I have been seperated from my ex for about 2 years now. I've had a few relationships with other guys. Yes Sexual relationships. But nothing seems to compare with the Sex that My ex and I had.
My ex and I still have sex...neither of us are dating other people...is it fare to compare others to him?
2007-01-07 17:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by harmycj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Natural.
It's because you had a deeper connection with your ex and you are still trying to find a guy to campare to him.
Unfortunately, you won't find you ex, cuz he's your ex. No one will be like him. You need to accept other people for who they are and enjoy their strengths and accept their faults, just like how you first did with your ex.
Now, do go telling me that there's nothing bad with your ex, because if there wasn't you'd still be with him.
Let your ex go and move on for reals.
2007-01-07 17:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still having sex with him ? You have been separated for 2 years..If you and him have no relationship all you have is sex.......That's why you are confused...sex and love are often confused .and it seems that's all you have..........
You can always teach your partner about your sexual needs.....and if you aren't doing that you can't blame the other guys..........What i am hearing is that you want a relationship and good sex with a partner.....Your first boyfriend apparently doesn't want the relationship ......
Why not back off the sex for awhile and think about what you really need out of any relationship.......You can't get your head together if you are wasting yourself trying to find the perfect sex partner.......
Please remember, sex isn't the only thing that drives a relationship, if it was you'd still be with the first guy......You need to check yourself before you wreck yourself.........
2007-01-08 01:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compare is not a good word to use. Everyone has a different ship to sail if you know what I mean! If the sex you are having with ex bf is great then keep doin' it. However who else is he having sex with? STD
2007-01-08 01:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't fair, you need to like a guy for whats on the inside, not the sex. Use toys if you need to, if he respects you he'll use the toys on you.
2007-01-08 01:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by Josh D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are different. Maybe its not the sex thats different. Maybe its the person. You just don't realize it.
2007-01-08 01:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because evertone has thier own style you need to be more open to what others have to offer.
2007-01-08 01:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by night_lilly66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋