I know I should give everyone equal opportunity(They are all individuals)but it is easier said then done. (I'm 34 & he is 24. If this even matters.)We are very good friends. He's been there though a break-up I went through & I 've been there through a break-up he went through.
2007-01-07 22:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember everyone is unique. Do not try to compere your new friend to your older friend. Hope he will be a different guy, test him, give him a chance, try him and then arraive at the judgement.
2007-01-07 22:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by dipaks262006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your 34. he's 24.
you can't possibly have anything in common other than you probably used to baby sit him.
oh i know..he's mature for his age.
looooool.
come on now. not saying you shouldn't give him a chance. but you should be thinking this through a bit more. i have a feeling this has nothing to do with past relations. i believe you see my point
the age.
but hey do what you want. its your life. can't really see what two people 10 years apart can have in common..but hey if you can-then please go make yourself happy. you deserve it.
2007-01-07 22:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by LS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter if he is mature for his age - take it real slow you both need to learn to trust again - but also be careful that this relationship is not forming just because you are both vulnerable - sometimes it is best to just remain friends and then maybe in the future it can become more
2007-01-07 22:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good God, the drama--you are wasting valuable time---go out there and have fun with this person--why are you wasting your brain on a question like that. Boo Hoo get over it.
2007-01-07 22:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen Cynthia......this is a new relationship.once you bring up the issue that you have been hurt before you are unconsciously telling him you think he is going to hurt you.everybody has been hurt.its time we ll stop hurting coz thats just what love is all about.love like you never been hurt....
2007-01-07 22:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by tot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting serious, tell him you want to take it slow and make sure the relationship is not a rebound romance.
2007-01-07 22:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a difficult one but tell u something
When u meet him again look in his eye and see if he was
telling u the truth. trust me....
2007-01-07 22:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There you go a perfect match!
Sweetie, trust your feelings and tell him to trust his.
2007-01-07 22:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by saynhope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it a try,,, enjoy the moment,,
2007-01-07 22:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by anna113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carefully
2007-01-07 22:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by ytrewq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋