keep my mouth shut and deal with it. This weekend my bf and I went clubbing and once again he "accidently" rubbs up against other women. Ok, I know some of you are going to say "so what blah blah, its a club everyone does it", but really now, every time we go out he either "accidently" grabs the womans *** behind him or rubbs up against some woman. This time the bouncer was right there and got really angry and grabbed him away from her. So I know its not my imagination or just being jealous, because the woman was really mad!!! I know saying something to him will only cause a fight because he will just deny it and say I'm jealous. Really, at this point I almost laughed because I thought he was going to get thrown out of the club. I'm just so frustrated because we cant have any fun because he does this crap all the time. would you ladies confront him or just keep your mouth shut?
2007-01-07 17:17:08 · 7 answers · asked by meeahcat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep my mouth shut.
It wont do any good to confront him, as he sees no reason to change.
Next step, leave him and move on. he will still be the same years from now, and you will have moved on and found someone who does not have the need to molest women.
2007-01-07 17:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, confront him. If it leads to an argument....so what. Sorry, don't really think it will help but you could try.
He knows what he is doing and doesn't care how it affects you. What a jerk and some kind of pervert. Drop him and find a nice boyfriend. Good luck
2007-01-08 01:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord, woman!! Why are you even with someone like that? He is showing you no respect at all! If he wants to act like a pervert let him do it in another life without you!!!
2007-01-08 01:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by busybody12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't yell at him, but I would let him know that you feel totally disrespected when he does that and it really bothers you. Obviously if he continues to do it after you let him know how you feel and how it makes you feel then he just doesn't care and you shouldn't either...
2007-01-08 01:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by matter2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course confront him, one last time.
Look him dead in the eye and say, "If you do it one more time, I'm gone. Understand?"
He'll get the message.
2007-01-08 01:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what i would do...Flirt and grab mens asses in front of him and see how he likes it and then Id go and find a real man
2007-01-08 01:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by love j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself you think youre hot ?
is he hott for those girls ?
if you are hott do what he is doing
2007-01-08 01:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by JamesC 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋