Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

I have lots of friends,63% of the people i meet like me, and I"m kind to all furry little animals. It seems to me however that people I try to talk to just don't like me.Is it that I may have an alter ego that I just not likeable? Thanks for your insight.

2007-01-07 17:48:42 · 9 answers · asked by timgisme 1 in Friends

2007-01-07 17:47:31 · 22 answers · asked by mabel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i keep getting my heart broken by these guys that just want *** why dont they care about other peoples feelings?

2007-01-07 17:47:15 · 22 answers · asked by So*CaL BAbE 1 in Singles & Dating

I just been to africa on a trip..I have to say Ludacris was right the best women are in africa...Oh my God black girls are so hot.Just nigeria alone heaps of hot hot hot flaming girls so am going back soon jus for the girls .and when i arrived in southern africa damn hot girls everywere i have to say zimbabwe is cool when it comes to ladies ..

2007-01-07 17:46:58 · 11 answers · asked by spartan 3 in Singles & Dating

Its hard to deal with the fact that he was going to marry me. He told me he was on the verge of doing so and then we starting fighting because I was supposively "immature" and he just got sick of it. So now I think now that the relationship is over how unhappy I am and how I lost the chance to be married to the guy I love. And Im in so much pain

2007-01-07 17:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For 5 years and I love her. Is it time to pop the Question? I'm just not sure with living a Military life if it's a good Idea now. She has been pushing for it hard. The big thing is I've been to Iraq twice and it's possible in the next few months I'll go back. I want to make sure that if something happens they will be taken care of.

2007-01-07 17:46:32 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont wanna be rude but she is to attached and i cant break up with her cause i really like her family and her older brother would kill me

2007-01-07 17:44:29 · 13 answers · asked by chris 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend of 6 years all of a sudden trying to dictate my love life. Example, for some of last year, I really liked this guy who I was friends with, & she didnt want me to be w/ him [shes never even met him, she only knows him by walking by him a few times in school] She told me, if things ever got romatic w/ this guy, she would stop talking to me. Now there this new guy I like, & our scheduals have been conflicting w/ trying to hang out. She told me I should be "just friends" w/ this new guy, because, "I dont have enough guy friends." And she also said she wanted proof of it happening, in IM conversation, telling him I just want to be friends.

Is it me, or does my friend have NO RIGHT doing this?! Shes a lesbian, & I could care less about happenings in her love life! She dosent even like me talking about guys I like, but she still does this! I'll be damned if Im gonna have some tell me who I can & cant be with. How do I tell her this w/o it effecting are friendship?!

2007-01-07 17:44:04 · 8 answers · asked by woah 2 in Friends

2007-01-07 17:43:47 · 11 answers · asked by auzzie_bloke21 2 in Weddings

if your to best friends are in a HUGH fight and they both want you to be on their side, but you dont want to take sides???????

2007-01-07 17:41:33 · 8 answers · asked by Caroline Z 1 in Friends

I'm dating this guy for 1 year and a half, and he is sometimes not happy much with what I react with his friends ( his friend being rude to me), and we often argue a lot.
I just find out that he keeps pictures of a group of his friend in which his ex in there, also there is a website he made before he met me, post all the happy pics of him and his ex. I told him that I am uncomfortable with this and ask him to put away the pictures of his ex, and he told me that it is the last thing he will do because first he is busy, then it was his past and it happened before I come, and he said I violate his privacy. But I am up set because we did not have any pic together, and he never show our pic to any body or put our pics in his office or in his room, I feel like he did not love me, and he still hang on to his last relationship. Should I just dump him or try to convince him to put away the pictures?

2007-01-07 17:41:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone always asks why girls don't want the nice guys, but why is it that GUYS never want the nice girls. I am a nice girl, and I always get screwed over. Explain this to me.

2007-01-07 17:40:23 · 25 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl was going out with someone....and well i had liked her since before she got with her boyfriend.....then it came to a point where i kissed her and she began to cheat on him...and i loved this girl and i still do and she loved me..then it got to the point where jealousy started to take over sometimes...and it came to a point where my friend called her a hoe and she later told me she had lost so much love for me because of that so then i ended it and i thought and felt like i was over her because before then i had no interest in any other girls......until i eneded it
then she had gotten in to trouble because she had gotten a hickey from him.....and at that point i felt so almost over her i began to be friends with her b/f and he told me that he gave her a hickey and i felt this tremendous amount of jealousy..and i didnt know why..
and i still dont...i love her.......i just dont know what to do i cant get over her...what should i do...and why did i feel so jealous

2007-01-07 17:40:13 · 3 answers · asked by pixie7 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 17:39:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please don't say school, or online.

2007-01-07 17:39:31 · 5 answers · asked by hotgirl 2 in Friends

no details

2007-01-07 17:39:29 · 11 answers · asked by mrankin1960 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been friends for years and good friends for a few months. I also showed her ways in which I thought she was flirting with me. She said I misinterpreted her actions and that she wants to explain them. We were talking tonight on AIM, and she said she thought it would be a good idea if we "shared more of what we thought so we could encourage one another". She also wants to know my inner thoughts. What does she want?

2007-01-07 17:38:53 · 9 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

When you want to get a man's attention, do you have any little strategems, whether it's flipping your hair, crossing your legs, or something else?

2007-01-07 17:38:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known him for about 7 years, and up until recently i've only thought of him as just a friend.... now i don't know what to do. He tells me that he loves hanging out with me because we can talk about anything.... and because there's nothing to hide from eachother, because we know everything about eachother.
Please help me.

2007-01-07 17:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by pinkyfritz20 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been engaged for 7 months. This is the 2nd marriage for both of us. He has 2 kids, a 14 yr old boy and a 12 yr old girl. We've decided in lieu of a traditional or ceremonial wedding, we'd like to just take off on a Friday with the kids, go to a spot we all decide and agree upon, get married while we're there, and have a fun honeymoon as a family. I know we'll have to plan ahead for a justice of the peace, but I'm wondering if someone out there may have done something similar and can provide me with some more insight. Can you help?

2007-01-07 17:38:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It's been 7 months now since i was dumped and I just don't think I will ever move on from this. I just have such a hard time meeting men and then I feel that they wouldn't ultimately want me anyway. Even though my EX was a complete monster at the end, I don't know why I still feel hurt that he's not even wanting my friendship (even though I would ignore him if he tried). I just feel so lost... advice? :-(

2007-01-07 17:38:15 · 3 answers · asked by lola 1 in Singles & Dating

to be getting a violation on a love question is pethetic.

2007-01-07 17:36:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you find thin women attractive? Women like Nicole Richie-thin. You know, physically?

2007-01-07 17:35:46 · 13 answers · asked by ♪Miss_Soprano♫ 2 in Singles & Dating

Tuesday marks one year that my boyfriend and I have been together. He and I met online, when I was 4 months pregnant by someone else (the father and I had split when I was 6 weeks pregnant, and he still has not met his son, who is almost 8 months). My boyfriend stepped in and became dad, and has brought so much love and happiness to our lives. He has been wonderful, and thoughtful, and has done everything in his power to make sure that my son and I have a good life with him. We've been living together for a little over 5 months now, and my question is this. I want to do something really nice for him, to show him how much I appreciate and love him... but I don't have much money. My sons Godmother is going to babysit so we can go to dinner and the movies, but I would like to do something for him... give him a gift, or write him a letter or poem... I'm not sure what is considered sweet and what is corny. Please help me! He is 25, and I am 24. Thanks for any input!

2007-01-07 17:35:28 · 3 answers · asked by Franky 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Thanx so much!

2007-01-07 17:35:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend who is causing a lot of stress in my life. He has anger issues, he yells and screams at a drop of a hat. Now he also has poor credit and he wants me to sub-lease an apartment for him. When he sees my reluctance he gets mad. I see that he really has noone else to ask (naturally he doesn't have that many friends), that's why he's so upset. But this is really too much for me to takem and why should I be responsible for his financial mistakes of the past I just don't see. It really goes on and on. Why is it so hard to leave someone like this behind? I really can't take this anymore. I mean, he's a good person to hang out with, but when he needs something and doesn't get his way he's just impossible. Tell me something. tell me that I'm an idiot, it might do me some good. I'm sick of it all, but he just wouldn't go away.

2007-01-07 17:34:43 · 13 answers · asked by Everybody's Favorite 5 in Friends

a month ago I was asked do you have a girlfriend. I said I did although I never really did have one,but to me it seemed that I did and she was a female cat that I had a long long time ago when I was only 5 years old. It was such beautiful cat and I love her and she loved me too,but my heart was broken when I was 6 years old that I had to leave the cat in my country because it was forbidden to transport a pet. I came to USA disappointed that I didn't have a cat with me, but with time I got over it. Only last week I meet a woman in a kind of a strange way. I pictured the woman as the cat I had when I was 5 and unconsciously said "meow" she thought I said somthing and said "what". I told her "you are a very beautiful", she smiled , said "thank you" and I was in a good mood and she was in a good mood I kept talking to her as if I new this person for a long time then she gave me a kiss and her phone number told be to call her. I am happy man once again.

2007-01-07 17:34:30 · 7 answers · asked by ladiesanddrugaddicts 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 17:34:20 · 2 answers · asked by candywhurl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

says things about getting married and blah blah blah, but never refers to me. I mean we are still young and I don't want to get married for another 4 years. Still, whenever he talks about having his own place (he still "lives with his parents", but basically lives in my apartment! He is here 5 days out of the week) or getting married he refers to "I" instead of "we" and that hurts me. Is there a reason why he says it that way? Am i overreacting? Should I be worried? Does he not see himself with me for the rest of his life, like I see myself with him? I really don't want to bring it up with him, or else he'll think that I am trying to get married right now and that's not the case at all. Please if you have had or have a related experience fill me in on this situation, because is making me panic!

Thanks!!!

2007-01-07 17:34:07 · 5 answers · asked by Kiki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering, some of my gay guy friends do this ....

2007-01-07 17:33:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating