I was on a date last night and it was going really well. It was the third date. When he was dropping me off i went to get out of the car and he leaned in to kiss me and i backed away and moved my head quick. He sayed something about a kiss and moved in again and i moved my head again...and i felt so uncmfortable..i just got out and said bye. Was this completely messed up if me? How would you feel if you were him?
2007-01-07 17:05:31 · 9 answers · asked by Allie J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just didnt want to kiss him.
2007-01-07 17:06:06 · update #1
This is messed up... if you weren't into him, then no need to string him along (to a 3rd date).
But, if you didn't want to kiss him its your call. Just don't expect him to Call you again.
2007-01-07 17:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by chode b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you do well.
Even if he pays for 10 course dinner, or candle light dinner, if he is still an friend and you have no special feeling for him, he should learn to behave.
Kissing a gal on the third date is not something nice to do to a gal. Kissing by force is molest.
I do not think this guy is sincere. I have dated many gals, I don't do that even if I love this gal very much. In fact, if I love her, i don't want to frighten her off. I will show my outmost respect to her.
If I am him, I will probably be seeking for you apology.
Don't worry about him gal, for he doesn't care about you. He just wanna get what he want. avoid him, if I may say.
Wish you well
2007-01-08 01:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Melvin C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl that's fine! Good job for not caving in!! Yeah he might have gotten his ego roughed a bit but if he is a man he will be OK. If not,,, was a boy what ya wanted? If you didn't want to kiss him that's all the reason you need.
2007-01-08 01:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'd feel a little mad and sad. I mean come on its the third date how long are you going to wait. I think u need to tell him your sorry and tell him that you;ll kiss him when your ready. Let him know when you want it. He probably wont try again.
2007-01-08 01:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by biggin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing Sakashia, but next time say no and ***** slap him if her continues to persue! Use what i taught you and you should do fine and maybe one of my martial arts assassins of destiny one day. Until next time Sakashia. SEE YA IN HOLLYWOOD!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-08 01:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad, you don't have to kiss anyone you don't want to.
It's your body and your life, if you do not want to kiss him, DON'T! That means it's just not right and obviously it's not meant to happen.
2007-01-08 01:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u mentioned it was the 3rd date. i suppose i peck on the chin, a simple goodnight kiss would be fine...unless u know, he started to move his mouth and start to french you or touching u else where u can slap his *** hard...so ya...i think its quite messed up...dats juz my opinion.
2007-01-08 01:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly.. i'll say "damn.."
it would be sweeter date if end up with a kiss
but i think i'll understand what in your head at that moment
...keep your good role
2007-01-08 01:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by arjuna>mencari>cinta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably feels very ashamed and really stupid right now and he probably thinks you dont like him he will probably not call you again you will need to call him
2007-01-08 03:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by auzzie_bloke21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋