i don't know what to do
i told her not to get with him becuz his 20 and she only 16 years old. come on she should of known that he was going to cheat on her. i know the girl that his been, with i know her name and where she lives
but i don't know how to tell my friend
2007-01-07 16:59:23 · 17 answers · asked by vanessa c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
staying out of it is best.
but be there for her when she needs you. no "i told you so's" either.
be a sister.
2007-01-07 17:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by mommo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A 16 year old Kid has No Business with an 20 year Old Adult in the first Place 16 yr old is minor 20 is Not Tell her as gently as you can and also (Later When She's Over It) she should look for someone her own age!
2007-01-08 01:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Leveler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why would you hook up your friend with a 20yr. old! Can you say Rape! Anyway, you need to tell your friend that her boyfriend is cheating on her and show her some proof. That way she doesn't blame you for trying to break them up on purpose.
If you see him out with another female, use your camera phone and snap the picture and email it to her!
Good Luck
2007-01-08 01:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by ms.hunnipot32 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't you want to know if your boyfriend was cheating on you? I say tell her, she has a right to know, i mean shes gonna find out one day anyway. Telling her will save her feeling like a complete fool.
2007-01-08 01:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by beaner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a true friend to her you would tell her weather or not she believes you is a different story. However you as a friend has done your part. Do what is right. Wouldn't you want her to tell you if it was your boyfriend doing this to you. God knows i would. Just be upfront with her tell her what you know.. Good luck
2007-01-08 01:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her. I know that if i was your friend i would NEED you to tell me! Put yourself in her shoes, and think how you would feel if your friend knew about this, but didn't tell you. I would not only feel betrayed by my boyfriend, but also by my friend for knowing and not telling me. I know it is a hard thing to do, but i think it is for the best.
Ms. Hunnip: she did NOT hook them up, if you read her question correctly, she warned her about him...
2007-01-08 01:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your friend tell her what you see. Let her know you care about her and dont want to see her hurting over someone who is not worth losing any time over.
2007-01-08 01:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by bewiched 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend she will still be. Tell her. Provide proof. Let the chips fall where they may.
2007-01-08 01:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You stay out of it. As long as your not the one that is helping him cheat on her, it's none of your business.
2007-01-08 01:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could stay out of it but if she gets hurt later, you might feel it's your fault. Break it to her kindly if you can.
2007-01-08 01:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by dana5169 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her. Let her find out herself, cause it's her own fault. unless it gets too serious between them. she should find out eventually though.
2007-01-08 01:02:18 · answer #11 · answered by Crystal R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋