f a girl that you're having casual sex with on occasion, tells you that she really likes you...would it scare you off, would you see it as an opportunity to use her for more sex or would you just not care at all?
ok people misunderstood when i asked this a few mins ago....im the girl, and i know casual sex is bad-its only been goin on for a short while and i want to tell him i like him because i want more out of this relationship,but i dont want him to use my honesty as a way to get more sex..which is why i was asking the question, so pls answer again guys, thanks
2007-01-07 21:45:26 · 10 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think casual sex is bad- it's not necessarily good, either. What you HAVE is casual sex, what you WANT is a relationship.
Preferably, an exclusive relationship.
You're going to have to tell him how you feel. You seem worried that he has a larger sexual appetite than you. How do you feel about more sex, if it means you're the only one has has sex with?
If you are going to conceal anything at this stage, hide the depth of your feelings. Wait to see his reaction first- don't hit him with everything in one go.
2007-01-07 21:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to a friend of mine, she told this dude she was banging that she wanted a relationship, at first he was scared off but i guess she kept trying and now theyre going out. some guys want that something extra, some guys try to stay away from it. personally if i were the guy i would have to like you as more than a friend, and not view you as just someone to call when i want to have sex.
trying to change this dude's attitude probably won't be easy.
A girl tried that on me once and I stopped answering her calls. Generally if you like someone you try to develop the emotional part of the relationship before you start having sex. If you want more out of the relationship you have to let him know. But you also have to ask yourself do you want a relationship and how hard are you willing to work for it?
2007-01-08 05:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sleepy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any future with this guy, its your body that's he wants and not YOU as a person. It sounds like your his sex toy and nothing else. If there was a relationship first and then sex , then this is not just sexual. I think you need to find someone who wants YOU for YOU.
2007-01-08 05:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys would use the opportunity for more sex. some guys would be happy that you are interested. casual sex sounds so, well..., casual. people get std's and babies sometimes from "casual" sex.
2007-01-08 05:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'd depend on what I feel for her. If I love her, I'd feel it's great. If I didn't but thought she was good in bed, I'd see it as an opprtunity to have even more fun. If I was already tired of her, I'd use it as an excuse to say good-bye, though.
2007-01-08 05:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by tlakkamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't tell him and make him want you more than you want him and then when he can't have enough of you then you tell him.
2007-01-08 05:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by salem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only for formality they tell thats it no nothing more than that?Dont beleive all girls
2007-01-08 05:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by virus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should sit down and discuss this with him
2007-01-08 05:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by kimchee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JERRY, JERRY, JERRY!!!
2007-01-08 05:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by rex_razor69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋