however after many breakups and many ups and downs we decided to move in together, in the last minute he changed his mind because of my son, i was left out in the cold with no where to go to, despite it all i still gave it a chance and spend a few days with him at the begining of the new year, i have found out that i was a fool and he was only using me until he found some one else, i felt like i was going to die, i cried for days hoping i will get over it, but the gurt is so deep that every day that goes by i get more depressed and more sad and seem to be going down, does anyone has a way of getting over anything like this fast and quick,?
2007-01-07 20:45:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wish i can tell you that theres an easy fast way out but there isnt. I've been in the same situation, I dated this guy for 7years on and off and even though i knew he was using me but the love that i had for him wouldn't let me leave him until he found a woman in 2004 and dumped me and i thought my life was over but it isnt. All i can tell you is that everytime you miss him just think of the negative things that he has done to you and say to yourself i hate him and that his worthless and i will find somebody one day that will treat me right. This has helped me and i know it can help you
2007-01-07 20:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must accept the situation as it is - no denial. Second, you must confront the situation by accepting to take a step towards healing. thirdly, remember, he is not the only one. You are better off without him. The on and off scenario is too great a pointer towards disaster. You are lucky to come out of it now. You accept yourself as a pretty and important person to be let down by such a person. Is what he has done good for a person like you? So count yourself lucky. See a professional counsellor and let him/her help you. You have taken a wonderful first step to seek help and don't give up. You will soon be laughing at the situation, I can guarantee you that.
2007-01-08 04:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Counsellor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump off a cliff, eat a bullet, Cut your wrists, Hang yourself. Those are the "Fast and Quick " options.
Im sure you would much rather take the Slow Recovery. He found someone new, you should do the same. And Don't put all your eggs in one basket, find several Guys and date, compare, and choose the best one, dont get fixated on one guy.
2007-01-08 04:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by Paul S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try putting your nose to the grind stone and work your tail feathers off trying to make a good living for you and your son. stay focused and dont let yourself think about him. thats about all i have to offer. i hope u feel better though ^.^ try to smile a bit!
2007-01-08 04:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
indulge yourself in extra professional work
2007-01-08 04:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no quick way....
give yourself some time...
2007-01-08 05:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by death_black21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋