What would you rather a man who has cheated on you or a man who beats you up?
Anyone can ansewr not only women,
Guys would you prefer your sisters boyfriend to have cheated on her or to beat her up when he gets angry?
2007-01-07 21:58:44 · 22 answers · asked by lezah7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know a lot of you think it is a rediculous question, i am single, but i have met some very serious women who prefer a man who beats them up to a man who cheat and prefers both to being alone, I just wanted to see if they were the only ones
2007-01-07 22:06:38 · update #1
I would rather be alone for the rest of my life than put up with either
My Dad beat up my mum she was so afraid of him that she stayed but after he put me in hospital she realised it was too dangerous so she left and she is much happier on her own
My sister unfortunately did the same and married a man who not only beat her he cheated, she stayed with him for years because she LOVED him but finally she left him and it took her a long time to realise but she is a much happier and secure person
2007-01-07 22:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither is good, but personally I would rather a man cheat, he has no right to lay a hand on a woman in the first place like that. Tho if a man ever hit or tried to hit me his life wouldnt be worth living after that.
How can a woman prefere a man to beat her? If he cheats he does not love you, if he beats you he does not love you either. How can a man who beats a woman be right in the head, he should be locked away and the key thrown away. Men who beat women are ******* and if they want a fight perhaps they should go down a pub start on the biggest bloke in there and see how he likes a good hiding.
Woman who prefer to be beaten need their heads checking too. I'm sorry but how can you possibly perefer to be beaten??? Your sick!!
2007-01-08 01:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by jd_moons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a tough question. If my sisters husband ever hit her, I'd leave him bloody and beaten in a mexican ditch somewhere. If he cheated on her, I'd probably just go there and help her throw all his stuff on the porch and make sure that the split went well. So I guess cheat because that would keep me from having to come up with an alibi.
2007-01-07 22:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by mjcalohan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 08:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In an ideal world, and to my acception levels, neither! However, out of the choice it would be a cheater. But if either of these situations arises, then they wouldnt deserve to be in a relationship. A cheater / beater has no respect for their partner and needs to accept their faults and get over them before they can have a loving and fulfilling relationship.
2007-01-07 22:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth it doesn't matter you could die from either one. I mean he could he could cheat until he caught a STD and that could be HIV and you die from that. Then again he could beat you and would be painful. But if he didn't know when to stop or his anger got the best of him. You could die. So i choose neither and if i had to choose I would choose being beat. For the simple fact when you catch HIV you die slowly and you suffer so much,rather than if you were being beaten. So my opinion to you is to get you or whoever out of that situation.
2007-01-07 22:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is deciding that there are no decent men out there. " your sister" should kick either out and decide that she deserves better.
But as a rethorical question and since no one has volunteered a choice: Having worked in the domestic violence field for a few years I would definitely say give me the cheater anytime.
2007-01-07 22:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by webby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather just be alone if those were the only options. I feel sorry for your friends, they obviously are suffering from low self esteem in either scenario. You should try and help them, or ultimately, you may lose them forever.
2007-01-07 22:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather a man cheat on a woman.
A man hitting a woman is not only morally and legally wrong- it is an act of supreme cowardice.
If a man hit my sis, I'd cut his arms off and sodomise him to death with them.
2007-01-07 22:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Ministry of Camp Revivalism 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather have neither...
With so many good men out there why have one that cheats or beats me up???
The cheating one I would just dump his ***...
And the violent one I would just kick his ***!!! Either way they loose!!!
2007-01-07 22:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋