i'm about too meet a girl through a friend and from what i'm told about her she really cool has a young child which i'm cool with. is it ok to have sex on a first date?
2007-01-07 17:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by delopoppa_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what is ok?
if you both agree what's wrong?
2007-01-07 17:14:46 · answer #1 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is it OK to write an exam on the first day of school? If this should happen and you write the exam, you would most likely fail. Same with sex on the first date - you might have sex, but it's more likely that the relationship won't be so gr8.
2007-01-07 17:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by jmk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what both people want and how the date goes. However, you shouldn' t expect it. If it happens, great, if not, it's ok. It's not right or wrong to have sex on the first date or ever, it's just something that shouldn't be expected to save yourself disappointments.
2007-01-07 17:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by 2Aplus4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if you are realy interested then dont you will then be seen as a decent guy and girls do have more respect for guys who dont try anything on the first night. And the girl wont think you only used her for sex
2007-01-07 17:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally I would say hell no, but every situation is different if you have a feeling that you think just by looking at that person she's your/or very positive could be your soulmate then I would say yes. go for it. But other than that feeling I would say absolutley not. Just wait a while.
2007-01-07 17:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by love j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It somewhat kills any future relationship with the person in my opinion. Because it's like in the long run, you'll have sex with them, it's like crossing the finish line. But if you start at the finish line, then yeah, boringish.
2007-01-07 17:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Enon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe a first date but DEFINITELY NOT a frist date. always be careful on a frist date. okkkkkkkkkk?!
2007-01-07 17:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. But before you make a move in that direction, be certain that she is into it. There is no reason to hurry.
2007-01-07 17:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOO no no no and NO!!! this is terribly WRONG!! what kind of a guy are you? you don't respect women...this is WRONG! you might as well sleep with prostitutes-->i agree with the other guy that you are a lowlife. please stop this terribe habit of living! It is ruining you as a respectable person! This is despicable!
2007-01-07 17:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by dancing4ever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its best to wait until your married if your relationship goes that far and its also up to the girl
2007-01-07 17:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by ken s 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋