Ive been seeing this girl alot the last few months just as friends. im interested to no wat you all think. Shes probably the nicest person ive ever met. The last couple of months ive been round her house nearly a lot 4/5 nights a week Mostly we just sit in her room and talk, normally she hugs upto me. I get on with her mum and bros, get offered food when im there and that. Her mum even said to her bout me goin on holiday with them this year. She trys to wind me up, and messes around with me. She always says bout being her friend and that. Im not sure if she is interested in me just as a friend or if she wants more. She normally asks me over to her house. She says im awesome but she also said bout being a best friend to her. What do you people think?
2007-01-10 00:50:38 · 14 answers · asked by grezzor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she thinks of you as just a friend
2007-01-10 01:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE HAD SIMILAR. WHAT DO YOU VALUE MORE? IS HER FRIENDSHIP ENOUGH? MUMS ARE GREAT AND DAUGHTERS CONFIDE IN THEM, IF YOU ARE SURE YOU WANT TO TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP FURTHER HAVE A DISCREET CHAT WITH HER MUM FIRST. BE CAREFUL THOUGH, A NICE FRIEND THAT YOU CAN ENJOY COMPANY WITH AND HAVE A CUDDLE IS WORTH MORE THAN A RELATIONSHIP THAT FAILS. MOST GOOD RELATIONSHIPS START OFF WITH BEING MATES BECAUSE YOU CAN LEARN TO TRUST. A LOT OF WOMEN LOVE MALE COMPANY JUST FOR THAT, SO IF THERE IS NO INTEREST FROM HER IN A SEXUAL, COMMITTED WAY BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE, BUT ASK MUMMY FIRST BECAUSE WE ALL GIVE AND RECEIVE MIXED MESSAGES.
2007-01-14 07:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by freephoenixuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be carful mate if you tell her how you feel it could destroy your friendship with her. This is a tough question to answer it sounds like she likes you but you dont wana confuse friendship for somthing else just carry on the way you are and maybe she will make the first move! i wish you all the best!
2007-01-10 09:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Clark Kent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as you are mates, its the best way to start a little something. Go for it, she is expecting you to make the first move, she keeps saying your friends to save herself any possible embarrassment.
When she gets close, just plant a little kiss on her, somewhere subtle like her cheek, dont go a french one straight off.
Take a deep breath and dive in, enjoy yourself.
2007-01-10 08:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may be interested in her a little more than friends? right?
Ask her .... talk to her and ask her where you think this friendship is going. Tell her you just asking so that you know and that he doesnt want her to get the wrong idea.
2007-01-10 08:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by stars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds like she likes you. And the best friends thing well thats a good thing most of the time because if you date somone you also should be their best friend as well as boyfriend
2007-01-10 08:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm Dunoo how old is she? Y dont u try hinted asking questions, ask her if she likes any 1 at the mo? questions like that. . u dont wanna dive on top of her as u might loss a friendship!
2007-01-10 08:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by H J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, have to agree that she Fancy's you. Do something romantic, take her out to a nice dinner, or something and let her know how you feel. Jewelry is a good idea too.
2007-01-10 08:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jessy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls want their boyfriend to be their best friend. You have to be friends before you can be anything else. What is is saying is she wants to get to know you more.
2007-01-10 08:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to find out is by telling her how you feel
2007-01-10 08:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by shayla x x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋