I have a manager position in the service industry which means I spend most of my time @ work. Is it possible to have a meaningful relationship w/out having tons of time to invest? It is not like I want to spend time apart, but my schedule prevents me from being together alot. I have dated many ladies, and things always go well. However, I have never met anyone who could handle spending little time together. Is there a lady who can handle a long distance relationship while living in the same town? Am I delusional in thinking that the whole idea of finding love on limited time is even possible? Do I need to quit my job to find someone?
Your advice and/or insight on this matter is greatly appreciated.
2007-01-07 20:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by laughingnlovin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will get the type of love you want if you take some keen search. It is dishonest to believe that u will get such a lady easily. If u want something then you have to make some sacrifices. Working is no excuse to having a relationship. All depends on when and how you divide your time - professional, social and family. Give it a shot and get committed.
2007-01-07 20:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Counsellor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think alot of it depends on what you do in your available time. I have dated men in the services industry and I know how little time they have. If the time you spend together is used well its great. By that I mean you do real things together and the time spent is quality, not just out for a meal and then a shag and so long till next time. Make the time you have with her extra special to compensate for the lack of time you have. It is also her responsibility to do the same for you. I think it is entirely possible, as long as you have to informed, intelligent, aware adults involved who know what they will need to do to make it work and most importantly want to make it work.
2007-01-08 04:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by BluesPoint_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont leave your job the right lady your soal mate will understand the job you have the responsibility you have and the time you do spend with her wobnt make her want any more time from you thsat you cant give.she is going to be not to far away alot of women will appreciate not spending alot of time with you while having a relationship we like space the good women anyway
2007-01-08 04:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone mature and that is self confident. Don't quit your job try to cut back on hours if you can. But make sure the one you date is independent. You can find someone that will understand you have a time consuming job. It's part of life.You can find time to come on line you can spend that time conversing with a mate.
2007-01-08 04:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by queenie one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro you need to learn to MAKE time, cause if she's going to be committed and make time for you, then you have to learn to do the same. I know a manager who works full time too, 39 yrs old, divorced, and still hanging out at bars trying to find girls =\ I mean, she'll understand that you have other things going on, but weekends and such, you really need to invest in her. good luck..!
2007-01-08 04:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her you still care even when ure not there with her like smsing or calling her saying that you miss her or sent her small handmade gifts , senting her cards etc ? i donno abt other gals but that works well for me lol ...
2007-01-08 05:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋