I want to come to God but I can't stop sex if the ladies offer me that. What should I do?
2007-01-07 19:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by ZOHIRE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't put yourself in situations where sex can happen. It is normal to have those feelings at 27, but you are an adult and you can control yourself. You are not an out-of-control teenager who does not understand the consequences of his actions. Grow up, pray about your problems and ask for the strength to fight the urges. And again, don't allow yourself to be put into situations where sex can happen!
2007-01-07 19:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh I understand the presure of restricting your desire and feeling guilty after fulfilling it! because around 4-5 years ago i was like that. the best that i can suggest you is that use your mind and logically think about this issue that if there is a god and he is so kind and supportive and everything, so why he should be angry of you if you have sex with someone else? when we know that it won't hurt nobody and even it has some good efects on your future marriage life(you'll choose your match with more experience and knowledge). well, it is a fact that the way you think effects the way you feel, so if you change it, you feel guilty to satisfy your ligitimate desires.
2007-01-08 15:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aint nothing wrong with having sex my friend. I would say if the ladies offer you that, then there's no problem with taking it. I don't know about your god but mine is well and truely ok with that kind of thing as long as you play nice with people.
2007-01-08 03:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
XBOX ALL THE WAY! - Get married, and have sex with the same lady, that way, you can 'stop and go' whenever you want to and when you do, you know its with someone you not going to be punished for sleeping with, but rewarded.
You might not want to admit it, but this is the solution to your prob!
2007-01-08 03:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by U2 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sex b4 marriage is a sin, even masturbating so u have a choice we are not perfect people ya know, if you r going to have sex at least try to stick to one person and do what pleases God.
2007-01-08 04:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by lesuiremike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you muz be a real charmer for those ladies to keep coming over to u ! ..try physical exercise like hiking to exhaust yourself for anything else or simply buy games set (guys like playing games rite ? ) :D
2007-01-08 05:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God'll never mind u havin sex...he made our bodies and filled our heart with all kinds of feelings
2007-01-08 03:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask the Lord to help you, with this....and also see if you can talk to your pastor at church....
Its not easy.
The Holy Sprit, helps us...with this kind of problem...seek Him also.
2007-01-08 03:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you can have sex and still come to god.
2007-01-08 04:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
buy XBOX360
nice advice guys... yeah get marry and get boring
dude just get the XBOX 360 don't listen to them!!
2007-01-08 03:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Arizona A 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋