What am I to do?? My Wife, who otherwise is the cleanest, most rational person i know, simply refuses to wear panties. She says she likes the feeling of freedon going "au natural" gives her and will not change. I suppose I could tolerate it if she wore jeans or pants, but she wears skirts and short dresses 90% of the time. Who Knows who sees what as she gets out of cars and sits across from men on buses and subways. I am beside myself with fear for her and angst for myself at not being able to get thru to her. What should I do to make her see my way of thinking?
2007-01-10 00:50:44 · 31 answers · asked by robert g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I prefer not to wear then either most of the time,let her go!
2007-01-10 00:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you cant, so stop trying, i doubt that after all this time, that shes not very much aware of her habit of not wearing them to be smart enough to becareful about how she gets in and out of vehicles or how she sits etc.. and im sorry but if a man wants to rape a woman panties or no panties are going to make a difference.. I think its ur own insecurties that are getting the best of u.. surely i doubt that u have a problem with the "easy access" when it suits u, and i believe ur worried more so of what if's on her part.. and u need to find some kind of trust atleast enough to where ur not driving urself crazy .. panties or no panties wont stop anything if something is going to happen.. where theres a will theres a way.. and u need to realize that u cant control life..not every aspect..and at times u have to just give into faith and hope that no bad will come willingly or non willingly .. so just calm down its not the end of the world, and id be willing to bet, that the only person that realizes shes not wearing any , is you...
2007-01-10 01:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll try not to judge you or her, at least not too much. What I think I can say is: first, if you have a problem with that, even if it is because you are jealous or anything else, then it matters. First thing is to try to talk to her. Trying to tell her that it is wrong is not the best approach: you must try to make her understand that you feel bad about that, even if you can't explain exactly why (but I think it's very easy to imagine why). This should be enough for her, its a sacrifice she should be able to do. After all, you are married. I suppose you do sacrifices for her too, but don't throw it at her face. Just ask her to do that for you. If you can't bring her to do that for you, then I think you have a much bigger problem than it seems.
2007-01-10 01:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by quesaco 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, you're a mess. Your ex is probably wearing sexy underwear because you bored the hell out of her and she's got somebody else exciting knocking the bottom out of her. Perhaps a few guys. Good for her. Next time, check her panties a big closer, you may even be able to tell. Did they smell a bit like bleach? Move on man ..... she's done with you.
2016-03-15 05:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Denise 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All I can say is stop worrying. She obviously goes to your bed every night and not someone else. Take it as an advantage in your favor. Easy access and everyone gets to see what you bang all the time. Life is literally too short to worry about stupid stuff such as this. Give up on your way of thinking she will win. It's fine. I'm a swinger and just think what I see with my wife. So just let it go and be happy you have her every night.
2007-01-10 00:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by mongo3434 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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What am I to do?? My Wife, who otherwise is the cleanest, most rational person i know, simply refuses to wear panties. She says she likes the feeling of freedon going "au natural" gives her and will not change. I suppose I could tolerate it if she wore jeans or pants, but she wears...
2015-08-19 07:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Hermione 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sure she was the same way before she became your wife wasn't she?
Did you think once you got married she would suddenly wake up and put on panties?
2007-01-10 00:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'M WITH YOU ON THIS ONE!!! Little does she know she can be a victim of rape or something. The average guy sees that and they are going for her!!! Tell her this and how you feel about her safety. She just doesn't understand right now. Eeewww! And she does have a period right......? That is sick! Talk to this woman!!!!
2007-01-12 02:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a test for you. You need to be strong enough with her for her own well-being. This is what part of being a husband is about, and you're CORRECT! Feminists will probably hate this response, though.
Don't listen to these clueless liberals on here, either.
2007-01-10 00:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Joe C 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Are you kidding me? Most men would love the idea of their wife wearing a short skirt & no panties!
2007-01-10 00:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by Meeeee! 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
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2007-01-10 01:14:52 · answer #11 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋