Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

The only time i ever said no was last night when a guy tried to kiss me and i moved away, other than that I cant say no, even if i dont want to do something (sexually)..I just recently lost my virginity becuase i didnt want to stop the guy, because he was enjoying himself. Even though i didnt really want to do it. Is anyone else like this?

2007-01-07 17:19:29 · 8 answers · asked by Allie J 1 in Singles & Dating

Clay Aikens jaw is shaped that way because of his lifestyle?

2007-01-07 17:19:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Below are two hypothetical situations however if you just wish to answer one of them then please answer Situation 2. If you need further information then please go to O.A.S.I.S at http://www.udel.edu/bkirby/asperger/ . Please answer truthfully and honestly. I thank you in advance.


Situation 1:
A male workmate, slightly closer than aquantence or other that you know DOES NOT have Asperger's Syndrome aproaches you to go out for 'Coffee' or some other form of drinks (a date). He use an uninterested, blank or inappropriate for the situation tone of voice and/or facial expresion.


Situation 2:
A male workmate, slightly closer than aquantence or other that you know DOES have Asperger's Syndrome aproaches you to go out for 'Coffee' or some other form of drinks (a date). He use an uninterested, blank or inappropriate for the situation tone of voice and/or facial expresion.


Question:
What would be your response, please include facial expresions and what you would say?

2007-01-07 17:18:42 · 4 answers · asked by Arthur N 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 17:18:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl was going out with someone....and well i had liked her since before she got with her boyfriend.....then it came to a point where i kissed her and she began to cheat on him...and i loved this girl and i still do and she loved me..then it got to the point where jealousy started to take over sometimes...and it came to a point where my friend called her a hoe and she later told me she had lost so much love for me because of that so then i ended it and i thought and felt like i was over her because before then i had no interest in any other girls......until i eneded it
then she had gotten in to trouble because she had gotten a hickey from him.....and at that point i felt so almost over her i began to be friends with her b/f and he told me that he gave her a hickey and i felt this tremendous amount of jealousy..and i didnt know why..
and i still dont...i love her.......i just dont know what to do i cant get over her...what should i do...and why did i feel so jealous

2007-01-07 17:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by pixie7 3 in Singles & Dating

keep my mouth shut and deal with it. This weekend my bf and I went clubbing and once again he "accidently" rubbs up against other women. Ok, I know some of you are going to say "so what blah blah, its a club everyone does it", but really now, every time we go out he either "accidently" grabs the womans *** behind him or rubbs up against some woman. This time the bouncer was right there and got really angry and grabbed him away from her. So I know its not my imagination or just being jealous, because the woman was really mad!!! I know saying something to him will only cause a fight because he will just deny it and say I'm jealous. Really, at this point I almost laughed because I thought he was going to get thrown out of the club. I'm just so frustrated because we cant have any fun because he does this crap all the time. would you ladies confront him or just keep your mouth shut?

2007-01-07 17:17:08 · 7 answers · asked by meeahcat 1 in Singles & Dating

just in time for Valentines Day. I want to do something romantic for him, but not sure what to do. Any ideas? Please don't say sex cause we are waiting until we are married for that. Thanks!

2007-01-07 17:16:25 · 3 answers · asked by Micijah S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I m 16,I like a guy,he's 8 yrs elder 2 me n we have know each other wen i was just 8...v hv met after a long time n v talk a lottt..v hav a good understanding n he treats me very well...shares everything...i have many friends in my life but nobodyz like him..i want him 2 b my best friend 4ever..wot shud i do?? is this rite?? plss..help me out..i dont wanna loose such a gr8 human being....but i guess he also terms me as a very good friend of his....helppp

2007-01-07 17:13:35 · 10 answers · asked by Coolgal 1 in Friends

Can someone please explain what "Partial Custody" of a child means. Please with as much detail as possible.

2007-01-07 17:13:28 · 6 answers · asked by PLEASE HELP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was talking to eveyone at chruch and shake hands. then 2 girls came out of the blues the girl behind wisper something to the girl and the girl look at me and then look at the ground for 4 secs look at me and then look at the ground for 4 secs. then after her and her firend sntad up and looking at me but i did not look at the girl why did she did this for?

2007-01-07 17:13:14 · 8 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm about too meet a girl through a friend and from what i'm told about her she really cool has a young child which i'm cool with. is it ok to have sex on a first date?

2007-01-07 17:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by delopoppa_2000 1 in Singles & Dating

well 10 years ago today my dad died and its always a really hard day for me and i told my boyfriend this over and over again i even told him 3 days ago and he forgot! he didnt even call! i had to call him and he was going to come see me but then had a hockey game but that doesnt mean he could see me earlier in the day im just a bit irritated is this ok?

2007-01-07 17:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by browneyedchick679 3 in Singles & Dating

how many sugar daddy want companionship and how many want sex? how many sugar babys gave companionship and got their money?

2007-01-07 17:11:55 · 2 answers · asked by soccerjock 2 in Singles & Dating

I was working a graveyard shift the other night and my girlfriend brought her ex to pass-out in our spare bedroom so he didn't drive home drunk. This is the second time it's happened. The first time she phoned to get my permission, I obliged the 1st time. But I told her that I didn't want it to happen again and that her ex-bf should make arrangements that don't include drunk driving or crashing at our place when he comes into the city to party.

My girlfriend claims that the most recent incident was necessary as he would have had to sleep on the floor of someone elses place (aq stranger to him), so our spare bedroom made the most sense, and she assures me she has no desire for him in anyway (which I actually believe) but it still pisses me off.

Do I have a right to be angry?
Am I just being jealous?
How should I express my anger?
Am I being naive for not worrying about a sexual context?

2007-01-07 17:11:32 · 20 answers · asked by RB 2 in Singles & Dating

What is it then?? I offer mine stability, dependability, loyalty 100% love and affection and a good life and she never bloody smiles. She's not having an affair I know that much but what the hell can the problem be?

2007-01-07 17:10:42 · 39 answers · asked by thetruthman 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy whom Im really interested in. He recently became an attorney. He is good looking and goes clubbing. Ive been told I am tall and pretty but of course thats not the only thing a man wants. I dont know how to cook, and I only make 36k a year. I am only an Assistant.. He is very proud of his success and is very confident. I am not. Im supposed to go out with him on a first date this weekend and I am very intimidated. Im thinking about calling the whole thing off and find someone who isnt as intimidating as him. What should I do?

2007-01-07 17:10:03 · 3 answers · asked by missyie 1 in Singles & Dating

shes single and pretty hot. She always flirts with me 2

2007-01-07 17:09:52 · 8 answers · asked by Marko 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a month. We haven't seen each other for a few weeks. In the past week I went on a "date" of sorts with a guy who I know likes me and we sort of hit it off. I'm not very interested in this guy, but I definitely like the attention. I haven't told this guy about having a boyfriend. He wants to hang out this week and I want to, as well, but I'm not sure if it would qualify as cheating if I know I don't want to get romantically involved with this guy.

2007-01-07 17:07:30 · 28 answers · asked by Tangent Lines 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating someone long distance since June. He disappeared for a month and popped up again. I confronted the issue and asked if there was another girl. He said we are both free. I just told him that I want a relationship with one person and he said that we live far apart and I am strange. He always calls and is excited to hear from me and has talked about a future with me. Am I strange for wanting to be with one person even if we live far apart? I got upset because he told me he loved me and I have said the same to him. He said there are a lot of things he doesn't like about the way I am and "maybe we will talk in about a year". I am really hurting right now. I feel like my heart has been torn apart from someone who has always act like he was so in love with me. I just need words of encouragement because I none of my friends are awake and I'm feeling really sad....

2007-01-07 17:07:17 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 17:06:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just an observation I have made over the years and not saying that it's like this for everyone but it happens a lot.

2007-01-07 17:06:50 · 6 answers · asked by Rob 2 in Singles & Dating

Met this girl dat has being raped and i really ilke her she just a wonderful person , but i can see she has been hurt by how she talks. How can i make her see dat all men at not as bad as they seem?

2007-01-07 17:06:38 · 4 answers · asked by shiva 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I just started having sex... I must admit at first I was bit worried because he is sort of big (about 8,5 inches) and I am a pretty small person (I am only 5 feet tall). My question is: is it possible he can come all the way in? or since Im too small he wont be able to get it all in ever?

2007-01-07 17:06:35 · 7 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Singles & Dating

I had planned on leaving him well before this happened. We never see eye-to-eye on things. He has a hair trigger temper. He's always in his own world. He is so negative. The world is out to get him. Now with the Aspie diagnosis, so much of this is explained. And at first I was relieved. But now, I realize that it's still alot to deal with whether it's his fault or not. I want to go ahead with my plans to leave.
We have 2 kids, our son is also on the spectrum. I live in constant fear that my husband will lose his temper in front of the kids. The kids absolutely adore their dad, but they're very young still. The older they get, the less I will be able to shield them from his outbursts.
I live in complete misery whenever he's home. I've started taking naps when he's home just to avoid him. He seems to do much better when I'm not around either. He says he's so in love with me, but I can't reciprocate. Not only do I not love him, I think I hate him. Sometimes I daydream about him dying.

2007-01-07 17:06:22 · 6 answers · asked by Fluffster1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a girl i've been talking to tells me she never wants to have kids because she thinks she doesn't need to have babies to feel like a complete woman, but then tells me she wants to find a rich guy who will take care of her, lol, what a freak!

2007-01-07 17:05:55 · 4 answers · asked by Paulie Paul 3 in Singles & Dating

I was on a date last night and it was going really well. It was the third date. When he was dropping me off i went to get out of the car and he leaned in to kiss me and i backed away and moved my head quick. He sayed something about a kiss and moved in again and i moved my head again...and i felt so uncmfortable..i just got out and said bye. Was this completely messed up if me? How would you feel if you were him?

2007-01-07 17:05:31 · 9 answers · asked by Allie J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 17:05:26 · 6 answers · asked by saahny 1 in Singles & Dating

You were dead......... Somedays that sounds nice.

2007-01-07 17:04:36 · 12 answers · asked by fine_ass_fatty21 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Specifically in SoCal

2007-01-07 17:03:33 · 9 answers · asked by "Chanel-o" 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 17:03:21 · 21 answers · asked by high 1 in Singles & Dating