Just an observation I have made over the years and not saying that it's like this for everyone but it happens a lot.
2007-01-07 17:06:50 · 6 answers · asked by Rob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's kinda a funny question. Perhaps it is because trying to find someone with the EXACT same skin color, hue, darkness/lightness, etc. is near impossible. So, by default, somebody has to have the darker skin. I'll bet however that those individuals you speak of chose partners based on love, not skin color.
By the way, my wife is darker than me. I didn't choose that specifically, I fell in love that way.
2007-01-07 17:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother and I once discussed this. This happens all the time. Even in my family and even the men who ask me out me. The lighter skinned men approach me ten times more than the darker ones. I think people just mostly desire something different. I think it's great. This makes things balanced and the world isn't so boring and predictable.
2007-01-08 10:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Do_As_Infinity 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract.
2007-01-07 17:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by chode b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be the desire to be more "black." Have darker babies. OR it could be that thas just who they love or want to be with if darker or lighter.
2007-01-07 17:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by damalala 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
who cares, it just matters if you like the person... everyone has there own types and chemistry, whatever floats ur boat
2007-01-07 17:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by love j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe there attracted to them ,could be there personalty, How well they treat them etc.
2007-01-11 13:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by Incredible 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋