is ignoring you part of this game?
this guy had been chasing me for a while but now hes ignoring me. we have only kissed.
2007-01-10 00:57:08 · 6 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wanted to sleep with me but i said no and teased him abit. lol xxx
2007-01-10 00:58:08 · update #1
we have kissed on more than one occasion.
2007-01-10 00:58:31 · update #2
Men love the chase and soon lose interest when they know they can have you. Stay aloof and play the game!
2007-01-10 01:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right that guys do like to chase or "hunt" as I call it lol BUT u added a twist to the chase that they don't like. Kissing and affection is fine and saying no to sex is of course fine but u can't tease him and then expect that to be fun for him when u say no. Now he probably sees u as a game player which guys hate just like girls hate guys who play games. It is during the chase that guys either end up having real feelings for u or they just complete their goal and move on. So continue to show him that u are the type of girl that isn't easily caught but also show him that u deserve respect which u can't get teasing and then saying no at the last min. Good luck
2007-01-10 01:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a commonly used ploy to make an initially interested girl desperate for you. Making a girl feel irresistable one minute, and acting aloof the next generally makes the girl in question more interested in you than she orignally was at the start. It is a move i use a lot. Ask yourself, would you be this hung up about him if he was like some lap dog, following your every move?
2007-01-10 01:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by cosmo_kramer1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring becomes part of the game if one does not like a few things like the way you kiss,cleanliness etc
2007-01-10 01:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by TheMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont if they are that into you, we all have that male mate that treats all his girls in the 'treat them mean, keep then keen' category but then BOOM he meets a girl and falls totally head over heels and all of a sudden he's not allowed to even talk to you.... (under the thumb)
If this guy is not like this with you, you need to walk away cos you deserve better, you deserve to have a guy under your thumb.
I hope it all works out for you.
2007-01-10 01:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by EveyM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he's trying to be 'cool'
message me, I might be able to suggest something...
2007-01-10 01:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋