Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and it has been a battle, but we have stuck together because we love each other. He is great at providing financially, but he works so much and has a very busy schedule. But now I am having seconds thoughts. I ran into an old love and he reminded me how love makes me feel and my current boyfriend does not make me feel that way anymore he's always too busy to have "quality time". My boyfriend and I broke up for a few days over new years and I explained to him what I was missing from the relationship. Now he wants to work on it and try, but I'm afraid it might be too late, cuz I think I have fallen out of love with him, but I he is a good man and I would hate to think if I walk away because of my selfishness that I lost out on a wonderful life. Am I being anal and selfish or is it okay to want to feel the passion.

2007-01-07 19:15:47 · 10 answers · asked by Hopless romantic 1 in Singles & Dating

What kind of stuff do would u like to see on your girlfrien/wife?

2007-01-07 19:15:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah, im usually not like this. There are about three million relationship questions asking "does he like me" and other crap like that. Anyway, there is this guy im kinda interested. What are some things I can do to get him interested? I'm really cute and have a quirky personality so what can I do to let him know that I'm interested?

2007-01-07 19:14:46 · 5 answers · asked by //// 3 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering after a baby is born, how does the identify process (such as parent affidavit or brith certificate)work in california.
1. What kind of paperwork will the hospital provide? is that provided as soon as the baby is born?
2. Does the baby have to get a birth certificate as soon as he is born or that's optional?
3. For all the baby identity paper works, do I have to fill in baby father's name or that is also optional?

thanks all for your helo

2007-01-07 19:14:32 · 3 answers · asked by tomjerry 1 in Family

There is something that I've always wanted in my life and I've found it. Problem is it seems so far away and no matter how hard I try I can't seem to make it possible to be where I should be to have what I've always wanted. I really believe I could be really happy as could other people involved in the situation. What would you do if this was your situation?

2007-01-07 19:12:52 · 3 answers · asked by ANG 2 in Friends

2007-01-07 19:12:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he was having a party at his house with all his homeboys and i called him 3 times and he said he was going to call me back all 3 times and never did, what does that mean and what should i do? your all opinions are welcome...please.

2007-01-07 19:11:59 · 8 answers · asked by Heidi 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine is Mark Dodd

2007-01-07 19:11:49 · 22 answers · asked by hellwot 2 in Friends

I know guys that think that women should just be glad they have some kind of attention, but I feel that's just wrong, I like to spend as much time as possible before I send my lover over the brink, so to speak, I dig that big time.

2007-01-07 19:08:23 · 12 answers · asked by Schpyke 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 19:07:10 · 11 answers · asked by Taylor G 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I need some ideas for a present for a guy that has everthing, he's one of these ppl that thinks getting CD's and DVD's is pretty boring so I need some ideas for funky gifts that are a little out of the ordinary.

Help!

2007-01-07 19:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by Southern Belle 3 in Friends

i know we cant be together anymore so what should i do?

2007-01-07 19:06:31 · 8 answers · asked by sad 1 in Singles & Dating

A couple of days ago, my cousin came over for dinner. He seemed very depressed; significantly less active in interraction than he did a year ago. Whenever I'd try talking to him, I was given a 'bleh' response (not really negative, but rather emotionless). Even when I offered to watch anime with him, a proposal he NEVER refused before, he denied, saying 'no...thanks'.

But here's the main part- come dinner time, we all sit down to eat. When he reaches for his fork, I notice several infected slashes on his lower right forearm, and immediately I felt a deep sense of both despair and shock. I didn't say anytihng at the table. However, when we were alone at one point, I told him what I saw very calmly, and he shrugged, saying 'eh....em...right', and walked off. I swear I heard him whimper, too.

On instant messaging, hes told me about struggling with school bullies, and always got so down about it. I want to show him love, care, and acceptance school doesnt provide.

What do I do?

2007-01-07 19:05:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know that this guy was extremely interested in me and then I did something that made him mad at me and now he is not interested anymore. What can I do to make things good again?

2007-01-07 19:04:36 · 11 answers · asked by airtightreality 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been 2-gether 4 years, and we love eachother deeply, but there is this problem that keeps revealing itself. When its confronted we work through it and resolve it. But it does'nt get resolved after all it just keeps coming up. My boyfriend has this thing about calling the sex-date lines, when i confront him he lies about it (not his usual way) When unexpectely I see it in a bill sent to our address, Once again I have to deal with this issue, will he stay faithful to me, Or is this a red flag saying this man is on his way out the door on to the next one? His excuse is I wouldnt be wanting to check other women if U did'nt get in those moods,(my pms monthly mood)What Ever??????

2007-01-07 19:03:58 · 8 answers · asked by rhyme2_333 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this girl, and she likes me too(we are teenagers by the way). we've gone out a couple times. i took her to the mall, saw movies, played games, sing k, and ate dinner. well, sometimes, i really cant think of other places to take her... she says she's not very active, but we cant go to each other's houses because of parents' restrictions. she also doesnt like eatting very much. i don think she likes places like park, and she doesnt like sports much. well, she seems to like exciting things and stuff that entertains her. sometimes, i feel that im running out of ideas of where to take her. can you guys give me more suggestions on where to take her after reading my post? thanks a lot!!

2007-01-07 19:03:40 · 4 answers · asked by tmackun135 1 in Singles & Dating

...i need some ideas about the easiest way to say goodbye. (especially when it's the last thing you wnat to do in the world)

2007-01-07 19:02:57 · 3 answers · asked by califniadrmn 1 in Singles & Dating

A hott lady who has an average personality, or an average looking women with a wonderful personality?

2007-01-07 19:02:02 · 11 answers · asked by james w 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 19:01:34 · 3 answers · asked by Taylor G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 19:01:11 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor G 1 in Singles & Dating

Being Muscular a Turn-off?

2007-01-07 19:01:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the mother of a 3 and a half yr. old boy and a 5 month girl...my son is an excellent kid, he's never been jealous of the baby, he'll play with her and is always wanting to be a part of whatever her daily requirements are...ei..diaper changing, feeding, bathing, playtime, etc...

I am a stay at home SINGLE mother thanks to our gov'ts system, and I do not take this for granted....although I do have the right to be on one yr/s mat leave just like any other mom..

Why should I feel guilt if the father of my daughter still lives at home and has no job cept moochin off his parents??? Maybe I'm a bit insecure, but is it time I ditched the dodo and of course I will soon be back to work for my family, so should I dump his obviously lazy *** and wait for new prospects in the future??? And I'm not a dumbass ho, I have worked in a hospital setting and for a lawyer before I ever had kids....I just want to know if he is just the one being lazy but blaming it all on me???

2007-01-07 19:00:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you see i was with a guy named john and he lied to me for a whole year and said he loved me and that i made him the happiest man in the world but you see he only said that to me and to my family to his family i was not waht he wanted and he didn't love me and i didn't make him happy ... you see one night when he was called in to work i got upset it was his day off . and then we argued for a few mins and then he went to work well that night he came home slept in my bed held me all night and told me he loved me then the next morning he left ( ******* coward anyway) but what i don't get is why can't they be the men they claim to be and be honest tell them the truth why they left and what it was that the woman did wrong ? and why do men always blame everything on the girl .they never take the blame for anyof it ??????? please let me know guys opions will be taken serious but so will womans point of veiw well thanks all for your hel ( ps he was always stuck up his brothers *** )

2007-01-07 19:00:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I said no and told her that i wud be sad and might drink a lot but i wud definitely not commit suicide( i Said tht becos i have to look after my parents who brought me up for 20 years. Its not tht i dont love her. I love her a lot but i cannot commit suicide becos tht sounds so stupid ) . Since then she is not talking to me naturally like before ?

Did i say Anything wrong ?

2007-01-07 18:58:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found a surface that was large enough for me to express my love for you... but sadly, i couldn't find a pen that could write across the sky.

2007-01-07 18:58:10 · 2 answers · asked by wrldzgr8stdad 4 in Singles & Dating

A guy I dated is confusing me all the time,we get along wonderfully.Same interests,we understand each others feelings when somethings wrong.But the one thing I cant understand and he's explained too is.(what he said) "I think it's because there is a lot of me that really wants a lot of the same things you do, but another part of me that doesn't think it would work long term, so I sort of question wants the point.I enjoy being with you and there is not much I wouldn't do for you."And he always! tells me how great I am,and how hes attracted to me.But he throws me in circles! I do like him,and always will as a friend(there is a possibility of being more I think.) but should i tell how i feel?or will I be let down. He has a nact for sayign alot but never acting upon it.He has his issues,I accept that,hes been hurt badly,and i can see the great guy under all the BS he pretends to be.How can I go about either keeping it a friendship or making it more ?(we dated 2.5 yrs ago)

2007-01-07 18:55:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 18:55:27 · 12 answers · asked by abril b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we were on IM and I was complaining about a friend not being truthful. He said he doesnt encounter such incidents probably he is being an indifferent person. I told him that he isnt such, otherwise he wont be chatting with me now.
He then told me that he is indifferent about unimportant things to him. Is he trying to tell me i am important.
Does he like me?

2007-01-07 18:54:21 · 4 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello Man all over the world, I just wondering if VIRGINITY, still important things when you decided to marry, how many of You will ask or argue with ur couple, thx for the answer, because I want get marry soon, but I have never ask that things, thx

2007-01-07 18:52:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

-we've been hanging out non-stop for the past month
-sometimes we get drunk and other times we just drive around and talk
-once and a while he invites me out with his friends
-he calls me "his love" and always talks about how much he loves me, even if its only a friendly type of love
-we hang out daily
-we've had sex before
-i've told him my true feelings for him, but he doesn't want a relationship because he's leaving for the marines
-he plays with my hair and kisses me and rubs my back
-he always says he'll call but whenever he does its usually 3 hours after the time he said he would
-we never hang out during the day
-he tells me he loves spending time with me and wants to be with me all the time

aside from all that, he's leaving just TOMMOROW. what are some things i can say/do before he goes so that he leaves with good thoughts of me and knows that im truely going to miss him and i love him as a friend and maybe even more...please help! thank you its very imporant!!

2007-01-07 18:51:24 · 13 answers · asked by MarilynMonroe 1 in Singles & Dating