Hey,
The other day I heard from a friend that this girl was talking to my boyfriend and saying how she wanted him to be her next boyfriend, and they were saying things to each other that weren't right. I didn't believe it really, but I wanted other opinions, so I did by asking some of my friends, before I went to my boyfriend. One of my friends ended up talking to him first, and I didn't get to explain the whole story to him. I'm worried that he's mad at me for not trusting him, as he got mad at his last girlfriend for accusing him of cheating, when he didn't. What should I do to make things better between us?
<3 Thanks!
2007-01-10 00:47:24 · 13 answers · asked by Winter Wonder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop gossiping and you wouldn't be in this mess.
"Believe Nothing of What You Hear, and Only Half of What You See!"
2007-01-10 00:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by The Pig! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men can be a little testy. You have to be honest, and tell him you need to know exactly what happened if anything. That you are not mad or making accusations, that you just want to know what happened. Make him understand that if he were to hear the same thing, he may think the way you did. However, in the future, it is best to confront him first instead of trying to play detective.
So, let him tell you what happened, and see if you believe him or the girl.
Words of Wisdom "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer". Good luck!!
2007-01-10 00:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a minute and find the time to be honest with him. Tell him you heard gossip and wanted to make sure you had the real story. Be sure to add what a great guy you think he is and give
him a chance to explain any misunderstandings.
You friend was wrong to discuss any of this with your boyfriend. It was a matter between you and him and no one else...a move on her part that probably fueled more gossip and suspicion. You might also want to gently remind her that your relationship with your boyfriend is your business and although she may have wanted to help, you would have preferred to handle it yourself.
2007-01-10 00:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have already, but try to have a talk with him.
If he has better understanding of situation, he will be calm and tell you how he feels about what the girl told him.
Maybe you should write a letter. That will make you better to explain your thouhgts with no agression.
2007-01-10 00:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to him for jumping to conclusions and let him know you will be more careful about this in the future.
In the future go straight to your b/f and explain what you heard. Give him a chance to tell you his side of the story, if there is on before jumping to conclusions.
2007-01-10 00:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by tootsie1115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should have always gone and asked him first. Jealousy is nice but the not trusting part is terrible. Apologise and tell him next time u'll confront him and no one else!
2007-01-10 00:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by nanoosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one you need to trust him ..... you should have gone to him befor any of your friends .. all you can do is talk to him about it and tell him if you EVER hare anything like this again you will come to him first like you should have this time ....good luck
2007-01-10 00:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what u heard the other girl saying...u had a right to be concerned and ask around
2007-01-10 00:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your sorry and explain the whole situation to him.
2007-01-10 00:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh bad time gal....beter tell him srry and c...and tell him u never told such a thin 2 tat girl
2007-01-10 01:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by Choco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋