of you might want to step back and evaluate things.
2007-01-10 00:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by the_bald_one_mpls 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Morally, yes it's wrong. Legally, most likely wrong. What is the maturity level of each? Is he looking for an "older woman"? Is she looking for a "trainable", someone she can teach how to do what she wants? Either way, find someone your own age, you'll have more in common.
2007-01-10 00:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems slightly wierd he will not be mature mentally until he is about 28 so you have a long wait before you get any real committment, dont tie him down when he has everything to live for right now
2007-01-10 00:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-one can say whether it's right or wrong - it's up to the couple who are doing it. If you feel the need to ask the question - maybe you're not so sure and maybe then you're meant for eachother? Ask yourself this - No matter how nice it feels - really how long will it last?
2007-01-10 01:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by My_Name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 26 now and when i was 22 i was seeing a 17 year old it never worked out cos people were saying his too young and stuff and in the end i kept thinking ahead , kike when i'm 26 he''ll be 20 .
if i were you go for someone yr own age , less hassle
2007-01-10 00:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by hayley b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the girl's and boy's maturity, I guess. It might seem weird to some, but if you're OK with it, why bother with what others have to say. Live and Let Live.
Good Luck
2007-01-10 00:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by natdufour4030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, lad is a bit young
2007-01-10 00:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋