My husband hides porn...should I do something about it?

Question

Last christmas I bought my husband a subscription to Hussler on ebay, because it was like $3 and I thought it would be funny. He and I both read it BUT lately hes been hiding it. Today I found it hidden in the bathroom under the bath mat/ carpet thats right in front of the bathroom sink, I found it there several times before. My daughter is 4 and has a little potty stool that she uses to step up on to get to the sink and thats usually right over the carpet/mat, and that was right over the carpet which was over the mag. I use the little stool to sit on when I dry my hair with the hair dryer so when I move it, I step on the carpet and yeah you can feel the mag under there. Should I say anything to him? I think he would be embarassed about it. Its always gone by the afternoon lol I am not sure if I should just ignore it? Ive never asked him what he does with the mags besides just read them. Have you had this problem? I dont mind him looking at porn...just sorta at a loss of what to do!!

Answer 1

Just tell him to put in place where your kid or visitors won't find it. Sticking it under the mat is just lazy! lol! Sounds like he's rubbing one out in the morning. I wouldn't sweat it. Though you may want to make an attempt to surprise him in the morning with a bj or some kind of early morning sunrise surprise! lol!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Yes you should, unless you want to watch his attitude toward women in general & you in particular change for the worse.
Cancel the subscription, that was a big mistake, porn is not without effect, and not the effect you want in your home/marriage.
Next, call 1-800-NEW-LIFE, and ask for the book "Every Man's Battle". It is written for men, but you can read it first to educate yourself.
Think about it, why do we hide things? It is out of shame.
Porn creates all kinds of problems, starting subtly, and gradually increasing to the point where the fallout is impossible to ignore.
Good question, now follow through before this becomes a monster in your life together. Porn viewing is, by it's nature, not a static activity, it creates a self-feeding lust for more and harder porn. Any of you men out there who are honest about it know that this is true.

Answer 4

My wager is that facebook isn't the in consumer-friendly words position the position he's hiding issues. perchance he's dishonest, perchance no longer, in spite of the undeniable fact that the final analysis is your marriage is being damage by way of his protecting secrets and techniques. you want to come across a fashion to open up the communique between you and also you're probable going to choose help from an experienced counselor. Spouses are meant to percentage their lives with one yet another, no longer conceal issues away. you want to understand what he's hiding and why he feels the favor to achieve this. those are literally not white lies . A white lie is a few thing you assert to evade damage emotions - like telling you the recent outfit you're wearing looks large even as he extremely doesn't imagine so. those lies and secrets and techniques are hurting you - and hence hurting your marriage.

Answer 5

hmm the first mistake u dd by subscribing the sex mag for your husband let me tell you , you gurls never understand the psychology of a male he always search for a better drive or the best boobs to sucks and hang on, anyways you gave him a chance to compare yourself your figure and your body by other nude girls or playboy girls.. and as we know that in this world no one is perfect so you have a negatve aspects too.. may be you have small boobs or ur sex drive or body shape is not thats much proper .. anyways my suggestion is to unsubscribe the mag as soon as possible dear without knowning him, ok and in the evening when he get back from office just say him that i clean tha entire house today and i through all the rough stuff including old edition of mags from the home, and thirdly take good care of ur body and figure sweety coz these are the things inspire to him alot :) have a great day and peace for the rest of ur life :)

Answer 6

I have never had this problem, but I would talk to him about it. Just let him know that you don't mind that he reads it, but you don't want you girl to find it and start asking really uncomfortable questions about it. That and you wouldn't want her to mention the book that daddy has with naked ladies in it in front of family members. Tell him that all you want him to do is put it in another place....for "safe keeping". He shouldn't mind at all. Maybe he gets turned on by thinking he has to "hide" it from you. Just ask him. If you can be open enough about buying it for him, you should be open enough to ask him about why he hides it. Good luck.

Answer 7

I think I would move it and not say anything to give the impression that the baby took it..Watch him tear apart the bathroom and/or the house for a while.. if he lost his keys... let it re appear some time later in the same spot..I bet he will move it to a safer place..

Answer 8

All humans masturbate, men often use porn. But this seam like he tries to tell you something, he cant be that stupid that he does not understand that you will find it. Try moving the magazines, you don't necessarily want to embarrass him with a confrontation. If he puts the mag back move it, until you sort of start talking about it. May bee he want to include porn in your sex life?

Answer 9

Maybe He Isnt Getting Enough Sex.But Only He Knows. I Would Say Something.

Answer 10

Hey

He may be embaressed about reading it with you around. If you really don't mind then talk to him and tell him, don't expect an open response from him we males when we get embaressed tend to act as if we're ignoring whats being said ( but we do listen) Just make sure your make it clear its only the porn thats acceptable!