I am the mother of a 3 and a half yr. old boy and a 5 month girl...my son is an excellent kid, he's never been jealous of the baby, he'll play with her and is always wanting to be a part of whatever her daily requirements are...ei..diaper changing, feeding, bathing, playtime, etc...
I am a stay at home SINGLE mother thanks to our gov'ts system, and I do not take this for granted....although I do have the right to be on one yr/s mat leave just like any other mom..
Why should I feel guilt if the father of my daughter still lives at home and has no job cept moochin off his parents??? Maybe I'm a bit insecure, but is it time I ditched the dodo and of course I will soon be back to work for my family, so should I dump his obviously lazy *** and wait for new prospects in the future??? And I'm not a dumbass ho, I have worked in a hospital setting and for a lawyer before I ever had kids....I just want to know if he is just the one being lazy but blaming it all on me???
2007-01-07 19:00:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you asking us for reassurance that you are right? You've already pointed out the facts, and you've come to the conclusion that he is the one being lazy, since you have already called him lazy before even asking us. Maybe you feel guilty because you're ignoring your own answer, or it might be likely that you know the answer, you're just afraid of the solution, and your fear makes you feel guilty.
2007-01-07 19:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by famandertiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worked as a single mom and never got a year off maternity leave, more like 6-10 weeks. Nowadays it ususally takes two parents to make a decent living for the children. Even if you do get a job, he needs to support his kids.
2007-01-08 03:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by upallnight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read your question like your best friend was asking you for advice. What would you tell her? You already know the answer. You deserve more and so do your kids. Move on.
2007-01-08 03:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the lazy moocher if he wants to be a part of your life then lay down some ground rules about his contribution to the family if he balks then send him packing
2007-01-08 03:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by sickand tired 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah he's a loser. I would dump his rear end in a heartbeat. I would consider what relaitonship he has with the children. As hard as it may be, I would not tear him down in front of them. But yeah, get going with dating.
2007-01-08 03:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by nathan38701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋