Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

We have been happily married with a very active sex life for 12 years. Of late my husband insists on watching porn videos with me before we make love. He says it helps his libido.
Is this natural ? I mean I am from a religious family and I feel it is wrong. But if it helps him I am not sure.
Is there anybody out there in a similar predicament ?

2007-01-07 21:01:14 · 29 answers · asked by snoopertrooper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in the same house. like a friend or a spouse or whatever

2007-01-07 21:01:07 · 10 answers · asked by supaherounst 2 in Friends

he is divorced for 2 years and still lives with his exwife.

2007-01-07 21:00:41 · 11 answers · asked by witch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what dose this mean whan aman keep come in your dream

2007-01-07 20:58:51 · 9 answers · asked by NarcolepticNancy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Met a man 6 weeks ago, he was going on holiday over xmas &said he wld call after the hols, but it was the xmas period so i was unsure if he meant his holidays or xmas & new year. Anyway he did not call at all so i texted him saying hi a few days ago and he responded saying he lost my number, was really pleased i texted, idle chit chat re going back to work and his hols and that no doubt we wld meet up soon &signed it with a kiss. He did not however ask me out.

1) was that a polite brush off
2) is he just busy and will likely call in a week or 2 with a date

shld i just get the fact he is just not that interested or is it possible he is just really shy & keeping things light.

any suggestions - shld i answer his txt or leave it?

i havent been obsessive or pining for him or checking my phone, but he was a sweet nice gentleman and i wld at like to be at least friends and see if something develops no pressure but not sure how to instigate that? any suggestions??

2007-01-07 20:58:33 · 15 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

i understand why men like supermodels becaue they are SEXY and SLUTTY .. but i dont know why woman run after Doctor even ugly ones

2007-01-07 20:58:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was cleaning my recently turned 15 yr old daughters room and found condoms and lubrier cant. She has a bf whom she has been seeing for quite a while. what do you do when you discover that your so called angel is having sex. i dont know how to confront her. please help

2007-01-07 20:55:59 · 27 answers · asked by just_a_bitch61 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

who would be your top five ?????

2007-01-07 20:55:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i dont know what will i do..........i love this guy but yet we never met in person, what i mean is that i just meet him through text in cellphones........we both know that we are attracted to each other even though we didnt see each other........his 8 years older than, i'm 17 and his 25.......he said he loves me and i'm special to him.......and i believe him so........do you think i should give serious to our relationship? and in what i feel for him, is that love? or just an infatuation?lease help me.......i didn't know what to do........his my first boyfriend, so thats why i don't know how to handle relationship like this........

2007-01-07 20:54:57 · 9 answers · asked by grace 1 in Singles & Dating

I Got a "wrong number" call from a guy.... and we started talkin and ened up talkin the whole night trough.. then we met up the next day and it turned out we like each other... we kissed... he lives 2 hours drivinf from where i live and says he wants to come everyday but i dont want him2 do that just to see me cz i'd feel guilty then... the day we met.... later on he said he loves me... and untill now (its been 4 days) he still says he loves me... can this be real ????

2007-01-07 20:53:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been a fan of thongs for years! My girlfriend made me think otherwise. Maybe it depends on the girl, but I think panties help bring out the butt a lot better, since it brings everything so tightly together. It gives the butt more definition. A butt in panties looks tighter, screaming to come out :)! Like I said it depends on the girl.

Girls and Guys: Thongs or Panties? Which do you prefer?

2007-01-07 20:51:52 · 25 answers · asked by Bobby_Bomberman 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy I wasn't crazy about flew me to Paris after 2 weeks. This was a lovely gesture, but somehow it didn't match up to an otherwise macho guy I was crazy about telling me I give him a reason to wake up every morning and that his life felt devoid of reason until I arrived, or even getting drunk and telling all and sundry at a pub that he is crazy about me, and showing me off to them.

So what things have meant the most to you?

2007-01-07 20:51:04 · 29 answers · asked by AussieRockchic 1 in Singles & Dating

I've recently moved to Canada from another country, i live here with my aunt & uncle, my aunts really sweet , the problem is my uncle. I have a big bust 36c, and he keeps finding some excuse to brush against them , i have even caught him staring at them a couple of times, i dont want to confront him or my aunt as i live with them & i'm afraid my aunt may misunderstand me & tell me to leave, so what do i do

2007-01-07 20:50:19 · 12 answers · asked by yvonne d 1 in Friends

2007-01-07 20:50:06 · 17 answers · asked by kcyesye 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 20:48:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is engaged and loves him so much, but she has a major crush on this guy that we both know, so do i. one drunken night she asked me to promise her that i wouldnt do anything with him. we shared a kiss on new years and i told her. she was ok about it. but now he is interested in me. what do i do? should i break the promise as it could be a chance for happiness and fun for me and if i do break the promise do i tell her? others have said she is selfish for doing this and if she was a good friend she would let me have him. PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-01-07 20:47:53 · 11 answers · asked by minx_1486 1 in Friends

When I was first diagnosed 2 years, ago...I was hopeful because I'd read lupus is manageable, etc. But, in these two years I've had to have both knees replaced ( I'm 40 ), itchy skin rashes that last for weeks or months, and profound fatigue.

Should I expect things to ever get better? I want to. But, it's not looking that great.

I need to realistically know what to expect. I need to prepare myself. Please share what you know with me.
Thanks!

2007-01-07 20:46:56 · 8 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

my wife and i always fight for no big reason, she's 10 years older than me has a lot of expirience in life that makes him think that shes always right and i'm wrong. i just wanna give up on her. my problem is the custody of our daugther. i don't have any job except for the little business that she once had provide and she let me manage.

2007-01-07 20:46:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anjoe R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

example the ruff-neck lazy,smoke weed,drinks and have baby-momma drama. And the other one have a college degress and good paying job and his own place but most women want money from him and still see the ruff-neck on the side

2007-01-07 20:45:24 · 10 answers · asked by slymkid 1 in Singles & Dating

however after many breakups and many ups and downs we decided to move in together, in the last minute he changed his mind because of my son, i was left out in the cold with no where to go to, despite it all i still gave it a chance and spend a few days with him at the begining of the new year, i have found out that i was a fool and he was only using me until he found some one else, i felt like i was going to die, i cried for days hoping i will get over it, but the gurt is so deep that every day that goes by i get more depressed and more sad and seem to be going down, does anyone has a way of getting over anything like this fast and quick,?

2007-01-07 20:45:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes. I am a 14-year-old stalker of a 34-year-old man.
The school forbade me to talk to him, but I miss him so much.
Please no philosophy or lectures, I've really gotten enough of that these past few months.
What should I do?
I really don't want to go on to another man, I know we were destined for each other....

2007-01-07 20:44:38 · 7 answers · asked by Kay-Kay Sixx 2 in Singles & Dating

Ask her questions and she lies to me and i find out through are friend

2007-01-07 20:43:33 · 12 answers · asked by Mark Jr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 8 months pregnant and my husband decded to leave us last month. He claimes he loves me but is not in love with me any longer. I suggested we work on the relationship but he does not want to. I tried being there for him since we are having a baby together but my hate for him has grown so much that i have had to cut him out of my life. I don't answer his calls, i just generally stay away from him. I know this is a tuff question but if i stay away from him long enough do you think he will come to his sences that he has lost his family. I don't plan on letting him come back but i was just wondering what everyone thought.

2007-01-07 20:42:54 · 12 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my partner cheating on me during a rough time.......we have worked it out etc etc ......but every now and then I just get so upset about it ......how long will it take before i can trully get over it.......
see we dont live together yet, and when we're not together i find myself wondering..............

2007-01-07 20:42:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-07 20:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a manager position in the service industry which means I spend most of my time @ work. Is it possible to have a meaningful relationship w/out having tons of time to invest? It is not like I want to spend time apart, but my schedule prevents me from being together alot. I have dated many ladies, and things always go well. However, I have never met anyone who could handle spending little time together. Is there a lady who can handle a long distance relationship while living in the same town? Am I delusional in thinking that the whole idea of finding love on limited time is even possible? Do I need to quit my job to find someone?
Your advice and/or insight on this matter is greatly appreciated.

2007-01-07 20:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by laughingnlovin 1 in Singles & Dating

There was a fight between me and dad.After the fight he kept quite for sometime. I realised my mistake and even asked for pardon. But he said that I hurt him so much that he has started feeling that he is going to die.

What should I do now to console him

2007-01-07 20:41:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I need to find someone call Mekaeel Maknoon, in U.K, who lives in 33 Wragby road, Leyton stons, London E11 3ld, I think.

2007-01-07 20:39:23 · 8 answers · asked by ***Forever Now*** 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-07 20:39:13 · 10 answers · asked by girish s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i haveing trouble reciveing her email

2007-01-07 20:37:03 · 4 answers · asked by tw565758 1 in Other - Family & Relationships