this girl was going out with someone....and well i had liked her since before she got with her boyfriend.....then it came to a point where i kissed her and she began to cheat on him...and i loved this girl and i still do and she loved me..then it got to the point where jealousy started to take over sometimes...and it came to a point where my friend called her a hoe and she later told me she had lost so much love for me because of that so then i ended it and i thought and felt like i was over her because before then i had no interest in any other girls......until i eneded it
then she had gotten in to trouble because she had gotten a hickey from him.....and at that point i felt so almost over her i began to be friends with her b/f and he told me that he gave her a hickey and i felt this tremendous amount of jealousy..and i didnt know why..
and i still dont...i love her.......i just dont know what to do i cant get over her...what should i do...and why did i feel so jealous
2007-01-07 17:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by pixie7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a female.......if that changes anthing
2007-01-07 17:18:39 · update #1
well the first thing is do you like guys cuz i would say talk to the boyfriend and he might be willing to share i know when i was single and i liked a girl i would either talk to her and take her or i would talk to the guy and just join...(never did it you know join cuz i moved on) but that might be something to look in to but you really need to talk to her and see if she has the same feelings ans if she doesnt you need to move on it isnt healthy to hold on to something that isnt there but the best of luck to you sweety. oh and by the way my husband thinks that is just the coolest thing ( you being a girl and all)
oh and by the way the girl really douldnt be mad at you cuz your friend called her a ho!!! i would say the jealousy factor comes in because you spend time with her and her bf and you see what you want that is normal so dont worry about that just talk to he ok
2007-01-07 17:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have been jealous for any reason I mean it's hard to give up on someone whom you love but I think the main reason is just that, you love her. Anyways about getting over her well like I mentioned before it's hard to give up on someone, or to get over someone. I think you should just keep busy do things to keep your mind off of her and try to move on and find someone else. I know it mind sound wierd at first finding someone else but do it it'll help just let that other person know about this girl. Good Luck with all this Bye for now
2007-01-08 01:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by cute_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off let's get you a hobby. Something you love to do. Once you began to focus on that issue, then it will make it easier for you to move on. You are jealous because you answered you own self - you love her. But are you sure you love her, or is it infatuation. Love never fades. You don't have to stop loving her, but make sure you have your own life and move on in a healthy way
2007-01-08 01:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by joyfullycute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is not really the best person i think that she was enjoying both worlds thats why she let you do these things to her, but you will find someone else dont let her treat you this way, find new friends and stop hanging with her.
2007-01-08 01:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else better than her i mean if she done that to her boyfriend she would probably do it to you to your not jealous you just dont want her but you dont want anybody else to have her.
just move on and you will find someone faithful and so much better than her she doesnt seem to care about you so why should you care about her.
the more she see's that it worries you the more she will do it you dont need her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-08 01:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by loza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over her.
2007-01-08 01:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just sick. Why didn't you just come right out and say you are queer?
2007-01-08 01:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by alfa64dfwm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really like her.....you should just tell her that..
2007-01-08 01:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by Naughty 'n' Nice Scorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋