Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

Drive me away with other realities...........

2007-01-07 17:33:36 · 6 answers · asked by Xplain1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everytime I have fallen in love the man has told me he doesn't want a committed relationship. I just basically got dumped because I told the guy (who I have been dating for seven months long distance, who told me he loves me, needs me, wants to see me, flies me out to see him). I am a nice girl, I am not weird, I am pretty, I am all the things guys supposedly want from a girl...so I am confused.

Now my self-esteem is shot because all three "relationships" I have had, the guy ends up telling me he doesn't want a relationship. At first they act like they want me so much and then this. Has anyone else been through this? What can I do to feel better? I feel like a complete loser although I know that they are the ones really losing out on a great girl...but still...

2007-01-07 17:33:23 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 17:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by santa 2 in Weddings

He makes more than I do. I told him that he still is obligated to do 50% of the housework and cooking because I work 40 hours just like he does. He thinks he should get something out of the "deal" or keep his extra money... but I told him whoever makes more pays more as we're both working 40 hours per week. I'm NOT a maid. Any comments?

2007-01-07 17:33:20 · 10 answers · asked by Betsy1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i hate this im drunk as heII and i love this girl that i dated for 3 years. we broke up 3 months ago i messed up in the relationship but i still love her i been ignoring her to get over her but she has asked me to go to her JOB party that is at a fancy restraunt and that she needs a date and she wants me to go i want go "for sure" cause i wnat her back what would you do is this my chance to get her back

2007-01-07 17:32:54 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

What Skills should every man have?? What makes a "Good Man?"

Please don't tell me the bull about being nice and kind and fun and funny I'm talking about skills here (ie cooking, Home repair....)

2007-01-07 17:32:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents can't accept the fact that I hate my brother and brother-in-law vice versa and that I'm being open about my hatred towards them. They have done so many wicked things to me in the past, that I'll never be able to forgive them nor forget, Honestly, I wish they would kick the bucket and fly a kite this very instant. I'll be happy to attend the funeral but I'm going to throw lumps of dung into their graves and tell the wicked things they've done to me in my eulogy. Wicked family member deserved to die and I don't know why it's wrong for me to say so in front of them and my parents. My parents have never ever given me the courtesy of listening to anything I've tried to tell them in the past, they prefer to lead a pretentious life as if everything's fine. I'm not cursing the brother and brother-in-law, but it would do everyone good if they either moved far away or died ASAP. I have my limitations and it's not wrong for me to wish they were dead. Anyone feels the same about others?

2007-01-07 17:32:03 · 7 answers · asked by xander 5 in Family

i was just wondering cause all the guys ive had sex with (except for only a few) prefer it rough. i mean i dont mind i like it too but i was wondering if most guys are like this or if it was just a weird coincidence?

2007-01-07 17:31:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is cute funny i hav a huge crush

2007-01-07 17:30:51 · 4 answers · asked by casstagia b 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a sophomore, and me and my boyfriend started dating three weeks ago. He works at steak-n-shake. So we get out of school at 3, and he usually goes into work at like 5:30 or 6:00. And he doesn't get off til 9:30 or 10:00. And that's everyday, except for the ONE day a week that he has off. Like I said, we've been dating for three weeks and we have yet to go on a date and we've only hung out once (with his youth group on new year's eve). He calls me usually every day, but that's really not enough. He appologizes for how much he works, and he realizes that he works too much, but he never does anything about it. I really like him, but I need a guy that's around more than that. What should I do?

2007-01-07 17:30:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Be Honest.

2007-01-07 17:29:43 · 12 answers · asked by No.34 1 in Friends

I have been seperated from my ex for about 2 years now. I've had a few relationships with other guys. Yes Sexual relationships. But nothing seems to compare with the Sex that My ex and I had.

My ex and I still have sex...neither of us are dating other people...is it fare to compare others to him?

2007-01-07 17:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by harmycj 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 17:26:49 · 13 answers · asked by babycakez 3 in Weddings

I am a HUGE fan of kissing, and feel that it can seriously make or break a situation. I value the unique and sensual qualities in a good kiss. I will loose interest quickly in a bad kisser. So out of curiousity, how would you handle a bad kisser?

2007-01-07 17:26:00 · 3 answers · asked by Lemme tell ya... 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been with the same guy for 3 years. Im pretty sure that I have social anxiety so its hard for me to talk to people and make firneds. I cant get close to anyone. We are very close and he is loving. We are pretty dependent on each other. We both dont have any friends that we hang out with. We talk to peolple at work but thats about it. I have one friend who I am close with, but hse now lives 3 hours away. We basically just stay home together. The thing is I dont think I want to marry him. I am 24. But I dont know what I would do if we broke up. We live together, and I wont be able to support myself if I moved out, plus I would have no friends tp hang ou taround here. Except my mom! I feel like I wouldnt be able to find anyone else. I am not close with anyone. Should I just stay with him even though I dont feel that I would be happy forver? Anyone have any kind of advice. Please help.

2007-01-07 17:24:58 · 4 answers · asked by Huh? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy was talking to me for 45 minutes at a party - his friends tried to get him to go away with them twice, he said no both times. He left once briefly and said "you're staying here right" - and i was like - sure...and then he insisted on getting my number. He gave me his cell & card w/o me asking. 2 weeks later, no call... after that whole presentation? what was that for? we had a teeny tiny kiss goodnight.

the only other thing is that after we said "good night" - i ended up seeing him at this other party... but i was with all of my friends so i dont think i looked stalker-ish... i just know the same ppl sorta. i left that place very quickly anyway. I know 1/2 the replies will just be "get over it" - and i am over it (he wasnt that special) - but it's the curiosity that plagues me. why act 150% into me and then vanish?

1. He was not drunk whatsoever. (would've been my first thought)
2. He wasn't trying to get laid - his friends were all in town & he had to be w/ them.

2007-01-07 17:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy asked me out a like three months ago. or two months ago or something. I really liked him at the time. I said yes. We havnt gone on a date yet still. We are trying, but I never talk to him and he never talks to me. I almost feel like I don't like him, but I do. I really do. I don't know how this happened. I feel like if my relationship is ever going to happen with him....I need to get to know him. It's like I barely know him. I want to do things with him. Experience things with him. Have the time of my life with him and I want to be his one and only. Help please. Does anybody know what's goin on here. And he was worried I didnt like him at one point and I said I did. But his friend acame and told me tht. Not him...no....just his friends...any help is appreciated. and I KNOW HE IS NOT CHEATING. trust me...stuff goes around cuz i live on a small island.

2007-01-07 17:24:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked a girl out and she said yes now we havent actually gone out yet and i realized that i only asked her becouse i knew she would say yes how can i stop the relationship before it realy starts? (no jokes about how thats the shortest relationship in the world)

2007-01-07 17:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and can we control them?

2007-01-07 17:22:54 · 11 answers · asked by Tahir Rameez 1 in Singles & Dating

seriously. whatever happens, happens. Why is love such a big deal? There's no rush and every one needs to just relax. I'm not trying to sound mean or anything but it's the truth, everyone just needs to take a chill pill.

2007-01-07 17:22:48 · 15 answers · asked by Crystal R 3 in Singles & Dating

She always hangs around my locker at school, runs up my phone bill telling me how much she likes this guy, is a complete drama-queen, etc. I don't want to be rude because she tells everyone that I am her BFF (nobody else will put up with her). HELP!

2007-01-07 17:22:46 · 6 answers · asked by Meme 2 in Friends

i am 22 i have no children. my fiancee is 36 and has 2 children. we have been dating for 3 1/2years... and i was wondering if anyone thinks that me marying someone that much older will cause issues between us later. he acts and looks much younger for his age and we get along well, but given the divorce rate now adays ......will this only add to a potential problem with our relationship.?

2007-01-07 17:22:39 · 13 answers · asked by mrs. sanchez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My last question people referred to me as old, I don't think I am , christ I still get id'd at the bar.

2007-01-07 17:22:06 · 22 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

Does it cost money to see if a ring in real or not?

2007-01-07 17:21:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What Skills should every man have?? What makes a "Good Man?"

Please don't tell me the bull about being nice and kind and fun and funny I'm talking about skills here.

2007-01-07 17:20:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 17:20:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a working women and my husband is also working and he don't have time for any house work. All I only has to do. I am having a 3 yrs doughter and no body is there to look after. I send her to daycare also they won't seen her properly. So i left her from there. And i am working is a private company here also so many competition is there. I am a person who tell everything straingt forward. Some times i feel, it will harm my office relationship. And my boss also acting special with me. I am very irritated with him. But no body knows that. And i don;t care that also. I just ignoring it. So i don;t know how to manage, office work and homework. I always used to think about my child in the office and office in my house. And moreover i don;t to ride a vehicle also. I am in a imbalance situation.

2007-01-07 17:20:05 · 3 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a crush on this girl and after we got older at 18 i asked her out, so we were partners for about 2 years until she left the country for studying abroad. i waited another year then i went after her, i knew she was kind of cheating on me, after 1 month we broke up and i didn't hear from her until a few days ago that she called me and was nice too me, i was shocked so i couldn't control myself and she probably realized how excited i was on the phone, but after a couple of days and a few phone calls from her she stoped calling me and i think she still does'nt want me in her life and she maybe just called to see how i was doing.
but I am feeling like I don't want to live anymore.
it was so hard to get over her love and i was trying to get back to life for the past 3 years that we had broken up.
But now the only thing I think about is her and I want to get her back if there is a way...

2007-01-07 17:19:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A good friend and I have been talking about whether we are friends or more. She knows I like her, but she never told me how she feels. I told her I had reservations about being with her at this point in my life. Tonight, she asked me if I wanted to start mutually sharing our deepest secrets. Why does she want to know my deepest secrets suddenly? She wants to tell me hers too. Then she said we can "be an encouragement to each other". Why does she want to do this?

2007-01-07 17:19:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

something tells me inside its high time i get 2 know d difference.....well tell me plz..

2007-01-07 17:19:32 · 19 answers · asked by choco_sporty 1 in Singles & Dating