Exactly what do women/girls want??

Question

What is it then?? I offer mine stability, dependability, loyalty 100% love and affection and a good life and she never bloody smiles. She's not having an affair I know that much but what the hell can the problem be?

Answer 1

She needs/wants to feel those things you are giving. It's very easy to let her know that she is your everything, but takes a lot of effort to make her feel like your everything. Sit back and evaluate what you could have done differently today to make her "feel" special instead of telling her she is special. Do the litlle things in life for her that you know she hates (cook, dishes, ironing, vacuming, etc) So what if you meet the stereotype of being "whipped" if so who cares as long as you love her. If all else fails, cut your losses and find someone who will appreciate you.

Answer 2

I have been married for 17 years. His love, financial security, homebound , being his top priority..kindness, intelligence, dependable..O the list goes on..is a big plus. He probably, has the same amount of misdoings, so it all balances out..

I am spoiled to a certain degree..but I also tell myself.."heyy he is a good man..u need to do your part, too." I would have to say is LOVE. If she isn't giving you this, you all need to talk about what's really going on. RELATIONSHIP has to meet both mind, body, and soul together and equally. One can't pull the other, both have to work together to make it work.

Relationship is a full time thing...and you both have to want it in order to work. Find out what the problem is. If she will not discuss it, tell her how you feel and tell her to take care of it or you just need to move on. And you should. Why burden yourself like this?

Also, remember when you are arguing.. you are venting your emotions and feelings at the time, and really when you get back to your senses...you really don't -truly- feel that way. So, always make sure you mend the hurt. IF you love her, you will help her feel better. And likewise, she should do the same. And I am not talking about flowers and sex and all the other nonsense of making up. Just a 'hey, I love you and I didn't mean it. At the time I said mean things because I was very upset." To avoid all this kind of scene..you guys talk about it in a adult manner, and be understandable, considerate, and have to be able to meet each other half way to agree upon it.

Answer 3

Aww. You sounds sweet to me. As far as what is going on with her, it could be any number of things, from depression to the fact that she might not be happy with the relationship anymore. I would say that the best thing to do would be to talk to her. Communication is the strongest part of any relationship. If it seems that she doesn't want to tell you because she thinks that you won't like the answer, encourage her and tell her that no matter what she tells you, you will still love her, or something to that effect. If it seems like she could be depressed, consider taking her to a doctor. I hope that everything goes well for you two.

Answer 4

wellman its not you MOVE ON dont take abuse,nip it in the bud.just think there is a woman waiting for you and she wont be at a bar more than likely.Brits arnt my line,but ill try, you seem well rounded(smart).tell her you need some time to think,and do just that, dint let that sex drive get in your way just read a short book. time is up,if she calls you she means well but may need a break her self,then give it to her straight, if she gives you the snub get on train take a trip and find another one. women like guys from out of town.if that doesn't work take a pottery class you will meet one there women like guys that get into art,trust me on this one but dint be a BS artist be a real person.this gal sounds spoiled move on man ,move on.now you feel like a new man already

Answer 5

Maybe she's the type to keep her emotions under wraps. Have a talk with her sometime, it could have nothing at all to do with you. There's always the chance that she just isn't as in love with you as you are with her, but it could just as likely be something like depression.

No matter what the problem is, one of the things I value most with my man is when he does notice on the days I'm not happy and makes the effort to talk with me and see what's going on.

Communication! It's important in any relationship, be it boss/employee, mother/daughter, etc, but vital with the one person you spend the most time with.

Answer 6

Listen, listen and listen some more! She must love you otherwise she would have left allready! Something is bothering her (doesn't mean it's you) and she doesn't know how to sort it out. Tell her you'll listen to her whole story without saying a word before she's finished. Then when she's finished you tell her you'll think about how it can be sorted out. You don't get mad and you don't tell her something right away! You think about it for a day and really try to see her point and then you give a nice answer!

Answer 7

Just give her a chance, maybe ya'll need to take a break from your relationship for awhile...maybe she needs a couple weeks to be free and think about life. You are being a good man by giving her these things, but dont give up, keep trying, make sure to listen to her, and be there for her, and maybe she'll come aroudn

Answer 8

(Heck, if you offer all that, come on over and leave her to pout!)
Seriously, though, maybe she has clinical depression?Has she had a full checkup lately to eliminate any underlying illnesses? Have you been together a long time and relationship needs a new spark? Most girls are basically happy, so you may have to give her the 3rd degree and get to the bottom of it.

Answer 9

women are complex.......

to feel secure
to feel swept off are feet
to feel loved
to have stability
to shop/cook/maintain a family this one depends on the women
to have hot wild sex sometimes....it does us all good
to be able to laugh......smile and....no matter how long you with a man a women want him to
MAKE HER LAUGH

if she never smiles stop trying impress her with what you see as your quality points.....think of when first met what did you use to do then....did you take her out spontaneously.

did you talk to her more. did you take more interest in her did you use to have things you did together but dont now...witih women you need to keep them feeling wanted

Answer 10

Haven't you heard...girls tend to be attracted to the losers because they are fun, non-committing, and emotionallly safe.
Decent guys like you, which by the way are not a dime a dozen, to some girls are boring, predictable, and cautious.
Go out and find yourself a real woman. You're rocking the cradle with this one.