Guys and girls Are my friends hurting themselves by being negative?

Question

I got a group of firends in their mid to late 20's who have bad luck with women in the past. They are perceived as "nice" . Every Saturday night they refuse to go out saying women are stupid and no need to unless they mature. Listening to this once in a while is normal I understand that we all gotta have time off and vent Now I do go out anyway most Weeeknd nights and even if I dont score, I go out to have a good time and meet folks.
Anyway, I read an article about how being around negative folks affects your attitude. Even though Im not affected by it much, I was wondering if the Im just chilling attitude all the time is ruining them?
Making them not accept the fact they might need to change?
IM not perfect I got issues also . But to think all women are dumb all thei time is just well egotistical what do you guys think?

JIm you might be getting the best answer award and your only the first answer

Answer 1

I think your friends are using excuses to avoid rejection and that's their right to do. You shouldnt let this bother you. You are socially acceptable and fulfilling your social needs. You will be the first out of your group to get a girlfriend and then that will lead your friends in the right direction. I wouldn't drop your friends at this point, they need acceptance and support just like you, however they are choosing the wrong way to show their obvious insecurities. Keep going out and socializing, the odds say that you will find someone and that is the right decision for you. Your friends will figure it out!