My son's mother just passed away. I'm heading back home to be with him (currently overseas). I am a part of his life and live less than 15 minutes away.
Have you had to deal with this? At 37 I find myself lost here. Other than being a good father what else can I do?
2007-01-07 20:03:50 · 8 answers · asked by Belize69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She had a heart attack at 38. Smoked like a chimney. We used to argue about this. Did not wish this on her though.
2007-01-07 20:14:46 · update #1
Just be there for them, only thing you can do...
2007-01-07 20:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can relate with loss, and the best thing is to just be there for him.
He has just lost a parent and the last thing you want, is for him to feel alone and lost.
You being there lets him know he still has you.
2007-01-08 04:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by Purple Haze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dreadful!
You do not say how, so it is hard to look at this carefully....but you can just be loving and kind, to your son.He really is going to need you now.
You also do not say how old your son is?........but, I am deeply sorry for this loss....Just be understanding, it may take up to a yr for the boy to heal a little....seek help, and family if possible...
And! look after yourself. GOD BLESS.
2007-01-08 04:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u belizean? if so u should know better.do what u must to comfort him in time like this put your job asibe family first
2007-01-08 04:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by leon tnt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there, right now you are the closest person he has, be a part and be there for him,
Godbless and good luck
2007-01-08 04:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by wjk31092 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRomise me you will not bad mouth his mother.ONLY think of good things about her. SHe is gone now.
2007-01-08 04:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe get him into some counceling...he will probably need to talk about this and learn about grief.
2007-01-08 04:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what you are doing. i am sorry to hear that she died.
2007-01-08 04:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋