I’ve spent my entire life being the kind of person who was obsessed with whether or not others liked me. I never thought, "Wait a minute! Do I like YOU?!” I realized this flaw recently when after almost two years of giving of my love, time, patience, energy, money and assistance to my three live in step kids (ages 10, 12 and 14) I no longer care if they like/accept me. I'm child-free. I met the kids 7 yrs into our marriage b/c they were in another country and spoke no English. I helped them to come here at their mom (his 1st wife) and dad's (my husband) request. He is a workaholic and only home about 15 waking min per day. After spending HUNDREDS of hours doing activities with them, talking with them, spending my time, energy, patience, etc. I’ve decided they are lying, deceitful, judgmental, narrow-minded, American-hating, manipulative, sneaky, stealing little beasts. I avoid them to escape their ugly, disrespectful personalities. Do you think this means I must leave my home/marriage?
2007-01-07 20:08:08 · 4 answers · asked by Angel1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Time to go...
2007-01-07 20:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have you ever talked with your hubby with regards to the babies? in case you have not, it fairly is step one. Be easy with regards to the way that they are and have him cope with them totally...he might desire to discipline the in a fashion that they are to comprehend to admire you a hundred and ten%. in spite of if it means time faraway from artwork because of the fact for sure him not being at domicile has a lot to do with it. and how u make it sound the babies might want some counseling besides. besides the undeniable fact that i've got self assurance that is now up on your husband to get the situation under administration. If the situation isn't dealt with acceptable interior of a sensible quantity of time, you ought to to evaluate leaving in case you're actually not happy.
2016-12-15 18:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by shery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! you really dislike those kids! you are funny, calling them little beasts! haha...I like my girls kid, maybe i am lucky. my kids like my girl also. That must be a lot of stress to you to live in that type of environment. Maybe you should leave. he is never home for you anyways. you could divorce him and get alimony and live alone! without those little sneaky, stealing lying beasts!
2007-01-07 20:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you have put in a lot of time with them, what has changed..............
2007-01-07 20:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋