-we've been hanging out non-stop for the past month
-sometimes we get drunk and other times we just drive around and talk
-once and a while he invites me out with his friends
-he calls me "his love" and always talks about how much he loves me, even if its only a friendly type of love
-we hang out daily
-we've had sex before
-i've told him my true feelings for him, but he doesn't want a relationship because he's leaving for the marines
-he plays with my hair and kisses me and rubs my back
-he always says he'll call but whenever he does its usually 3 hours after the time he said he would
-we never hang out during the day
-he tells me he loves spending time with me and wants to be with me all the time
aside from all that, he's leaving just TOMMOROW. what are some things i can say/do before he goes so that he leaves with good thoughts of me and knows that im truely going to miss him and i love him as a friend and maybe even more...please help! thank you its very imporant!!
2007-01-07 18:51:24 · 13 answers · asked by MarilynMonroe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, he doesn't just want you from sex. But I'd say this relationship will not grow into romance until he comes back. Having a relationship with someone just joining the military is extremely hard. Long distance is not easy and not a good way for a relationship to start.
2007-01-07 18:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was looking kind of positive until "we never hang out during the day". If he's expressed he doesn't want a relationship then that's also saying that he just wants it to be physical.
Hate to say it but you're a booty call if he's calling you at night, 3 hours later than when he said he'd call. Sorry chick, you'll find someone though.
2007-01-08 02:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by purplebuggy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me (1) He has someone else he "hangs" out with during the day and doesn't want conflict.(2) He's leaving for the Marines and is trying to establish a "closeness" with you before he leaves so, you might end up being "his love" for life if you so choose.(3)Could be he doesn't want to get hurt by committing to you and leaves for the service. He would set himself for "homesickness" before he even left for basic training.
There could be alot of reasons why the change is but, you won't know unless you ask him how he feels.
2007-01-08 03:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awwwww, you sound really sweet......You have to tell him what you think about him, obviously you really like him, If I could find a chick that would love me as much as you seem to love him, it would be a good life! Make sure you tell him how real you are!, and he will respond in a great way!
Good Luck! xoxo
2007-01-08 02:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by dwntwnbadboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not just sex. Basic training is not forever. Just support him and wait. He will come back to you even more in love after bieng trained in responsibility. If you give up Im sure you will regret it later.
2007-01-08 03:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by JHAMAINE E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes being with you alot. Your a good friend to him.However u seem to be kind of a friend with benifits.and if your lookin for somethin real and lasting hes not it hun. tell him you want to always be his friend but no more sex.
2007-01-08 02:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is leaving tomm and u want to know how do he really feel about u don't sleep with him before he leaves and see how will u'r relation be or how will i goes by while he is away
2007-01-08 02:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by Reasonable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm he might've just wanted action...not sure..who cares hes leaving
2007-01-08 02:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what Girl...................,His USING YOU, why cant you see that, he just wants you for fun and he can be around you at night when his has got no one else so maybe his just using you and getting his job done...........confront him about this issue and if he whimps out then i bet you will get your answer..
2007-01-08 02:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Avi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get him a nice card and write your thoughts...
2007-01-08 02:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by th1608 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋