I know I'm crazy, but I miss him.?

Question

Yes. I am a 14-year-old stalker of a 34-year-old man.
The school forbade me to talk to him, but I miss him so much.
Please no philosophy or lectures, I've really gotten enough of that these past few months.
What should I do?
I really don't want to go on to another man, I know we were destined for each other....

It's all good, Braceface.
You've been actually REALLY nice compared to everyone who I've talked to about it.

What I mean, Anette, is that I've gotten so many lectures in these past few months and I came here looking for some positive feedback.

So I'll just have to settle with just looking at him, I'm guessing? =/

Answer 1

Oh I really feel for you!!!Just try to stop thinking about him, I know its hard but its the only thing that will wake you up. Besides, your 20 years apart. Sorry to be soooo mean but you need to hear it from some body.

Answer 2

You say , you are crazy, loiok around you there are plenty of things to do, interesting things, for example I play tennis, a have a another hobby creating Bonsai, also I dance three days a week, interesting thing make your life interesting, your are to young to focus in that kind of relations, have fun at yuor age you do not want complicated things, enjoy life, sex is not everything. 14 years olb when you will be 20 he sill be forty, an olf msm. you are thinking right now but he likes the same things like I do, yes, I could like rock and roll just that he likes the Beatles and you like Britnet Speers or whatever modern rock band that is the difference, have fun, study hard and when you are in College, you will never remember this, and becareful he can go to jail if somebody pick him with you having sex, 30 years in jair, can you ever think why the law stablish no relations between a person over 30 with a minor>>>>>>if you can not manage this, ask help go to therapy is not normal

Answer 3

Ah! the angst of youth and yes it is painfull to have to deal with these feelings. Deal with them you must so you can grow and develop. We all have that first delirious rush of romance and it is from this we make our future judgements of whom we wish to date and eventually marry.
Given the age difference he must have had many qualities that you liked and it was those qualities you were attracted to. I know you can protest and give me a long list of what made him 'special'.
And at this point and time in your life why not keep a journal of what you are feeling, experiencing to help you grow and develop. At 14 you should not be thinking or concerning yourself about 'going on to another man'. You should just enjoy where you are in this space and this time as it will never come again.
I am sure you will find someone in the future who will have all the goodness and qualities you seek in a partner. Just don't try to grow up too quickly as it really is gone in a blink.
Good luck sweetie, I once felt like you do now a very long time ago and I am now the Mum of three grown up daughters and I had to help them nurse a 'broken' heart also. It does get better for you trust me. ",)

Answer 4

if you don't want lectures.. then why did you post a question here.. people will definity lecture you.. you're young. still have alot of things to learn divert your obssessions to something useful.. try joining a workshop..

Answer 5

that's disgusting. one word: THERAPY. only way disgusting freaks would allow you to continue with that or help you- sick!!!!!

Answer 6

wait take time and see.dont be aggressive

Answer 7

age is just a number anyways... follow ur heart n do wat u g0tta do =]