Have u Ever Loved Somebody??

Question

Hi Guys……Have you experinced Love ??.....If YES, I need your help…..Here is where I need it…. I use to date a girl in high school…..And we were seeing eachother for about 3 year…..It was soo beautiful we had a great relationship…..We had a great understanding…N…we had a straong emotional connection and a great physical chemistry…..its wasn’t all lust and infactuation like we would at those age…..its was something different…..But…..something happaned……I got a mail from her saying I deserve someone much better then her….she also said that she loved me with all her heart and it was true…..She also told me that she would love to meet that person whome I’ll fall in love with in the future……and the mail was ended wishing me good luck…..At that time I don’t know what happned…Y this mail was sent to me and what was the exact reason behind this…..I Tried…Tried….N…Tried to find out what was the reason what made her write this to me I kenw that her Mom didn’t like we seeing eachother coz she was a orthodox family and falling in Love or going out with someone wasn’t considered appropreate…..I jst couldn’t understand was she forced to write it to me….I jst didn’t kenw…..I tried all ways possible to talk to her but she refused to even speak after that mail…….I had no answers to my question……I did see her at times but she wouldn’t even come near me nor talk……Days passed by years passed by I still had no answer as to what she went through….All I knew was that She loves Me……And I kept my belief…There has been days I havent got sleep…But as years pass by All I belived in was That I still love her the way I always use to…after my highschool I left my town to do my higher studies…Answering my question became a lesser of importance to me as I belived in her that whatever must have made her to take that step will have compelete justified reson to it…what was more impt was that I love her and it was true…Being away from my town I had lost all contacts I did search her on the net time to time but had no links….Belive it or not guys….I have Felt….LOVE…..Its been 10 years since then……Yes TEN years……and Guess what she is still on my mind…the very same way she was Ten years before…….My Love for her is still True…..I feel as if I just saw her last evening…the memories are that very fresh….God I loved her……Okie Guys the good news is Just yesterday I found her contact or the way to reach her as she is registered in one of the sites…..What should I do I want to contact her write to her what should I write offorce she isnt expecting me…as she must be thinking I must be committed by now to someone else and so on and so forth…..as its been ten years….since we last communicated…..The site that she is registered in will show every content that I write inn to all her friends too as it will come on her scrap…and I don’t want that to happen I just want it to be very private….I don’t have a email id all I have is this site were I can write or contact her and wait for her reply….what should I write her should I give her a indrect cule of who I am and tell her to write me her mail id or cell number….if so I just cant write just anything Should I write a poem or dedicate a song and then give her a clue…guys help me out…..!! How should I do it…..I don’t want to loose her this time……I want her to remember what we shared…..and make her feel special……!! Awaiting ur reply….

Answer 1

Wow, long story.

Um, I think you should approach her lightly.
You should send her a mail like, "Hi! Long time never see! How are you?" ...something that wouldn't frighten her away with your extreemly heavy feelings.
I'm not sure about you, but there's no doubt she had some relationship after you. Times you had with her are great memories, but there's a great chance she had better time with someone else, or there's already a wonderful partner for her.

If you really want to see her again, you should never ever ever frighten her!! Don't show every bits of your feelings to her, to do so, don't write a massive e-mail like you've done above! Write a small line, and wait for her reaction.

Answer 2

First maybe she has a good and valid reason it off before...Maybe because of your religion....There are times that other people stop certain things or feelings when they know there's no future on it....Now if your feelings for her is still the same and ur available....well you have to check if she is still available and if her feelings for you is still there....Just write a simple friendly message to her....She will know its you!!! Then if she think that its best and possible for the two of you to give it another try she will contact you but if she will not just take it that you were not meant to be.Always remember that everything happens for a reason....Good luck!!

Answer 3

The way you described that when she held your hand and turned back to her friends and smiled, sounds like she is just flirting with you. you said that she already have had many of boyfriends and experienced too then why would she go for you!! and i don't understand why are you fascinating to a girl who already have around so many boyfriends!! why don't you for a girl who is shy as you are :) i would suggest you to not make you a fun rather going her and say that you love her.. just wait and observe her activities and then take a decision about your life.. wishes :)

Answer 4

you could either put ya'lls favorite song on their or write her a poem it doesn't matter. But yah I had a first love and the relationship lasted 4 years. Even though it ended badly I still love him. So I know how u feel.

Answer 5

WELL JUST TELL HER WHO U R AND SEND HER A # WHERE SHE CAN REACH U. JUST TELL HER U WOULD LIKE 2 SPEAK 2 HER AND SAY HI. BUT REMEMBER IT'S BEEN TEN YEARS U DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT 2 EXPECT U CAN ACTUALLY B GETTING UR HEART BROKEN, SHE COULD B MARRIED OR DATING SOMEONE IF NOT THEN GOOD LUCK BECAUSE TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES.

Answer 6

is there any special things u used to say to her that used to make her blush, laugh?. do u have a special nick name for her?do u have anything at all u say to her to refresh her memory without revealing ur true self to the open net.? u can refer yourself as an old friend, or ask her if she remembers her high school year.

Answer 7

its hard when people can't understand the love we had.. i have almost the same problems like yours.. other people just think they know the best n yet they doesn't really understand what our heart feel.. it's hard if you were asked to forget bout the person you love just because other people does not want you to be together..why can't people just put themself in the same situation and feel how much it hurts when you can't be together with the person you love..it just not fair how people can make the decision for others..love comes in many ways..and it's nothing you should fight off..why dont you tried to meet her face to face..bring something that can remind her of your love life before..sometimes you just have to fight for your love..you have to go and run and catch her back

Answer 8

rite what you have here she will know who you are, it sound as though maybe she had a fling behind your back and was eaten up with guilt and couldn't face you? or maybe some thing else happened but i agree you need to talk to her and either get together and give it another go or lay the ghost to rest once and for all. i wish you luck,

Answer 9

If you have pictures of you together and pictures of places that you used to go together you should make a picture book and a poem wouldnt hurt

Answer 10

Your first love is hard to forget. It took me 7 years to stop thinking about mine.