Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

I’ve spent my entire life being the kind of person who was obsessed with whether or not others liked me. I never thought, "Wait a minute! Do I like YOU?!” I realized this flaw recently when after almost two years of giving of my love, time, patience, energy, money and assistance to my three live in step kids (ages 10, 12 and 14) I no longer care if they like/accept me. I'm child-free. I met the kids 7 yrs into our marriage b/c they were in another country and spoke no English. I helped them to come here at their mom (his 1st wife) and dad's (my husband) request. He is a workaholic and only home about 15 waking min per day. After spending HUNDREDS of hours doing activities with them, talking with them, spending my time, energy, patience, etc. I’ve decided they are lying, deceitful, judgmental, narrow-minded, American-hating, manipulative, sneaky, stealing little beasts. I avoid them to escape their ugly, disrespectful personalities. Do you think this means I must leave my home/marriage?

2007-01-07 20:08:08 · 4 answers · asked by Angel1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im going to college soon and im very excited about it. But everytime every year some of the boys likes me but i dunno if they like like me or jst fooling around. I wanna know what signals they show to show gurls dat they like them. plz help me.

xx jess xx

2007-01-07 20:06:39 · 11 answers · asked by -BaByLiCiOuS- 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my bf for at least 3 yrs now , but for the past year....he stopped giving me smooches or french kisses. He gives me kisses on the cheeks, but never mouth to mouth anymore. I've asked him recently, but he gave me a lame excuse that his mouth hurts because his wisdom tooth has been growing. I know that is BS because he stopped since at least 6 months to 1 yr ago...while his wisdom tooth grew just last month! We get sexually intimate in all other ways, but i'm still I'm concerned. What do you think is the problem? Is he losing feelings or getting bored of me?

2007-01-07 20:06:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has sworn off men 4ever so I'm doing a survey here.

She's young but has 2 take blood thinners 4 health problems & was told by many doctors to NEVER get pregnant. She can't get fixed -- doctors refuse 2 do it because she has severe (life & death) bleeding & clot risks if she ever has surgery.
Condoms can break & birth control pills would interfere with her blood thinners.
Her ex-fiancee and other men she's asked over the past 2 years said they would never have a vasectomy no matter how big a life & death risk to her or any woman, even tho a vasectomy's done quickly with a local anasthetic & low risk.

Would you have a vasectomy for a woman you like or love so you could have a relationship? Why or why not?

The guys she asked gave reasons like they may want 2 have kids some day, or it would make them less of a man.

2007-01-07 20:06:29 · 10 answers · asked by RedIsBlue 3 in Singles & Dating

Last christmas I bought my husband a subscription to Hussler on ebay, because it was like $3 and I thought it would be funny. He and I both read it BUT lately hes been hiding it. Today I found it hidden in the bathroom under the bath mat/ carpet thats right in front of the bathroom sink, I found it there several times before. My daughter is 4 and has a little potty stool that she uses to step up on to get to the sink and thats usually right over the carpet/mat, and that was right over the carpet which was over the mag. I use the little stool to sit on when I dry my hair with the hair dryer so when I move it, I step on the carpet and yeah you can feel the mag under there. Should I say anything to him? I think he would be embarassed about it. Its always gone by the afternoon lol I am not sure if I should just ignore it? Ive never asked him what he does with the mags besides just read them. Have you had this problem? I dont mind him looking at porn...just sorta at a loss of what to do!!

2007-01-07 20:06:28 · 21 answers · asked by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Fiance is gone after kicking his *** .Caught him in bed with ex girlfriend and MRS. JOnes is no longer or will be my last name . Dated 3 guys didn't like at all , since then and he and i talk only about how he mom is doing . P.S. SINGLE AND WANTING TO DATE AGIAN.

2007-01-07 20:06:19 · 3 answers · asked by lee-lee 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime i dont know what to do, and its hard to go cause i afraid she will hear it!

2007-01-07 20:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by quikblue11 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I basically said that I thought he was so beautiful and that I would do anything to be held in his arms...
As a man, would you be flattered by such a thing?

2007-01-07 20:04:39 · 8 answers · asked by Kay-Kay Sixx 2 in Singles & Dating

My son's mother just passed away. I'm heading back home to be with him (currently overseas). I am a part of his life and live less than 15 minutes away.

Have you had to deal with this? At 37 I find myself lost here. Other than being a good father what else can I do?

2007-01-07 20:03:50 · 8 answers · asked by Belize69 2 in Family

2007-01-07 20:02:51 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 20:01:41 · 6 answers · asked by shimaa s 1 in Singles & Dating

when i was at a house party over a year ago i got into a bit of bother...i ended up meeting my friends boyfriend..i regreted it after wards and i only told a few of my close friends what had happened..but da other night i got a fone call and it was my friend asking me did i meet her boyfriend?i deneyed it to the last and so did he as i dont want what happened to ruin their relationship..she finished with him for a few days but now there back together...he stil talks to me but she dont...i think she believes him that nothing happened..but im worried it will come up again..what should i do should i tell her the truth??

2007-01-07 20:01:13 · 17 answers · asked by emma_18d 2 in Friends

if an non married woman is seeing a married man.. is the the one commiting adultery or is he? i didnt think you could commit adultery without being married. its not me in this situation!!!i know someone who is and i was just wondering..

2007-01-07 20:01:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

are or you over him or her?

2007-01-07 19:59:21 · 23 answers · asked by LS 5 in Singles & Dating

i meet a person and we do like each other but he asks me always for kisses & visiting his home. i really feel unconfortable for that althuogh i do like him but i feel that it is early for that and i need time to trust him & feel secure. he stopped talking with me but what i can do- i do not want to be in a hurry with Unserious guy- how i can tell & what to do???

2007-01-07 19:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Friends

2007-01-07 19:57:59 · 9 answers · asked by Kalinga T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Which would you prefer? You have a choice between two women which you are to marry and spend the rest of your natural life with. Cheating on either of them is not an option. (if you do your penis will fall off) One woman is a virgin or not very experienced. You live the rest of your life trying to talk her into some semi-kinky stuff which she absolutely will not consider. You spend the rest of your life not being sexually fulfilled, or .....The other choice is a woman who has been around the block a few times, and then a couple more times. She knows the male body almost as well as she knows her own. She is very sexually open. Is not afraid try anything. All of your sexual fantasies are fulfilled and she shows you a few more that never even crossed your mind. Which would you choose? Be honest and give a reason why. Thanks!!!

2007-01-07 19:57:44 · 21 answers · asked by The Pig! 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who needs to see a good psychologist or perhaps a Licensed Clinical social worker. He needs someone in the Seattle, Washington area. Also, a good Marriage, family therapist if you know of one. It's difficult to know who to go to when you don't have a clue about the person. He doesn't want to just pull a name out of the phonebook. He isn't comfortable talking about it to friends so of course he won't ask any of them for recommendations. He would like someone really good. If you know of someone, can you share some of that persons good qualities as well. Thanks!

2007-01-07 19:57:25 · 3 answers · asked by Night Wind 4 in Marriage & Divorce

its just like im annoyed because there is no kind of commitment and its just weird cause we both like each other to the fullist and like i said he havent asked me out but i dont know do i take the step or wait? also its only been like a month and a half since we stared talking but ive known him for a good 3 months now? please help!

2007-01-07 19:57:22 · 11 answers · asked by Aloneeyes 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 27 and need to gain weight. I've tried eating well but i still cant gain any weight. I'm even considering taking family planning tablets just to gain weight, i'm abstaining actually. are there any side effects in doing this.

2007-01-07 19:57:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok like i didnt call him or 2 days and now he calls so so much why?

2007-01-07 19:49:41 · 4 answers · asked by Aloneeyes 2 in Family

I want to come to God but I can't stop sex if the ladies offer me that. What should I do?

2007-01-07 19:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by ZOHIRE 1 in Singles & Dating

Why? Why? Whua………….y?

2007-01-07 19:47:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 19:47:15 · 5 answers · asked by skn 1 in Singles & Dating

I did it again today, and I felt like a total R-Tard. I just laughed at myself but unfortunately, so did the person that I was greeting...jerk. ;-)

2007-01-07 19:47:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This person has known me all my life and has just recently came back into my life. He tells me that he tried to contact me years ago to tell me how he felt and was unable. He has never lied to me and I have known him for about 30 years. What should I do????

2007-01-07 19:46:51 · 18 answers · asked by LadyBug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

becouse im pregnant

2007-01-07 19:46:19 · 5 answers · asked by kj15648 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-07 19:46:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i looked for her to asked for her number but she had left,,,so i left a note with her maneger with my number on it,,,,Concetta text me on the 18th Dec we talked on the phone and got to know each other a bit we talked again on the 19th and the 20th she went to Italy to be with her family,,,we kept in touch via email, text , and phone while she was in Italy,,, we got to know each other better that way. She came back on the 3rd of Jan we spoke on the phone and arranged to meet on Sat the 6th,,,she met me in my area of London,,,after we met i drove her around my area then stopped at a pub had a drink to break the ice,,,went to M&S for food and then to Block Buster for her favorite movie,,,then to my house,,,,we laid on my bed together she felt very comfortable with me,,,so she laid on my chest,,i caressed her we then kissed and it just happened we had sex,,,after all that happened she told my she likes me alot but she felt bad about what happened on our first date and she thinks we rushed!

2007-01-07 19:45:28 · 8 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Singles & Dating

You know how some people have to be high or drunk after work or on thier days off. My boyfriend is one of those. I don't understand. Why can't we have a good time sober??

2007-01-07 19:44:53 · 14 answers · asked by saseebo 2 in Marriage & Divorce