Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

I NEED HELP WITH HOW DO I TRY TO LEAVE A CONTROLLING FAMILY...I GOT MARRIED IN THE STATE OF KY...I HAD 3 KIDS FROM PREVIOUS MARRIAGE.THEN I HAD A CHILD FROME MY SECOND MARRIAGE. MY HUSBAND NOW HAS TRICK ME INTO SIGNING A PAPER IN FRONT OF A LAWYER SAYING THAT I CANT LEAVE THE STATE OF INDIANA..MY FAMILY WAS TAKING CARE OF MY OTHER CHILDREN IN KY AT THE TIME, WHILE WE TOOK THE CHILD WE HAVE TOGETHER TO SEE HIS FAMILY IN (INDIANA)..SO NOW IM STUCK I WANT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE AND I WANT TO GET BACK TO KY WHERE MY OTHER 3 CHILDREN R WAITING ON ME....HE SAYS IF I LEAVE WITH HER HE WILL PUT ME IN JAIL...HE HAS BEEN IN THE LOONY BIN TWICE SINCE THIS PAPER HAS BEEN SIGNED....I HAVE A WAY TO SNEAK TO KY BUT AM AFRAID OF LOSING ALL MY CHILDREN....WHAT SHOULD I DO? DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW MUCH TROUBLE I WILL GET INTO IF I LEAVE? I HAVENT MUCH MONEY...DOES ANYONE KNOW IF I SHOULD GO BACK TO KY AND FILE FOR DIVORCE AND EMERGANCY CUSTODY...I AM STUCK IN THE HOUSE WITH HIS GRANDMA THAT IS SUPPORTING HIM

2007-01-07 17:03:19 · 5 answers · asked by cupidzip 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i dnt wanna sound like a momas boy but i know i will
heres the deal im 19 and i still live whith my mom and step dad i help out i work full time and everything but since my mother and i arnt very happy with the way thing are going here, were planing on moving out 1 )i dont want to leave my mother alone we came to the US legaly and were basically just here for each other im a patient for Shriners Burn Hospital FYI.

i do have friend we do hang out but how should i do it with my mother PLEASE dont think shes a burden she has told me many times she doesnt mind being alone but shes really been the only one there for me and i dont wanna leave her i do want my own apartment but what shoudl I do

PS no BULLSHIT stating "oh maybe yall should go back to mexico blah blah blah."
REAL answers
SERIOUS answers

2007-01-07 17:02:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

guys i liek this girl,ive bin trying to get her for a while,like i text her she texts me,but like if i say heyyyy babeee ,or heyyyy hunn,shell just anser hey,i really wnat this girl to be my gf,ill do anything,kan u wonderful ppl at yahoo help???

2007-01-07 17:02:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So this guy was like talking to me for 45 minutes at this party - his friends tried to get him to go away with them twice, he said no both times... left once briefly and said "you're staying here right" - and i was like - sure...and then he insisted on getting my number and contact info (card). and then he gave me his cell & card.. so 2 weeks later, no call... after that whole presentation? what was that for? we had a teeny tiny kiss goodnight.

the only other thing is that after we said "good night" - i ended up seeing him at this other party... but i was with all of my friends so i dont think i looked stalker-ish... i just know the same ppl sorta. i left that place very quickly anyway. I know 1/2 the replies will just be "get over it" - and i am over it (he wasnt that special) - but it's the curiosity that plagues me. why act 150% into me and then vanish?

2007-01-07 17:01:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's twice as old, was high school teacher, both agreed.

2007-01-07 17:00:58 · 19 answers · asked by 2Aplus4 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend haven't known eachother too long i guess but i feel really connected to him. It's cool cuz its like we can read eachothers thoughts just through looks and our eyes and stuff. It surprises me. We haven't known eachother that long but we both swear that we look familiar but we just can't figure out from where we know eachother. So its like we have known eachother forever but not... and i just find it odd that we can connect so quickly. Why is it that some people can read eachothers thoughts so well? I mean i could understand if we knew knew eachother for a long time but we've only (at least i guess) known eachother for a few months. But seriously we can have a conversation with our eyes!

2007-01-07 17:00:50 · 4 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3 in Friends

He has things at my house, one expensive piece of equipment. I had to go out of town to work today, he knew it. He calls my daughter when he is sure I am gone and asks her to let him in. She lost her key, I already told her he may call. Why doesn't he want to face me? Why the leaving and no phone call. He has been gone since Thursday. I heard nothing till I got an email from him on Saturday. Said he was in a wreck in another town on Thursday night. He stays at my house everyday. He said he got back early Saturday morning from the hospital. Now why do you think he wouldn't call me when he got back and tell me what happened..Strange..

2007-01-07 17:00:48 · 4 answers · asked by wondering1960 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 17:00:26 · 3 answers · asked by Necip U 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is a decent bra size?

2007-01-07 17:00:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know how much it costs to get married just at the court house?

I've heard that it don't cost much, but was wondering if anyone knew?

2007-01-07 17:00:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy who i was very close to... we were extremely good friends for 2 months ,, sharing secrets getting close (we neva met tht often) its lik best frnds.. he went to london for studies in sept..it all like drifted apart.. i mailed him n i neva got a reply for lik 2 n half months...i called him n got thro a wrong no... i was heart broken.. i cried soo many times thinkin about the awesome time ive had with him and now tht its like over... i din expect this from him.. he dint even bother to get back in touch.. i left a lil rude kinda msg on his public blog so he realised n got back to me sayin hes begging sorry for acting so rude and tht he was busy adjusting there.. we kept in touch like this for a month..n now hes back here from london since 8 days n yet hes not bothered to get in touch..i felt soooo bad..theres nothing i can do...i dont want our relation to end... but i cant stand this behaviour...because in the 1st case i dont know what went wrong for such behavioue form him

2007-01-07 16:59:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know what to do
i told her not to get with him becuz his 20 and she only 16 years old. come on she should of known that he was going to cheat on her. i know the girl that his been, with i know her name and where she lives
but i don't know how to tell my friend

2007-01-07 16:59:23 · 17 answers · asked by vanessa c 1 in Friends

A good girl friend of mine asked if I wanted to mutually share our deepest secrets with each other. She thought this was a good way for us to be accountable for our deepest thoughts. Why does she want us to share our deepest thoughts with each other?

2007-01-07 16:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My colors are green and peach/orange. It's a casual beach wedding in Mexico. My MOH helped narrow it down to 2 dresses.

(click to see it in coral) http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2899823/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6001837?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6001837&P=1

http://www.overstock.com/cgi-bin/d2.cgi?PAGE=PROFRAME&PROD_ID=1809467

2007-01-07 16:58:14 · 32 answers · asked by stephyrose87 3 in Weddings

What to do with x-husband,last year he left me to go back to an x,-Two month later when I had the divorce filed and was happily moving on and dating ,moving away,he turned up begging,went to my male friends house begging him not to steal me,He slept out side my house,my boyfriends house,showed up everywhere I went,cried on all my family members shoulders,went around dirty like a hobo and when I refused him enough times he stabbed himself in the chest while handing me roses,The hospital put him in the mental for a few day's the spanish Dr. told me take him back he just loves you.He would often get on the ground and hold my leggs and beg,like when I was on a date,After six months of this crap I gave in because I new I couldn't have aa happy life with his death on my hands.I couldn't even stand to look at him and thru him out.How do I make him stop? I need to work,have a normal life The divorce has been final a long time.I want to enjoy being I love again,not looking over my shoulder.

2007-01-07 16:57:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so, why?

ym: habib122873

2007-01-07 16:57:19 · 19 answers · asked by habib122873 1 in Singles & Dating

i didn't find out until 7 months after the incident (and i found out on my own). Until i found out, he was also still talking to the girl after we got married. it's been almost 2 weeks since the discovery of my husband's infidelity and even though it was before everything was official, i still feel betrayed and he killed the trust i had for him. i have no idea whether or not he did this more than once, because he's been away for training in the army since the begining of our relationship. should i forgive him and just move on (although it's hard)? i'm a really easy going girl and i still love him...he's my husband. and please....DON'T SAY DIVORCE OR SEPERATE BECAUSE I DON'T BELIEVE IN THAT

2007-01-07 16:57:11 · 15 answers · asked by yung_boricua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is afried to leave him, she wants to see her babies grow up. What rights does a mother have who is a stay at home mommy of 3. Has not been able to work outside the home due to husband work schedule, (he is never home, always traveling) How would the courts rule if she wanted to leave the state where they live? What rights does she have? Will she lose her babies do to not being the bread winner?

2007-01-07 16:56:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I do not fart in my sleep. I have recorded video and audio of me sleeping and I can say what I don't do and do in my sleep. I carry on conversations, walk, clean house, clean out the refridgerator, ect. I know this because I have gone to bed in a nightgown and woke up fully dressed. I have caught myself by waking up in the kitchen pouring a drink all over the counter and floor, pepsi sure is cold on your feet at 2 a.m. I have woke up to discover that I emptied the dishwasher onto the bathroom counter. Does anyone else do these things?

2007-01-07 16:55:00 · 8 answers · asked by AnGie0607 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should i not be aloud to date if im bipolar? Im 18 never really had a SERIOUS girl friend and ive been told that i shouldent be aloud to date becouse of my illness. What are your opinions on this.

Im afraid of being alone all my life and thats the last thing i want but i dont want to pull a girl in the middle of my problems im confused.

PLEASE no rude comments becouse i have hierd them all

2007-01-07 16:54:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's the same dress. One comes in white and is $150 more. The other only comes in ivory. What's your opinion?

white - http://www.bridalonlinestore.com/store/Lola.asp
cheaper ivory - http://www2.jcpenney.com/jcp/Products.aspx?DeptID=597&CatID=36960&CatTyp=DEP&ItemTyp=G&GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=0ff1d78&ProdSeq=2&ProdCount=5&ShowMenu=T&ShopBy=0&SearchString=white+gown&RefPage=SearchProducts&CmCatId=SearchResults|SearchDepartment|SearchProducts|597&FromBanners=N&S4DeptID=597&S4PageNum=1&S4PageSize=28&S2HighLight=False&Dep=women

2007-01-07 16:54:17 · 39 answers · asked by stephyrose87 3 in Weddings

I need honest answers please.

2007-01-07 16:53:29 · 14 answers · asked by KitterKat2310 2 in Singles & Dating

I love a girl named emily and i cant stop thinking about her!!

i feel sad when i know i can't have her.

i know i am only 15..

but she is dating somebody already what should i do to get mi mind off her?

2007-01-07 16:53:13 · 13 answers · asked by iamflow 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it as often as you'd like? If not, why aren't you having sex more? Is it a difference in sex drives? Are there other factors?

Just curious. :)

2007-01-07 16:52:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lately it seems like me and my bf have been having sex more. i'm afraid that it might ruin the relationship if we do it everyday. i just recently found out that he was more sexually active that what i thought he was. we've been going out for almost 1 year and he all of a sudden told me he was. will having sex everyday end up controlling our relationship and ruin it?

2007-01-07 16:51:51 · 11 answers · asked by Ree 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom with 4 kids my oldest is 20 and just had a baby I was exstatic at first gave her and her boyfriend their own room gave up another room to make a nurcery thaught it would be nice to watch my grandaughter grow and be a close part of her life to make a long story short they refuse to contribute anything from housework to 20 dollars for soap and water so for they are taking care of baby needs not only is this a hardship finacially it is emotially on me and the kids plz sombody outthere give me some good advice my best scenioro would be get rid of the bad bo but that is not going to happen

2007-01-07 16:51:39 · 4 answers · asked by gramma2hot4u 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so me and my wife have a beautiful 6mnth old daughter and for my wifes bought herself a little dog like a month after the birth. she spends most of her day taking care of the dog buying the dog clothes and dressing it up than she does even looking at our daughter.
why does she love this dog so much she holds are daughter like once and day and has almost no emotion towards her.
if she doesnt start taking care and paying attion of our daughter i might throw that darn dog out of a window.
should i leave her?
i dont want my daughter to grow up without a mother but she seriously doesnt care about our beautiful baby
HELP

2007-01-07 16:50:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just recently lost my virginity and I'm still a little unsure about some things. I have some questions.

1) How long does it usually last for? Whats a normal amount of time?

2) Are girls supposed to orgasm too?

3) How long til a guy can "go" again?

2007-01-07 16:50:33 · 21 answers · asked by Allie J 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl wants to sleep with a guy and the guy wants to sleep with her. There is only one problem. They are both in relationships. Sexual tension is there everytime they are together. What does this mean? What do they do?

2007-01-07 16:50:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 16:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley L 1 in Singles & Dating