He won't live with me because he thinks i'm too difficult even though we have 2 young kids together (1 is only 7mo). He lives around the corner. I am looking after the children all the time while he works & studies & he still gets upset about having to give me money. I buy all food, clothing etc for kids & can only work 1 day/wk because of his commitments. We are still in a relationship & he spends all his free time with us. He helps out sometimes. Lately he is moody & upset because he doesn't think my daughter treats him with enough respect (she is not his child). I love him but am starting to feel like i am being taken for a bit of a ride. We have been together 8 years. Am i right to think that if i am good enough to be in a relationship with & good enough to parent our children, then surely there should be no reason why we can't live together as a family. What do you all think?
2007-01-07 22:20:24 · 3 answers · asked by Mishell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should listen to his words and his actions.Why are you having babies with this man?you need to change your way of thinking and stop worrying over what he does and doesn't do so you can move on with your life.You are in a situation where you keep digging your self deeper because you want a fantasy and the reality is right in your face.Stop having babies right now and concentrate on you and the kids you have,leave that man alone until he matures and mean while you need to mature yourself.
2007-01-08 00:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is being selfish and if he can be in relationship with you and yall have all this going for yall why not live together. I mean he could be cheating and you never know this because yall arent in the same house raising your child. You can do bad by your dam* self so do what's best for you and your children. Don't let no man bring you down.
2007-01-08 06:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him honey you deserve much better after having children together he should be a lot more commited find someone that will treat you and your children right
2007-01-08 06:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by purpleliz15283 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋