no contact. Just this text "I think we shouldn't c each other till I'm better. Its just too hard".
What the hell does this mean? Is this full closure? Any thoughts?
2007-01-07 22:00:58 · 15 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i like tiggy's answer. its what i would do. she's trying to get the last word in to punk you. honestly sounds like she's up to something or already has a guy. let her try to play you-and ignore her. she wants you do come crying for attention so she can laugh at you and tell her friends..oh see i got it like that..
oh i can hear you now..oh my girl wasn't like that..(i'm rolling my eye's at you.)
2007-01-07 22:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by LS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Closure is not easy as is sounds when it comes to a relationship its very difficult to just forget, we can pretend to forgive but is not always that easy either, as the saying goes time heals all wounds,
and that to shall pass, in no time at all that would be like blowing kisses in the wind, I think it really has a lot of people out there that is really heart less and we are always amazed that we were involved or had deep feeling for that kind, but we never forget who we are and the purpose of life and love, and to text you with a message like that, says she is a coward to face you and that is a girl that has plenty of growing up to do, so understand that she needs her space and hopefully she will have the explaination you deserve, and on her closing note ( Its just too hard)
I am sure she is talking about her new love interest, sounds that way to me, so always expect the unexpected, bad news always comes first, you will survive and get someone much better in your life and I am sure you know that, this is all a life learning experience for you and knowledge is power, the next time it happens you will know what is going on and how to deal with this situation, we all have been there done that.
2007-01-07 22:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at this stage, its all about goodbyes. Don't look her up, don't call her, don't do anything that would remind you of her if you want true closure. Don't think about the guys she would be going out with. The best thing you can do for yourself is to move on and put your love with someone else.
2007-01-07 22:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bomberman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 09:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she doesn't want to see you anymore. But I'd send her one back and just tell her OK, Give me a call when you're better and then wish her the best and a speedy recovery from her illness, and then you might want to throw in that you hope she doesn't infect anyone else. Good luck with it all.
2007-01-07 22:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes psycho hell yes thats closure
2007-01-07 22:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by hustler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is worth it, wait for her, thats my advice, and just tell her that you're there for her if she ever needs you, hopefully you'll stay together and she just needs time to deal with whatever might be affecting her. Hope this helps, :D
2007-01-07 22:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a bit of time on her own, don't contact her at all, she'll contact you when she's ready.
2007-01-07 22:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with her? Kick her to the curb
2007-01-07 22:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its her trying to have teh last word....
Text her back going " I think thats a good idea."
NOTHING MORE.and if she texts back again, ignore it.
2007-01-07 22:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋