Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

I'm not quite sure. I always thought of myself as quite average, but of late I'm coming to the realization that perhaps I'm a horrible grotesque used to my own appearance.

That would explain why no one has ever loved me or befriended me.

Is there a solution? Because it seems that once people hate you "at first sight," they are unwilling to give you a chance, no matter how nice you are as a person: all your actions will be interpreted as negative.

If you're sweet, you'll be taken to be weak.
If you're assertive, you'll be taken to be cocky.
If you're careful, you'll be thought of as cowardly.
If you buy presents, you'll be assumed to want something else besides friendship.
If you invite, you'll be looked at with disgust.
If you're funny, you'll be taken for a jerk.
If you're romantic, you'll be called tacky.
If you're communicative, you'll be told you are annoying.
If you're shy, you'll be assumed to be antisocial.
If you're educated, you'll be called arrogant.

2007-01-07 22:03:44 · 15 answers · asked by tlakkamond 4 in Friends

no contact. Just this text "I think we shouldn't c each other till I'm better. Its just too hard".


What the hell does this mean? Is this full closure? Any thoughts?

2007-01-07 22:00:58 · 15 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for a year now. My husband had a 6 years long love affair before marriage. He still has a weakness for girls and is interested in flirting. Recently, he fondled my sister's breasts. He has also tried to fondle one of his colleagues, when she came home. He also uses bad language while talking to a friend on phone. He always says that he was never interested in marriage and married me under a compulsion. He doesn't do sexll with me and gives me no right as his wife. I always thought this was due to his broken relationship and he'll change with time. But he's getting worse. He comes from office, drinks, smokes he would lock the door and masturbate. I am fed up with all this. Last week, I went out of the house and took my mobile, thinking that he would search for me and call me. But he never called.

2007-01-07 21:59:25 · 20 answers · asked by rekha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The recent and tragic suicide of Bacharach`s daughter by Angie Dickinson has given rise to a re-hash of their marriage and the subsequent divorce.

In an account which I read in one of the London papers, Dickinson alleges that Bacharach was documented in the press as having been unfaithful during their marriage on several occasions.

I found this hard to believe, as when I interviewed him in the late sixties he was absolutely smitten to AD and could not stop raving about her.

That said, his folks were hard to take and as grandparents must have been awful. They were Waspy Jews with very Nazi prejudices. When I was a cub reporter I went on a press tour with them. When someone in Italy said that things were better off without the Jews, the Bacharachs and their friends agreed. I was shocked.

With grandparents like that.....

2007-01-07 21:58:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for attracting members of the female species.

2007-01-07 21:58:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you rather a man who has cheated on you or a man who beats you up?

Anyone can ansewr not only women,
Guys would you prefer your sisters boyfriend to have cheated on her or to beat her up when he gets angry?

2007-01-07 21:58:44 · 22 answers · asked by lezah7 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 21:57:18 · 21 answers · asked by Brie 2 in Singles & Dating

I really dont believe boys. In my opinion what ever they say they donot say it from heart. I have so many boys as my friends in my life as my friends but I cannot trust them Why so!

2007-01-07 21:53:25 · 40 answers · asked by pari 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 21:52:20 · 9 answers · asked by nikki a 1 in Weddings

do girls like it when guys have beards or not?im 20 and im considering it is this a bad idea or not

2007-01-07 21:51:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently my crush found out that I liked him & he's okay with it. He thinks I'm hot and everything because thats what he told my best friend. But anyways I don't know if he likes me or not. He's always nice to me and gives me compliments me, which makes me like him even more! But sometimes he's just really shy around me and he doesn't talk to me because I guess he's just waiting for me to say something first, but I'm shy too so sometimes we just don't talk. And when we pass eachother in the hall sometimes he says hey and other times he knows I'm coming his way so he automatically looks at the floor. I don't get it...he's not shy around other girls & he flirts and jokes around with them all the time. It seems like he only acts this way around me. I don't know if that means that he likes me or he just feels uncomfortable around me because he knows that I like him. What do you think?

2007-01-07 21:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Singles & Dating

She text me and from there we talked,,,on the 20th of Dec she went to Italy for the holiday with her Mum & Sis,,,we stayed in touch by email, text and phone,,,she came back on the 3rd of Jan we met this Sat for the first time since the 14 Dec,,,i picked her up at the tube station in my area where we argreed to meet,,,we drove around for awhile then went to a pub to break the ice some more from there we went to M&S for some food and to Block Buster for her favorite movie,,,from there we went to my house after some time of talking she rested her head in my my chest i caressed her it turned into a kiss then we had sex,,,,it just happened,,, she looked upset and told me that we both wanted it and she doesn't feel comfortable with me anymore and that she dosesn't want to see me at the moment so she can understand whats going on,,she likes me and said i was the only man she allowed to touch her in 2 years,,,i like her a lot and want to see her again,,what did i do wrong and what should i do?

2007-01-07 21:50:00 · 3 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Singles & Dating

Where I am from in the States it only proper to do this. I am 15 years older than she is. I wish him to see that I am honest and sincere about this lovely young lady. I only want his blessing, how can I make him realize I do love her and wish to spend my life with her. Any advice?

2007-01-07 21:48:01 · 10 answers · asked by ?Confused? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just a question, because obviously there are people out there that believe a male and female who are extremely close should take a risk in a relationship, because they cherish each other's qualities, and whilst those who believe that it would never work out, because their relationship strives off their friendship.

2007-01-07 21:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by phatrick34 2 in Singles & Dating

I really need advice about this..

Well i really like one of my guy friends and my friend told him that i liked him last night and he cares that i do like him and we are always flirting with him so.....

Where do i go from here..

2007-01-07 21:46:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

f a girl that you're having casual sex with on occasion, tells you that she really likes you...would it scare you off, would you see it as an opportunity to use her for more sex or would you just not care at all?

ok people misunderstood when i asked this a few mins ago....im the girl, and i know casual sex is bad-its only been goin on for a short while and i want to tell him i like him because i want more out of this relationship,but i dont want him to use my honesty as a way to get more sex..which is why i was asking the question, so pls answer again guys, thanks

2007-01-07 21:45:26 · 10 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-07 21:44:55 · 18 answers · asked by gaurav 1 in Singles & Dating

I was off in my own world half asleep on the way home and the lady beside me accidentally bumped my leg when she was moving. I woke up and looked over. She looked at me and smiled, more a wide closed mouth smile, but didn't apologise or anything.

You think that was anything? I probably should've said hello.

2007-01-07 21:44:51 · 1 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Singles & Dating

We went out over the weekend with friends and he was rude and critical to me for basically the entire night. He'd say things which would embarrass me until i got pissed off and avoided him for the entire night. At the end of th night he comes to tell me bye, almost as if unaware of how much he hurt me, but I ignored him. he didn't call or anything for a day... i sent him a text calling him a jerk for the way he behaved and he responded saying 'ok that's fine i understand.' No apology. No let's talk. No anything.
I know in relationships we are supposed to resolve things but even though this has been the first time he's done anything remotely as awful as what he did, i really am not inclined to be the one to initiate a resolution. Am I wrong?

P.S He wasn't drunk.

2007-01-07 21:41:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To cut a very long story short - we have been married for 7 months. Everything was perfect until after the honeymoon where my husband went cold towards me & lost all interest in me sexually. We didnt have sex for 7 weeks after honeymoon & have only slept together 7/8 times since. I have talked to him, cried to him, everything I can think of. I was extremely lonely & started to talk to people on Net - nothing funny - just purely friendship. However, I met a wonderful man who lives far away from me. We clicked immediately. We met over xmas. It was as if we had known eachother forever. He is single. We did not sleep together as I feel very loyal to my husband. He stayed near me for 2 weeks & we met everday. I believe this man is possibly my soulmate. Its so hard to explain. Now I am confused. I meant my vows when i said them but I didnt realise things would change like this. Please give me some help. By the way, please dont say my husband is cheating because he definately isnt & wouldnt.

2007-01-07 21:41:11 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she is a bit chubby but no problem i can tell her to lose weight later but how can i ask her out? i want to take her to my house later and get laid but i dont have experience so can you tell me how to put it in?

2007-01-07 21:39:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 21:39:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boy friend moved away a few weeks ago and now we don't speak as much as always. I've been getting very sick since he's gone and my one friend said its cause I miss my boy friend so much. Is that really possible?

2007-01-07 21:38:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Being an Indian it can only be an option unless my parents agree to marry me to a specific person. But is it good or bad in your opinion. People talk of the horrors of arranged marriage but is it always that way? Is there anybody out there who agrees with it? This is just one of those hypothetical, what-do-you-think questions. I was just wondering if there is anybody out there who likes it or hates it the way I do.

2007-01-07 21:37:24 · 19 answers · asked by anonydipity_09 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-07 21:36:16 · 2 answers · asked by mo_thug_85 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this guy i just met the other night out on the town with my girlfriends. he's a friend of a friend. he got my number from her. he's really nice and we had a friendly chat tonight, and kind of hinted at asking me out. i did not say yes. but he has no idea i'm even dating someone. how do i tell him?

2007-01-07 21:33:21 · 17 answers · asked by nanabe 4 in Singles & Dating

Without being a total slapper, what are some things a woman can do on a date to get you really turned on?

2007-01-07 21:33:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 21:32:59 · 10 answers · asked by mcr_547 2 in Friends

If Jim-Bob-Joe has a little sister, and Jim-Bob-Joe's girlfriend Mary-Anne has a little brother, would it be weird for the brother and sister to go out with each other even though their siblings are going out also?

2007-01-07 21:31:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

its a feeling that i want to try.- to have a relation on net.make a relation and see it develop. to share things and be there for each other. iam a male from india currently in dubai.pls send me ur feedback.-lets begin a beautiful journey!!!

2007-01-07 21:30:45 · 8 answers · asked by nm007_in 2 in Friends