Hello Man all over the world, I just wondering if VIRGINITY, still important things when you decided to marry, how many of You will ask or argue with ur couple, thx for the answer, because I want get marry soon, but I have never ask that things, thx
2007-01-07 18:52:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is kinda like '''not wanting to get a dog from a kennel because it had a previous owner''' mentality. Why, it might have some habits you don't like, or a so-called 'mind of its own' and be harder to train to the way YOU need it to be.. subservient in every way.
You want to have a puppy that's cute and beautiful and new and is virtually trained by you in every way to do exactly what you say and want and to worship the ground you walk on. Man, NOW you can show it off to your friends, right?
It won't argue or wonder. You'll always be the best and no one will come between you, not in its thoughts or reality.
And please don't invoke 'man all over the world' hoping they think just like you. Unbelievably, but true, the modern man is a compassionate understanding caring human being believing that a life committment and partnership with another person brings meaning and fulfillment to life. Virginity has nothing to do with that. noooo, absolutely nothing.
If you cannot see life this way, please get a dog! NO, I mean a puppy!! It is already established that you are controlling and possessive and need an unspoiled puppy!!
Otherwise, if you are hung up with the ancient traditions of a culture we are forced to respect because everyone has equal rights, please please please, marry someone in the same culture with absolutely your very same beliefs so that you don't one day end up dumping her and leaving yet another single mother with kids for our government to feed because you decided you should really have gotten a puppy instead!
If the rest of us have to be tolerant and open minded, why does it not apply to you?
2007-01-07 19:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by fjäril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compare and Contrast.
Not the only thing to consider before marriage but one of the most significant factor to consider.
2007-01-08 03:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by sianpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very Important actully it's a deal Breaker in our culture we only marry virgins
2007-01-08 02:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Reasonable 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, i rather Marry a Virgin.
2007-01-08 02:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by RR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nowadays, at least in my experience alot of people have sex before marriage... i dont think it really matters if the person is a virgin, as long as you love the person then who cares if theyve had sex
2007-01-08 02:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Tsavestheday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not at all...sometimes a little experience is a good thing.
2007-01-08 08:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by Bob R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no!..we are in the year 2007 not 1007.i dont care,,do you?
2007-01-08 03:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by READY OR NOT HERE I COME ! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋