Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

I was browsing my boyfriends laptop yesterday when I saw his msn history report (a folder that keeps all records of his msn messages)

In it I found that he was still chatting to his ex whom he for me , he was asking her to come over to live him him from france, he still tells her he loves her and that he misses her and cant wait to see her again. AS U CAN IMAGINE IT WAS VERY HARD FOR me having to read all that, I mean I understand that he misses her mayb he wants to be with her afterall, I can only move on after that, But I dont even know how to tell him I know about it, I just find it do hard now to even kiss him or do anything with him cause I know what he has been up to, I asked him last night if he still talks to her he denied all this. what should I do (apart from leaving him of coz cause thats what ill be doing) but how do i let him know.

2007-01-07 22:38:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met my boyfriends mate, they play for the same rugby team and i go to watch my lad, but i think the other lad is good lookin too. i would never cheat or leave my lad. and he knows everything about what i think. but, his mate was speaking to me on msn last night and he started flirtin and i did back just a little. he has a girl and wouldn't leave her either so what should i do. put it down to a little bit of fun, or shall i stop talking to him all together in case it gets out of hand. he also admited to acctually fancying me.

2007-01-07 22:36:57 · 9 answers · asked by jenny w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in Grade 9 and I am very shy....I am left out in class...I do not have friends....haha....Well my good friends have gone to other classes...so i am in a new class and its difficult to interact with people..Well there are some girls in my class who dislike me..I dont know why..I have everything what they don't have..But some are good too..I am really very sad..Today, I was crying for 3 whole hours..Well, I am more better off than most of my classmates...I am good in my studies and everything..Why do I have to sit with geeks in class???How can i become popular??I am in a real soup now..If someone was in my shoes,I bet that person would have been sad too..Can someone please help me out???Tell me what am i supposed to do..Thanks a million..

2007-01-07 22:32:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have been with each other since 8 mouths ago. We had a break for almost 3 months after that we are in love, last night we had date after that she told me through a phone call that “she dos not care about anything and she wants to give second though to every thing.” She is 5 years older than me.
I fully surprised and terribly depressed.

2007-01-07 22:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by Ali T 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you like a hairy boy ( in his chest and all part of the body) ?

2007-01-07 22:31:49 · 20 answers · asked by jitoon f 1 in Singles & Dating

it was my very first time. he tried to put his *thing* in me but it was too tight and we stopped trying after about 3 tries. his *thing* barely even went in half way. i asked him several times if he *came* but he said no and that i have him blueb@lls. the next day my stomach didn't feel right and even now. is it possible im pregnant? or am i just really paranoid. by the way, we used a condom

2007-01-07 22:31:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Not obvious things like sayin it, or goin off with someone else!!!
the little things

2007-01-07 22:31:14 · 13 answers · asked by blondestring 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 22:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by faisal_16_cool 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married for 9 years. My husband has been good taking care of my needs all this while. Little did I expect he is having affair with a colleaque for 6 months. He lied that he needs to work but was with her on weekends. However, he will spend Sunday with me. He even spent his birthday with her in a hotel. They went for a holiday at a beach resort. I have evidence and after he came back, I exposed his affair and he was guilty for what he did. His can’t give reason for doing it, told me they are able to communicate and they just started (I have to admit that we have some communication issue). He promised he will end the relationship (which he did recently). He said this was his big mistake and promised never do it. He wanted to start afresh with me. He consoled me to make plan to move on and forget the past. He went to find out counseling services which he will attend with me to help me to get thru the trauma. I am in my 30s, quite attractive and have good career. No children.

2007-01-07 22:28:14 · 35 answers · asked by Let Go and Move On 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfreind of 2 months recently broke up with me. I still really like her and I realized that I did some stuff to like get her mad and like I pleaded with her I would change but she still said that she wants to be just friends. I miss her so much and cant get over her. i still hope she still has some feelings for me and that like in time she realizes how much I care about her. So i dont know how to approcach the situation. Should I stay away from her for awhile. Or should I still hang out with her. Please help me, Im goin crazy.

2007-01-07 22:24:52 · 3 answers · asked by Titans 1101 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 22:24:34 · 5 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 22:23:45 · 14 answers · asked by blondestring 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the difference between it and the ordinary kiss?and why it’s called French,not English,Dutch,or after any other country’s name?

(I am a virigin)...

2007-01-07 22:21:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i was 21 (i'm 25 now) i was alone with my girlfriend who was 14 (almost 15) at the time and she said no but i forced myself on her in the bedroom then made her take a shower with me and we did it again in there. i changed the sheets and left before her parents came home. she never told anyone and we've lost touch since. am i a sex offender?

2007-01-07 22:21:25 · 17 answers · asked by jonathoncharles19 1 in Singles & Dating

He won't live with me because he thinks i'm too difficult even though we have 2 young kids together (1 is only 7mo). He lives around the corner. I am looking after the children all the time while he works & studies & he still gets upset about having to give me money. I buy all food, clothing etc for kids & can only work 1 day/wk because of his commitments. We are still in a relationship & he spends all his free time with us. He helps out sometimes. Lately he is moody & upset because he doesn't think my daughter treats him with enough respect (she is not his child). I love him but am starting to feel like i am being taken for a bit of a ride. We have been together 8 years. Am i right to think that if i am good enough to be in a relationship with & good enough to parent our children, then surely there should be no reason why we can't live together as a family. What do you all think?

2007-01-07 22:20:24 · 3 answers · asked by Mishell 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 17 and i know my dad found a pair of mens underwear in the house! i cannt bare to thinkk they would breakk up!!!!

2007-01-07 22:19:00 · 12 answers · asked by 6 6 6 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it was my very first time. he tried to put his *thing* in me but it was too tight and we stopped trying after about 3 tries. his *thing* barely even went in half way. the next day my stomach didn't feel right and even now. is it possible im pregnant? or am i just really paranoid

2007-01-07 22:18:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It can be personality, looks, smile, etc.

2007-01-07 22:16:58 · 8 answers · asked by CharmedR 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello so this is whats going on for the past two years about ive liked a guy who doesnt like me. And by the end of this year he will be graduating and will probibly bee out of my life for good.
wee used to hang out but then i found it to akward to bee hanging out with him after telling him how i felt for him and having him tell me he didnt have feelings like that for me, wee still talk sometimes but not lately and we say hi sometimes. he hangs out in the same group of friends as mee and it gets very hard to forget or get over him when hes always around. i know this is not some kind of illustion i have of him that it must just bee "another crush" or just "somthing all get over" its become more then that
and seeing how truely diffrent he is from most guys and people makes mee like him more all the time. like how hes only kissed a very few amount of girls not because hes ugly or cant have them but because he is so selective about whos hes with and will not settle. i need advise pls !!!

2007-01-07 22:15:00 · 4 answers · asked by darkeyerings270 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 22:13:03 · 23 answers · asked by nader982 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I feel so bad, I dated my X for 2 and a half years.....he cheated on me all teh time the entire relationship he cheated used and lied to me from start to finish, but what kept me around was the fact that I liked and loved him sooo much. At the start of the relationship I was unfaithful to him as well but I quickly became faithful once I feel for him. In the mean time I was talking to this other guy and I had him thinking I like him and loved him to get gifts and money from him, I know it is bad and I have appologized to him millions of times since then. After getting what I want I up and left him cold :( MY main purpose was to keep up my X at any cost! Well the same thing happen to me, with my X he ended up doing the same thing to me and I now know that it does not feel good. But I guess my question is, will the guy he left me for use him the way he uesd and lied and cheated on me. Will he go through what me and the other guy I used went through? I feel like ****, I am hurting!

2007-01-07 22:12:43 · 3 answers · asked by louis_vuitton_don864 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 22:12:22 · 13 answers · asked by dinesh singh 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 22:12:21 · 6 answers · asked by gabrielkmn 1 in Singles & Dating

you are in a group or crowd with another really hot woman/girl who is more educated and worldly than you? If so, did it motivate you to up your game so that a guy like me would choose to long-stroke you rather than her.

2007-01-07 22:10:17 · 9 answers · asked by rex_razor69 2 in Singles & Dating

I got to know this scorpio guy who seemed to be really cool, deep thinker, intellegent and independant. I'm an Aquarius, really need your advice on how to work it out with him since I've heard that Scorpio/Aquarius match doesn't normally work quite well. Please give me some advice and show me some experience of how the relationship might go/

He was like inviting me to hang out with him and I said yes. Dunno what I should pay attention to on the first date. Thanks!

2007-01-07 22:08:23 · 8 answers · asked by Jamie J 2 in Singles & Dating

I know I should give everyone equal opportunity(They are all individuals)but it is easier said then done. (I'm 34 & he is 24. If this even matters.)We are very good friends. He's been there though a break-up I went through & I 've been there through a break-up he went through.

2007-01-07 22:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 22:07:07 · 5 answers · asked by yuygj2000 2 in Singles & Dating

We went out over the weekend with friends and he was rude and critical to me for basically the entire night. He'd say things which would embarrass me until i got pissed off and avoided him for the entire night. At the end of th night he comes to tell me bye, almost as if unaware of how much he hurt me, but I ignored him. he didn't call or anything for a day... i sent him a text calling him a jerk for the way he behaved and he responded saying 'ok that's fine i understand.' No apology. No let's talk. No anything.
I know in relationships we are supposed to resolve things but even though this has been the first time he's done anything remotely as awful as what he did, i really am not inclined to be the one to initiate a resolution. Am I wrong?
He wasn't drunk and I am not holding back any part of the story. From the time I showed up he was critical and made fun of everything I said and did.

2007-01-07 22:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 22:05:04 · 12 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

I’ve spent my entire life being the kind of person who was obsessed with whether or not others liked me. I never thought, "Wait a minute! Do I like YOU?!” I realized this flaw recently when after almost two years of giving of my love, time, patience, energy, money and assistance to my three live in step kids (ages 10, 12 and 14) I no longer care if they like/accept me. I'm child-free. I met the kids 7 yrs into our marriage b/c they were in another country and spoke no English. I helped them to come here at their mom (his 1st wife) and dad's (my husband) request. He is a workaholic and only home about 15 waking min per day. After spending HUNDREDS of hours doing activities with them, talking with them, spending my time, energy, patience, etc. I’ve decided they are lying, deceitful, judgmental, narrow-minded, American-hating, manipulative, sneaky, stealing little beasts. I avoid them to escape their ugly, disrespectful personalities. Do you think this means I must leave my home/marriage?

2007-01-07 22:03:49 · 9 answers · asked by Angel1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships