I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a month. We haven't seen each other for a few weeks. In the past week I went on a "date" of sorts with a guy who I know likes me and we sort of hit it off. I'm not very interested in this guy, but I definitely like the attention. I haven't told this guy about having a boyfriend. He wants to hang out this week and I want to, as well, but I'm not sure if it would qualify as cheating if I know I don't want to get romantically involved with this guy.
2007-01-07 17:07:30 · 28 answers · asked by Tangent Lines 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not a long distance relationship.
I really, really like my current boyfriend and am very happy with him. I really think I just crave the attention from this other guy.
All of you are wise...the fact that I'm even asking this question is a problem!
2007-01-07 17:26:12 · update #1
If you don't want to get romantically involved with him, and you don't let him know that, you're just being mean. You need to mention that you have a boyfriend. Good night!
2007-01-07 17:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cmon...why would you go on a date with a guy you didn't at least have some interest in. You obviously are into this other guy, and want to see where this weekend will lead to(perhaps the bedroom?).
If you want to know if its considered cheating, all you have to do is ask yourself the following question: "Do I need to keep this a secret from my boyfriend?" If the answer is yes, then you think it's cheating. If it's no, then you should just tell him, since it's no big deal.
Before you decide to get romantically involved or not with this other guy, maybe you should stick your hand down his pants and see how much he's working with, and compare it to your boyfriend...perhaps after this, you may want to keep him and dump your boyfriend...
2007-01-07 17:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by matter2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess technically it's not cheating because you haven't really done anything with him...however, it is not fair that you are leading him on. You have to be honest with him about your intentions. Since you haven't mentioned the fact that you have a boyfriend, this guy probably wants to go out with you and that's why he wants to hang out with you so much. If you honestly still want with as a friend, then tell him so. I will save you a lot of trouble, and it will keep you away from really cheating.
2007-01-07 17:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by 2Aplus4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating and if you are calling it a "date" you are romantically involved. By you not telling him you have a boyfriend you are cheating. If you are dating and like the attention, you don't need to have a long-distance relationship. It's not fair to either guy.
You have some moral choices to make.
2007-01-07 17:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by searious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case your no longer planning on telling your boyfriend, then its classed as being decietful. If some thing occurs or no longer your stil no longer being straightforward. in case you'll particularly no longer go, do not. go consisting of your instinct in this. you probable is basically no longer waiting to relax on the cinema besides, because you'll comprehend what your doing isn't accurate. basically ask your self how might want to you experience in case your BF went to the cinema with yet another woman!! i'm particular you'llmake the right decision xx
2016-12-28 09:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by kunich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's still considered cheating in my opinion. But if you like this guy so much and haven't seen your boyfriend in weeks anyway why don't you break up with him. Because it's not right to lead this guy on and he starts to like you to find out that you already have a boyfriend. Good Luck!
2007-01-07 17:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who doesnt like attention , but denying the fact that u have a boyfrend, is denying his significance in ur life, if that is true.. then sort matters with ur bf . tell him u need more attention, coz u are gettin it from other people.
girl if u are denying to urself dfat u have nothing for him, then why wud u wanna hide the fact taht u have a boyfrend...coz he want attend to u the way he does now? think about it!!
2007-01-07 18:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jinx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would believe the anwser would be yes first off your cheating yourself of what you want from a relationship second anytime you can't be honest with some one your cheating two people
2007-01-07 17:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by lone wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are right up there on the border of cheating on your b/f.
Giving your love to the guy is just as much of a betrayal of our b/f
as is having sex with the guy...
2007-01-07 17:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If You Dont want to get Romantically involved with this Guy.
Then why are You hanging Out with Him??!!!!
Why are you hiding Your boyfriend from Him????
2007-01-07 17:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋